Mulamwah Sparks Debate After Admitting to Being Tested — and Failing — in Relationship with Ruth K

David Oyando, better known as Mulamwah, has ignited fresh controversy after a revealing podcast appearance in which he confessed to lying to his ex-partner, Ruth K, during their turbulent relationship.

In the candid conversation, Mulamwah admitted that he once told Ruth he was meeting up with his male friends, only to sneak off and meet a woman — one he later discovered had been sent by Ruth herself to test his loyalty.

“I was going to meet a lady who, as it turns out, had been sent by Ruth to hit on me. I parked and called her, but she told me to go back home and stop being foolish. Said I should go shower and quit playing games,” he revealed.

“I don’t know if it’s ethical to test someone like that. That’s someone who clearly wanted to leave the relationship.”

Mulamwah claimed Ruth was constantly looking for faults in him and accused her of orchestrating situations to catch him slipping. He also admitted that some of the women she allegedly sent sent him provocative photos, which only piqued his curiosity further — leading to the eventual collapse of their relationship.

Social Media Reacts: Honesty or Justification?

As expected, the confession set X (formerly Twitter) ablaze with divided opinions.

Supporters praised his transparency:

• @Sue: “Ruth got outplayed at her own game. Mulamwah’s just keeping it real.”

• @KatotoKaDaddy: “He’s admitting his flaws. Ruth set traps, and he fell. Respect for owning up.”

But critics didn’t hold back:

• @jacklineasolla: “The more he talks, the more toxic he sounds. Ruth dodged a bullet.”

• @PrincessJackly: “Greedy womaniser. Ruth knew his type and tested him. He failed.”

Locking Her Out at 2 A.M.

Adding to the drama, Mulamwah recounted a tense night when he locked Ruth K out of their home at 2:00 a.m., leaving their young son, Oyando Junior, distressed.

“I got home at six. Junior had been left with the nanny. I’d told her not to go out — the child’s too young. She told me, ‘I’ll come home when I want.’”

“Once she started making money — first 15K, then close to half a million — she became completely uncontrollable.”

The story sparked even more outrage and debate online.

• @Vero1: “Ruth ruined her own home. She’ll struggle to find someone to love her and her child.”

• @Njeruemis: “She trapped him while he was with someone else. What did she expect?”

• @MenFashoo1: “Ruth knew his weaknesses and tested him. He walked right into it.”

• @brendankatha8038: “They were both toxic. But locking her out with a crying kid? That’s inexcusable.”

As the online feud between Mulamwah and Ruth K continues to play out in the public eye, many Kenyans have expressed fatigue over their messy back-and-forth — but few can look away. Whether it’s about trust, ego, money, or manipulation, the saga keeps stirring strong emotions and exposing the complicated underbelly of modern celebrity relationships.