Dating a Friend’s Ex; Yes or Nah??

There’s a #GIrlCode that we ladies live up to every sinle day! NO dating your friends Ex, or relatives Ex…our code runs too deep till you can’t like or accept advances from a guy that your friend is eying. It’s crazy! Men on the other hand have this code twisted…as always I did a survey in the office. In summary, most of the dudes had no issue their Ex getting nasty with their boy, very few were like “NO” that can’t and shouldn’t happen, while another was of the opinion that situation depended highly on the level of relationship he had with the said Ex.

So I think this whole situation is just a woman issue…but what can you really do when it happens? You get your Ex and your pal doing the nasty, do you pull each others eyes out, walk away dignified and hurt? What would you do? My colleague Sue expressed in detail that she will call you to the side and tell you off or she can go be with your Ex, I mean, two can play the dirty game.

Personally I won’t do ish…my mamma taught me to give used toys to the needy. They deserve each other anyway. But, the said ‘friend’ and I are done..just like his lousy ass is.

The #GirlCode runs so deep to the point some friends expect you not to talk or befriend their Exes! This code is serious

My ranting rises from yesterday’s episode of ‘How to Find a Husband’, the episode showed Jackie (Mumbia Maina) introducing her Bae Bobbby (Joed) to her cousin. Not knowing Abigail (Lizz Njagah), the cousin is Bobby’s Ex. The silence was loud after that introduction!

Keep it Ghafla! For yesterday’s episode. Next episode will air on Tuesday at 10pm on Maisha Magic channel 161.