Serial divorcee, Akothee gives brilliant advice to young ladies

Akothee has stirred online debate after sharing candid perspectives on relationships, finances, and personal standards.

Speaking during an appearance on Dr Ofweneke’s Podcast under the “Lessons at 30” segment, she offered direct advice to women navigating financially uneven relationships, cautioning against mistaking short-term luxury for long-term stability.

“That’s His Standard, Not Yours”

Akothee challenged the notion that being treated to lavish experiences reflects one’s own lifestyle.

“If a mubaba takes you to a five-star hotel like Villa Rosa Kempinski, that’s his standard, not yours. You’re just his teddy bear,” she said.

She emphasised that enjoying luxury funded by someone else does not equate to independence or ownership.

Reflecting on “Lessons at 30”

Her remarks form part of a broader reflection she has been sharing under the “Lessons at 30” theme across her platforms. While she framed her views as personal insights rather than strict rules, her message remained firm and rooted in her own experiences.

The comments quickly spread across social media, drawing mixed reactions. Some users agreed with her emphasis on self-reliance, while others debated the realities of modern relationships and financial pressures.

Some reactions included:
“Let’s build our own life, girls