have your own money – Nurse Judy advises women
Nurse Judy has encouraged women to pursue financial independence, urging them to build their own wealth, investments, and security regardless of how financially successful their partners may be.
Sharing her message on Monday, June 8, 2026, Nurse Judy reflected on a challenging chapter in her life when she left everything familiar behind and relocated to a new country to start over. She said the experience taught her the value of personal stability and financial freedom.
“And ladies, usitegemee mwanaume, hata kama ako na pesa kiasi gani. Build your own too. Have your own investments. Have your own assets. Have your own security,” Nurse Judy advised.
Starting Over in a New Country
The healthcare professional recounted her journey to the United Kingdom, revealing that she arrived through Heathrow Airport ready to begin an entirely new phase of life.
According to her, the move marked a complete departure from everything she had known as she ventured into unfamiliar territory with little more than faith and determination.
“This was at Heathrow Airport, London, the day I left the life I knew behind to start a completely new one in a different country from scratch,” she shared.
Nurse Judy said she embarked on the journey carrying only hope, faith, and confidence that things would eventually fall into place despite the uncertainty ahead.
“I had nothing but hope, faith, and God’s strength,” she said.
Battling Fear and Uncertainty
She also opened up about the emotional challenges she was facing at the time, describing it as one of the most difficult seasons of her life.
According to Nurse Judy, several aspects of her life felt unstable, and the weight of the transition left her overwhelmed with emotion.
“Aibooo, I cried the entire flight,” she revealed.
She explained that personal struggles, fear, anxiety, and uncertainty made the experience even more difficult as she prepared to leave behind everything familiar.
“My life was not lifing. My marriage was not marriaging. My heart was not hearting,” she said.
Nurse Judy added that she was also dealing with online pressure and personal turmoil while trying to navigate a future she could not clearly see.
“There was just so much going on. Fear. Uncertainty. Pain. Anxiety. Online chaos, ey, I was leaving behind everything familiar without knowing exactly what was waiting for me on the other side,” she said.
A Message to Women
Reflecting on her journey, Nurse Judy encouraged women to focus on building their own financial foundations and long-term security.
She emphasized that creating personal wealth, investing wisely, and maintaining financial independence can provide stability during life’s most uncertain moments.
