Frankie JustGymIt Sparks National Debate After Declaring Himself Metrosexual

Popular Kenyan fitness coach and influencer Frankie JustGymIt has once again ignited widespread public interest—this time not with his intense workouts or wellness routines, but with his personal grooming choices and candid discussion on masculinity.

During a recent appearance on the Mic Cheque Podcast, Frankie described himself as “metrosexual,” a comment that quickly drew attention and fueled lively debate online about modern male identity, style, and gender norms in Kenya.

“I’m Pretty Metrosexual…”

The conversation started light-heartedly when Frankie commented, “For a metrosexual, I’m pretty like…” before the hosts jumped in, eager to unpack his self-description.

One host jokingly defined the term as “a man who paints his nails and can beat you,” while another clarified, “It’s a man who takes care of himself and is confident in his sexuality.”

As the topic deepened, a host asked, “So all this gay talk doesn’t bother you?” with another surprised by the question, exclaiming, “There’s gay talk with Frankie? People think you’re gay?” Frankie sighed in response: “Apparently. Apparently.”

The exchange continued with a playful jab about Frankie’s fatherhood: “After four kids!” and a female host quipping, “I think after you wore the platforms and painted your nails.”

Frankie addressed the rumors directly: “I’ve had piercings for a long time. I will still do it—and do stuff to your girl. In order to prove it.” The segment ended with a humorous suggestion: “If after four kids people still think you’re gay, then you should get four more.”

Defining Metrosexual: Kenyans Seek Clarity

While the podcast banter amused many, it was Frankie’s use of the term “metrosexual” that sparked widespread curiosity. Many Kenyans, unfamiliar with the term, turned to social media for clarification.

On X (formerly Twitter), user @Mohbadke summed up the confusion humorously: “Frankie JustGymIt says he’s metrosexual. Can someone explain to me, like I’m Oscar Sudi, what that means?”

The term metrosexual, coined in the 1990s, is a blend of “metropolitan” and “heterosexual” and typically describes a straight man—often urban—who places significant emphasis on grooming, fashion, and personal care. Painted nails, piercings, and attention to style, like Frankie’s, fit the definition.

Online Reactions: Laughter, Criticism, and Reflection

The public reaction was mixed. Some users mocked the concept, while others provided textbook definitions to clarify. One user, @colestchoi, jokingly commented, “In simple terms, ako na umama.” Another, @ebeegeexi, explained, “Metrosexual is a man who’s meticulous about grooming and style. That’s it.”

Amid the humor, more serious conversations emerged around masculinity, personal freedom, and the evolving expectations placed on men, particularly public figures like Frankie.

Frankie: “Be Yourself, Regardless”

Despite the online noise, Frankie appeared unfazed. “I’ve had piercings for a long time. I still paint my nails. I’m raising kids. I train hard. What else do I need to prove?” he stated, asserting his confidence and comfort in his personal style.

Frankie’s remarks and self-identification have not only sparked online debate but also highlighted Kenya’s ongoing cultural shift in how masculinity, self-expression, and identity are perceived in public spaces. For many, the message was clear—be yourself, even if it ruffles a few feathers.