{"id":17620,"date":"2018-02-23T15:17:29","date_gmt":"2018-02-23T15:17:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/gh\/?p=17620"},"modified":"2018-02-23T15:17:29","modified_gmt":"2018-02-23T15:17:29","slug":"17620-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/gh\/17620-2\/","title":{"rendered":"25 Ghanaian Women Candidly Give Reasons For Cheating On Their Husbands"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Looking at our part of the world, extra marital affair is considered an abomination, especially when it&#8217;s by the woman. Most of the times, men are made to go scot-free even when they are caught in the action. But the case is different with women. So does that mean the women are not cheating?<\/p>\n<p>Ghaflagh.com has come across the candid confessions of\u00a0 25 women to Counselor David Papa Bondze-Mbir on Facebook. Each of these women explains why she&#8217;s cheating in her marriage.<\/p>\n<h3>Their reasons? Well read on and find out for yourself;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>1.<\/strong> \u201cMy mother raised me and my sisters as LADIES. She did her very best to train us up well. I know a lot more women were brought up well too, however, women are just as bad as men in this cheating game, except &#8211; women get away with it more because we are more emotional, charismatic, and play victim more. In all though, men and women are the same.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t give a guy any less respect in this aspect than a woman. I am cheating on my husband because I am no longer in love with him. I used to love him, but the love died, someway, somehow, along the journey. We\u2019ve been married for 12 years, and I\u2019ve been seeing this other man (who just happens to be the true love of my life) for Nine (9) years now. We are both married with kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>2.<\/strong> \u201cI am addicted to fine, strong, men. If I see a man and he is fine, and looks strong, I begin to lust after him. I am blessed with a good paying job, so I very often pay less attention to that individual\u2019s financial status. My educational background and working experiences have opened more opportunities to me, created more hunger to want and have everything, and has also made me less fearful, less careful.<\/p>\n<p>You just have to look fine and strong, and I will figure out a way to employ you for something worth paying for \u2013 for a brief moment. My husband travels a lot to do businesses, so I am always all by myself. We\u2019ve been married for Seven (7) years.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>3.<\/strong> \u201cI love my husband to death, however, if I am cheating on him today, it\u2019s basically because I&#8217;ve got an excuse: Was young (24 years) when he married me. I hadn\u2019t had my fair share of fun. I was, and still am an idiot, even though I know how to act all innocent and \u2018good\u2019 in his eyes. It was my plan to quit this habit of cheating when I turned 30.<\/p>\n<p>I am 31 years this year, and I have fallen in love with the one I am cheating with. He and I have been seeing each other for the past Seven (7) years, and he\u2019s one of my husband\u2019s closest friends. He\u2019s married. I really wish I could end this affair, however, my heart is already in it, full-time. And, he doesn\u2019t try so hard to please me sexually.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s just better than my husband in ALL angles. Dave, I orgasm, just at the mere sight of him. I think I am partly in love with my husband because he provides the security (financially) and comfort that I need as a woman (just ask any young woman married to a mature rich man). I spend almost half of it on my boyfriend though.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>4.<\/strong> \u201cAs a child, I heard on countless occasions, how my parents argued and \u2018fought\u2019 in the bedroom, because my dad was cheating on my mother. I saw how unhappy Mum always was, and how fast she aged and looked wrinkly even in her late 30s.<\/p>\n<p>While she worried daily and felt miserable, dad always looked good, and happy, and unconcerned, and handsome, and young, even as they both aged.<\/p>\n<p>There was a time someone mistook my mother for my daddy\u2019s older sister, because according to that person, there was no way my dad could have been married to that \u2018old\u2019 lady; meanwhile, in actual sense, my father was about 10 years older than my Mum.<\/p>\n<p>Dave that was the \u2018turning point\u2019 for me. I have been \u2018living\u2019 since \u2013 since. I am still in this marriage because I wanted kids. I have kids now. Their father takes very good care of their every need, and mine too.<\/p>\n<p>I am just being careful so I am not caught one of these days. An affair may not be a good thing, however, it has made me look young, and my husband is pleased with my fresh looks. In his head, I am looking good for him. Sex is awesome in my matrimonial home, thanks to the outside experience. What he doesn\u2019t know wouldn\u2019t hurt him in any way.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read On;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>5.<\/strong> \u201cMine begun after my first pregnancy. The gynecologist who TOUCHED me, during my pregnancy, touched a nerve in me that \u2018did\u2019 me something; something I had never felt with my husband before, ORGASM!<\/p>\n<p>The doctor realized I loved the way he had touched me. There was a nurse in his consulting room, but she did not see what was going on. A week to my due date, my husband had traveled to work outside Accra, and I needed to be touched, to feel that feeling I felt in the consulting room. I had the doctor\u2019s mobile number, so he came over to check on me.<\/p>\n<p>He made passionate love to me, in my husband\u2019s house, every time he closed from work, till I gave birth. I will be Three (3) years in marriage this year.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>6.<\/strong> \u201cI have been in a long term sexual affair with one man for over 15 years. I don\u2019t love him, but I love the sex. He gives me the greatest sex that I can possibly imagine. I have been married for Six (6) years. And yes, I love my husband very much.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>7.<\/strong> \u201cI am married to a preacher. I love him, but he\u2019s hardly home. Preaching assignments here and there. The little time we get to be together too is always ruined by visitors and phone calls from Church members and their \u2019wahala\u2019. Dave, I can\u2019t even compete for his attention, let alone, time. That\u2019s why I am having an affair with my Ex-boyfriend. At least, he sees me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>8.<\/strong> I am married to a very kind hearted man. Everything at home is peace and calm and normal&#8230; I mean, homey. I drive to work and take the kids to school. He drives from work to pick up the kids. Once a week or twice we have sex.<\/p>\n<p>But, Dave, it\u2019s like we are not dying to see each other. There&#8217;s no little note of love, no romantic gestures, no surprise gift. There&#8217;s no suspense, no excitement. Rather, I can&#8217;t wait to be alone and drinking with my girlfriends on our girls night out.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>Ok, so on one of such nights out, I met this gorgeous looking guy, and I thought, I could so flirt if it weren&#8217;t for my wedding ring. My girlfriends (who are all married, and also, parents) were all drooling over him, and I thought, it&#8217;s just a bit of flirting, no harm there. I took off my ring, put it in my purse, and I walk to the bar where he was sitting.<\/p>\n<p>He turned to look at me, he smiled, and then offered to buy me a drink. Dave that was when I realized I wasn\u2019t truly \u2018happily\u2019 married. I accepted, even though I shouldn&#8217;t have led him on. But oh, god, the way I got to giggle and laugh with him, it was pure heaven. The spark was back in my eyes and I made plans to go out to dinner later in the week.<\/p>\n<p>At a point, I considered taking back my \u201cyes\u201d to dinner, but then I got home, and my husband barely looked at me before turning back to his computer, and the kids were screaming for me to do this or that. Instantly, dinner with the hot stranger from the bar sounded like a great idea\u2026 And, it\u2019s been a wonderful idea for Four (4) years.<\/p>\n<p>So many good moments have happened with him in the picture, and, my life has never been the same since. I am a very happy woman today. He makes me feel like the woman that I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>9.<\/strong> \u201cHello Dave, I am 34 years old, and have been married for Five (5) years. I did trust my husband a lot but he betrayed that trust by cheating on me about Two (2) years ago. I was angry and hurt and disappointed.<\/p>\n<p>He showed remorse, apologized and then, cut things off with the other woman, and again, went ahead to take some other actions to make things right again with us. I did forgive him as I felt it was a mistake, and he was genuinely sorry. The problem is, it\u2019s been very hard for me to forget about it, and I feel the only way to get over this is to cheat too. It\u2019s been two years now, and I still have the urge to cheat too.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>To make matters worse &#8211; for a couple of months now he is hardly home and stays out late every night due to work. We are hardly having any sex because he is mostly tired and not interested. Again, the way he is constantly protecting his phone, I\u2019m beginning to think there\u2019s more keeping him out and not only work.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, I am not going to sit down and lose my sanity and peace of mind if I find out he is cheating again so I gave in to one of my numerous admirers. Yes, I love my husband, and I do not want to leave him, and I know he loves me too.<\/p>\n<p>This new guy is divorced and understands it\u2019s only to satisfy my sexual pleasure and inner peace. It has been good and very helpful to my general wellbeing. I am a very happy person now and even my husband has noticed. He talks about how I have become very understanding lately, and even compliments my looks each day. So yes, I am happily cheating and do not regret it. I hope my husband never finds out but if he does I\u2019ll understand what ever actions he decides to take.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>10.<\/strong> \u201cMy husband lost his job and was home for a long while. I watched him go for one unsuccessful job interview after the other. I watched him depressed and almost giving up hope.<\/p>\n<p>I knew of someone who could help him start all over again. That \u2018someone\u2019 is actually the father of a former school mate. That \u2018someone\u2019 is the person I am sleeping with, aside my husband.<\/p>\n<p>He gave my husband an opportunity to work again. My husband only believes he has the job because he is qualified for it. We managed to make everything look formal: as in, how he heard of the vacancy, the formal processes to application, etc. He has no idea about his boss and I. I am in love with both men, Dave. I don\u2019t know how possible that can be, but it\u2019s happening to me right now. And they both love me too.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read On;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>11.<\/strong> \u201cI\u2019ve been married for a few months (not even up to a year). I guess I\u2019m cheating on my husband because he didn\u2019t really meet my expectation. Don\u2019t ask me what that means \u2013 because I am still figuring it out myself. He\u2019s not enough for me in everything. My present worry is how secure (financially) I am going to be, with him.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why I married him. Know, it sounds foolish, but that\u2019s the truth, Dave. I still can\u2019t name one reason why I married him. Of course, I love him, but what kind of love it is \u2013 I don\u2019t know. The man I am having an affair with, gives me GHs 2, 500, every two weeks.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s been Seven (7) months now, and he\u2019s still wiring that amount into my account. According to him, I deserve it. I deserve to be pampered. He makes me happy, Dave. Sometimes, I wish I could give him a baby instead.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>12.<\/strong> \u201cPrior to meeting my husband, I was the side-chick of his friend (the same friend who introduced him to me as a potential \u2018catch\u2019. He told my husband I am a marriageable material). My husband is financially sound, so the deal was for me to get him to fall for me, marry me, and then, give him his share of the \u2018cake = my husband\u2019s money).<\/p>\n<p>One thing he did not know was, I was already in love with him, but because he was married, I had to go along with his plan to date his friend. I am happy at the moment in my matrimonial home, however, I would have been the happiest woman alive if I were to have married him instead of my husband.<\/p>\n<p>Sex with him is memorable and enjoyable. We still sleep around, anytime my husband is out of coverage area (which happens a lot in every month.)\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Woman No. 13;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>13.<\/strong> \u201cI\u2019ve been married for 19 years. Been cheating for 15 years, with the same man. I believe he is my soul mate. We argue, we fight, we disagree, we makeup with make-up sex, we make time for ourselves. Though he is also married with kids, we have managed to not let our actions affect our marriages in any way. We have bought our own little Two (2) bedroom house in a gated community, where we meet every now and then, to keep warmth. We\u2019ve agreed not to engage in any extra affairs: so we just stick to each other and our significant others at home.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>14.<\/strong> \u201cMoney\/security\/comfort is the ONLY reason why I am still married to my husband. He is NOT my type. He wanted a trophy wife, and I am all that, and more (you can see from my profile pictures). I am beautiful, I know\u2026 And I am proud of that.<\/p>\n<p>I know what it means to be in need of help and money and i&#8217;ve known poverty. I have suffered before. I&#8217;ve been hungry before, Dave. So, when I took a second look at myself in SSS, and understood why \u2013 almost everybody (males and females) would want to take a quick glance\/stare at me whenever I passed by, I put my beauty into good use.<\/p>\n<p>The man I am cheating on my husband with is my SSS boyfriend. He understands why I had to marry this other man. We have a plan. We are both pursuing higher education in order to be financially independent.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>We are building our own Five (5) bedroom house. My husband does not even know my son is not his child. My boyfriend and I are still putting two and two together until it\u2019s time, and then I will leave my matrimonial home \u2013 going radio silent. I am just hoping he dies a natural death or I may have to figure something else out if he starts to prove stubborn. (There are numerous ways to kill a cat). I don\u2019t love my husband, Dave, so I honestly do not have any sympathy left in my being for him or his feeling.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read On;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>15.<\/strong> \u201cI am Two (2) months old in my marriage, and I am already in an emotional affair with someone else. My husband is a good guy and all, but Dave, I am not that much into him anymore. I thought I did, that\u2019s why I agreed to marry him.<\/p>\n<p>We had known each other for a few years \u2013 so I am a little bit surprised as to why I feel we are not even that connected intimately. We have very good sex and we do communicate so well. He loves me so dearly, but\u2026 I feel he\u2019s the only one enjoying this marriage.<\/p>\n<p>I have practically fallen out of love with him. The day I will physically cheat on him, I would be getting out of this marriage. And it\u2019s going to be in April, 2018. My true love is coming to Ghana, to take me away. I have already secured a Visa to return with him.<\/p>\n<p>I have no plans of divorcing my husband. Neither do I plan to tell him about my true feelings. He would return from work one day in April, and find all my belongings at home alright\u2026 but I would be gone.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Woman No.16<\/h3>\n<p><strong>16.<\/strong> \u201cEverything was almost perfect at home: we had so much love, trust, respect and peace of mind at home. We had dreams and hopes for our children. I was faithful for the 13 years I\u2019d known him, until late 2017. He was involved in an accident in November, 2016, and has been in a wheelchair since. Doctors have assured us that he will walk again, however, I do not care anymore. I nursed my husband\u2019s wounds, took very good care of him for the whole of 2017, and took upon the responsibility of being the \u2018head of the family\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>Everything, I did for him, because I loved him wholehearted; because he was the father of my kids. I was looking through the damaged items found on the scene of his accident, which had been packed in a bag \u2013 since 2016. I came across his crushed phone, so I took the sim out; bought a brand new phone to surprise him with it, and guess my surprise when I inserted his sim?<\/p>\n<p>After reading and listening to 12 texts and voice messages sent in by two different phone numbers, all women, I did not need a scientist to explain to me exactly what had been going on in his life outside home.<\/p>\n<p>Dave, I did not even have to think twice\u2026 I willingly gave in to a secret admirer\u2019s demands in a heartbeat. I&#8217;ve found a professional caretaker to be attending to my husband, while my focus, now, is on my kids and my new man. I have NO regrets what-s0-ever, Dave.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>17.<\/strong> \u201cDavid, I know you are protecting our identities \u2013 that is why I am feeling a little bit comfortable, opening up to ONLY you. I am pleading with you, if you still are not so sure of how safe the security of your Facebook account is, kindly copy my message into a Word document or folder, and DELETE my message \u2013 to protect me, should anyone try hacking your system. Thank you.<\/p>\n<p>I am in my second marriage. And yes, I am cheating on my husband. I wasn\u2019t always like this: I used to be faithful and content with only one man. I used to love and trust, from deep within. However, my first husband turned me into something I never knew I could be: A murderer! I killed him, Dave\u2026 I poisoned my first husband, and watched him die in our bedroom, painfully.<\/p>\n<p>Mixed a deadly, colorless, tasteless, odorless substance with my lotion, smeared it gently on my breast, rubbed it on my vagina, put some on my lips: I coated every part of my body I knew he enjoyed putting his mouth and tongue on, and watched him swallow every bit of his own saliva, mixed with the substance.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>Dave, sometimes, a cheating, filthy, lying bastard, ought to die \u2013 for you to live. I deserved to live, Dave. I deserved to live. I\u2019m glad our incompetent Ghanaian medical doctors could still not diagnose the true cause of his death after the autopsy. Everybody, including his family, all think he died from an acute liver problem.<\/p>\n<p>I am cheating on my current husband because I don\u2019t want to lose another man in a marriage; so I would rather want to cheat on him too, as a form of closure \u2013 in order not to lose my mind.<\/p>\n<p>He started cheating on me when I was Seven (7) months pregnant. Smh! These foolish men eh: we give them everything, yet, they choose to fool around. I feel very sorry for this my current husband. I\u2019m still timing him closely. His time will come.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>18.<\/strong> \u201cI was dating Two (2) men when I found out that I was pregnant. Had to choose between the two guys, which amongst them fit into my idea of a \u2018perfect\u2019 father\/husband. I chose my husband over the other. My husband is the \u2018Good-Guy\u2019 type, very homey, decent, responsible and committed.<\/p>\n<p>The other gentleman is more of the \u2018Fun\u2019 type, full of energy and jokes. I don\u2019t want to lose any of them \u2013 because they both mean different things to me. So, yeah, I\u2019m also cheating on my husband (in fact, did I even stop cheating on both men?) This life! So f**ked up!\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read More;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>19.<\/strong> \u201cI am a lesbian. My partner and I have been together since our University days. She\u2019s my rock, and we both love each other very much. I married a man because in my family, no woman had to be single and childless\u2026 So I guess I married just to fit in society. My lady understands, so we are cool.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>20.<\/strong> \u201cFor me, it\u2019s a \u2018tit\u2019 for \u2018tat\u2019: You do me, I do you, simplisita! And I\u2019m \u2018doing\u2019 him with so much pleasure and joy. Who cares what he thinks?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>21.<\/strong> \u201cIf he hadn\u2019t abused and disrespected me, I probably wouldn\u2019t have fallen into a different hand. My husband took me for granted. He walked all over me, reduced me to nothing, and then expected me to remain faithful and endure? STUPID man!\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>22.<\/strong> \u201cWhy I cheated on my husband, I still don\u2019t know. It was purely an unfortunate mistake. I was tempted, and I fell for it. I didn\u2019t plan to cheat. There was no reason for me to cheat. I am happily married to a great guy, and father to my baby. All he\u2019s ever done is to love me. He\u2019s never wronged me. I just made a mistake. I have no feelings whatsoever for the other guy. It was just sex.<\/p>\n<p>Though it was just sex, it was good sex. I loved it. It was different, intense and wild. I guess I still remember it because \u2013 if I were to compare and contrast with that of my husband\u2019s, I\u2019d grade the guy 180\/100. My husband is 65\/100.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t intend telling my husband about that mistake. It\u2019s going to be a secret I would have to die with. I am not ending friendship with that guy either. Nobody knows tomorrow, so I\u2019m keeping him in an arm\u2019s reach. Being a mother helped me make my family a priority, thus, my decision to want to do the right thing\u2026 so help me God!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>23.<\/strong> \u201cMy husband was transferred to a different region to work. He visits home on weekends and on holidays. That\u2019s the genesis of my affair. Distance caused it. I know he\u2019s probably also warming his bed as I speak. I wouldn\u2019t be bothered if he\u2019s cheating. All I pray he does is to practice safe sex, because that\u2019s what I am doing in his absence. I am currently in love with both men.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read More;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>24.<\/strong> \u201cMe, I\u2019m a player. I know what\u2019s up, and he married a bad girl. You can\u2019t tame a bad girl with a wedding ring or pregnancy, and I know a part of him knows that too. I love the chase. love the game. I love the sex. Variety is bae. Monogamy is nay! Hubby is a cool guy and all, but \u2018cool\u2019 ain\u2019t shit.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a \u2018HOT\u2019 commodity, so I don\u2019t limit myself to thinking only about my husband and kid. My customers also need my creativity to help solve their marital problems (I know you get the drift?).<\/p>\n<p>I think of every \u2018call\u2019 as a problem solving opportunity. I&#8217;m selling more than just a body in a hot dress. I am selling ideas, perspectives, and insight into the mind of a man. I do the needs-based kind of sex: I determine my customer\u2019s needs before I start to propose skills (solutions).<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>Every woman ought to get to understand a man by letting them speak \u2013 at length if necessary. And when it\u2019s your time to show him what time it is, you\u2019d do a better job than those who merely display ignorance (all in the name of \u2018duty\u2019, simply because you\u2019re his wife).<\/p>\n<p>Dave, I\u2019m far better positioned to sustain a long term journey with my customers in a session. I don\u2019t have to be funny to stay relevant in my business, but it helps to be fun. I am the kind of woman who brightens up a man when I see one, as opposed to the women who brighten up a room when they leave it. You can\u2019t see me and just watch me go; unless I don\u2019t like you.<\/p>\n<h3>Read On;<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019ve built trust with all my men, my husband inclusive. Trust takes a long time to build, but only a second to lose\u2026 That\u2019s why I strive to demonstrate to even my husband that I can be trusted, even when he\u2019s in doubt of my fidelity to only him.<\/p>\n<p>I am responsive, direct, clear, reliable, and straightforward. Because of their ego, men don\u2019t like to be manipulated, and would not appreciate evasiveness. If I get caught being dishonest in any way, I\u2019ll not only lose my man (customers included) but the ripple effect of my actions will spread far beyond the borders of my relationships \u2013 and I don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n<p>So I am always with the assumption that, my customers and husband, are all smart, and give them due respect; I try not to play games, I make sure to deliver on my promises, and also avoid any nasty surprises.<\/p>\n<p>I do whatever I can to stay relevant on a man\u2019s mind. Most men don\u2019t think about you as much as we think about them, even if they claim to be in love with you (you boys are all liars, Dave. You ain\u2019t supposed to be trusted), so I ensure I make every one of my men, think of me first when their dicks arises. That makes me a woman!<\/p>\n<h3>Read On;<\/h3>\n<p>I try thinking of disrespectful, cold attitudes in men, sometimes, as fun: because a woman can never know exactly what to expect with these \u2018dogs\u2019, so I am always ready for ANYTHING, and I take pride in my ability to f**k the hell outta them \u2013 as a form of my response when they\u2019re almost getting pissed. You can ask my husband. When it comes to good sex, otse me soa, osore! Me tumi di no saaa, he begs me to stop! Make-up sex is always a fresh beginning in my mind, so I make sure it is indeed, a memorable one. And, that\u2019s how I am with every other man I am seeing.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Read more;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>25.<\/strong> \u201cMy weight became a problem for him. Though he wouldn\u2019t openly say it, I could see it from the way he sometimes looked at me in\/with disgust. He ignored me many times, and just wouldn\u2019t touch me intimately. He was always not in the mood. One day, I finished a professional job for one of my clients, and was pleased with the work.<\/p>\n<p>We became friends, and then there was the pursuit. I am 12 years older than this boy; some tiny boy bioh! But he was serious about me, he liked me. I fell ill one time, and dude volunteered to pick my kids from school. My husband was away then. He cooked for me and the kids, helped them with their homework, and kept me company till the following morning. He slept in the living room.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>My heart opened up to him after that day. He\u2019s the only man I have ever known to f**k so hard, I\u2019d call the name of my late Momma back to being, in tears (may God rest her soul). Dave, I don\u2019t know what he sees in me to want to be with me, but he makes me happy.<\/p>\n<p>His love has made me forget all the pains my husband\u2019s rejection subjected me to. Now, I only think of my husband when I see him physically at home. Every woman deserves to be seen. This boy sees me, and he\u2019s been by myside for Four (4) years now. He calls me over 50 times in a day. He\u2019s interested in my day, welfare, kids, work, even how my husband is doing \u2013 even though he doesn\u2019t like him so much. He\u2019s concerned about me.<\/p>\n<h3>Read on;<\/h3>\n<p>My kids once mentioned him to their father. They showed a picture they took with him to my husband, and all he said was, \u201cBut what would a young, fine guy like this, see in you?\u201d I remember looking at him and shaking my head. Because in his head, no one could ever find a fat woman attractive: To my husband, I had expired.<\/p>\n<p>Dave, you know my husband would sometimes worry about me sitting in his car? Because my big butt would flatten his front seat\u2026 Eish, I have suffered. A car we both bought with our money. The car I use, which my husband often loves to now drive, was given to me by my boyfriend.<\/p>\n<p>My husband still thinks my cousin abroad shipped it to me. The only time my husband would touch me sexually, and pretend to be nice to me \u2013 is when he needs my car keys. I intentionally left a recorder in my car the other day he borrowed it, and he and his mistress were making fun of me, in my car. And, he was supposed to be going on a business trip.<\/p>\n<h3>Conclusion;<\/h3>\n<p>My boyfriend wants me to divorce my husband and marry him. He\u2019s assured me of taking care of my kids\u2019 education \u2013 if I can be bold enough to file for a divorce. Dave, but for the sake of my kids and their father, and their idea of family &#8211; I am finding it very difficult to walk out on this marriage. Please tell me I am not making a terrible mistake at age 45?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Credit: From the inbox of David Papa Bondze-Mbir&#8217;s Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looking at our part of the world, extra marital affair is considered an abomination, especially when it&#8217;s by the woman. Most of the times, men are made to go scot-free even when they are caught in the action. But the case is different with women. So does that mean the women are not cheating? 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