Saumu Mbuvi reveals why she has such a strong aversion to marriage

Saumu Mbuvi has made it clear that marriage is no longer a priority for her—especially after her sister Salma’s recent assault case pushed the family back into the public spotlight.

Sonko’s Viral Confrontation Draws Intense Reactions

A video of former Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko confronting his son-in-law for allegedly assaulting Salma recently went viral, triggering heated discussions online. In the emotional clip, Sonko demands to know why a man he supports financially—covering rent, food and other expenses—would repeatedly harm his daughter.

“If I hit you, how would you feel? And this is not the first time,” Sonko says as the man apologises. Many Kenyans praised the former governor for standing up firmly against gender-based violence.

Fans Turn to Saumu — But She Isn’t Interested in Marriage

The incident redirected attention to Saumu, with fans flooding her TikTok comments. Some offered sympathy, while others jokingly—or seriously—proposed marriage.

Saumu shut down the suggestions quickly.

Responding to one playful comment, she wrote:
“I left that group a long time ago—unless a miracle happens. I’m busy building my own empire.”

When another follower offered to buy her a car if she agreed to marry him, she declined just as swiftly:
“Look for someone else—I closed that chapter.”

A History of Painful Breakups

Saumu’s reluctance to remarry is rooted in her past experiences. She has two daughters—one with businessman Ben Gatu and another with former Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip. Both relationships ended amid allegations of abuse.

In a 2022 interview with Mpasho, she admitted she had a pattern of rushing into relationships without healing, driven by a fear of being single. By 2021, she confirmed she had fully walked away from Loitiptip and embraced single motherhood.

Despite their rocky past, she now maintains a positive co-parenting relationship with Gatu, praising him for his commitment to their daughter.

A Fresh Start in Dubai

Today, Saumu lives in Dubai, a move she says aligns with her values and long-term goals. In 2023, she was appointed Machakos State Chair for the Anti–Gender Based Violence wing under the All-Ladies League, strengthening her advocacy work.

Motherhood at the Centre of Her Life

Saumu’s biggest joy is her daughters—who interestingly share the same birthday, though born in different years. She describes them as responsible and cooperative, crediting them as her greatest motivation.

“I don’t regret anything as long as I have my children. They are my happiness,” she said.

She also praises her parents for their constant support. Her mother plays a major role in helping raise the girls, while she calls her father her “strongest pillar.”

Taking Time to Heal Before Love

Saumu says she is focusing on personal growth, healing and discovering herself—repeat themes from her earlier interviews.

“I want to go for as many vacations as possible. I don’t want to hurry,” she once said.