Ofweneke advises women to only go on dates if they have their own money

Bush Sande, popularly known as Dr Ofweneke, has weighed in on a viral dating controversy involving a woman who claimed she was left to settle a hefty bill after a date.

Speaking on Monday, June 8, 2026, Ofweneke reacted to the story, which has dominated social media conversations over the past day.

According to the radio host, the incident involved a man and a woman who went out together before the man allegedly left the venue without paying. The woman later took to social media to narrate her experience and share details of the encounter.

Calls for Legal Action

Commenting on the matter, Dr Ofweneke suggested that the man at the centre of the controversy could consider legal action if he felt unfairly portrayed online.

“Nimeona kuna story ambayo imeenda viral for the past 24 hours, na kuna mtu mmoja Fulani amecomplain kwa sababu alipelekwa out na jamaa Fulani, ameweka picha yake. Na mimi naambia huyo jama, sue that lady first of all. Mpeleke kortini,” he said.

The comedian used the opportunity to discuss what he described as unrealistic expectations that sometimes arise in modern dating.

Advice to Women Going on Dates

Ofweneke advised women to always be financially prepared when going out with someone they are not officially dating.

“I have to tell the ladies, wisdom number one, unless you are officially dating and that man is your official boyfriend, and he knows that he is your boyfriend, please always carry your own money when you are going out on a date with a man. Unaniskia?” he said.

He stressed that people should avoid making assumptions about financial responsibilities during dates, especially when the relationship status has not been clearly defined.

Importance of Clear Expectations

According to Ofweneke, many dating disputes arise because individuals enter social outings with different expectations.

He noted that having clarity about roles, intentions, and financial arrangements can help prevent misunderstandings and awkward situations.

The media personality maintained that relying entirely on someone who is not an official partner can sometimes lead to disappointment.

“Wengine wenu are so interesting, huyu si boyfriend wako. Wengine mnaenda date kujiabisha,” he remarked.

Ongoing Debate on Dating and Money

Ofweneke’s comments have added to the wider online debate surrounding dating culture, financial expectations, and personal responsibility during social outings.

The viral incident continues to spark discussion among Kenyans, with many sharing differing views on who should pay during dates and how expectations should be communicated beforehand.