{"id":138858,"date":"2020-06-29T15:48:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-29T12:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ke\/?p=138858"},"modified":"2020-06-29T16:02:43","modified_gmt":"2020-06-29T13:02:43","slug":"tedd-josiah-admits-his-first-marriage-was-a-mistake-details","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/tedd-josiah-admits-his-first-marriage-was-a-mistake-details\/","title":{"rendered":"Tedd Josiah admits his first marriage was a huge mistake (Details)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Society has pushed many into early and quick marriages, for fear that their time for marriage is ripe and if it&#8217;s not &#8216;now&#8217;, then it&#8217;s &#8216;never!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>This is a stereotype that has forced majority of youths to start their own families at a tender age, which they eventually regret; either because they were never prepared for it or that they later discover love never existed.<\/p>\n<p>Kenyan renowned music producer and businessman, Tedd Josiah confessed to have been pushed into the same school of thought, by society, which saw him bear two children with a woman he later abandoned.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_138859\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-138859\" style=\"width: 968px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.46.26.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-138859 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.46.26.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"968\" height=\"1216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.46.26.jpg 430w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.46.26-239x300.jpg 239w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 968px) 100vw, 968px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-138859\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tedd Josiah<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Also read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/%c2%a8i-wanna-have-a-baby-then-go-back-to-school%c2%a8-tedd-josiah-recounts-late-wifes-dreams-before-untimely-death\/\">\u00a8I wanna have a baby, then go back to school\u00a8 Tedd Josiah recounts late wife\u00b4s dreams before untimely death<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>The confession<\/h2>\n<p>Up and close on Grace Msalame&#8217;s NTV show, <em>Unscripted with Grace,\u00a0<\/em>the widow revealed he once settled in marriage only to later discover that this was not the woman he loved.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I was in a space where I wasn&#8217;t ready to be a family man. I was breaking people more than I was building them and everything that I had built was false. You know how you grow up and you are told you are supposed to get married and live in a certain way. I was just ticking boxes and then I realized I don&#8217;t even love this person.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_138866\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-138866\" style=\"width: 963px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.12.23.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-138866 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.12.23.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"963\" height=\"1202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.12.23.jpg 431w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.12.23-240x300.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 963px) 100vw, 963px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-138866\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Businessman, Tedd Josiah<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Unfortunately, even though there was never love, the relationship bore them two kids &#8211; unknown to many &#8211; who are now all grown-up and teenagers and who we might never get the privilege of ever meeting.<\/p>\n<p>Also read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/%c2%a8a-dream-come-true-in-loving-memory%c2%a8-tedd-josiah-successfully-makes-wifes-dream-project-come-alive\/\">\u00a8A dream come true\u2026In Loving Memory\u00a8 Tedd Josiah successfully makes wife\u00b4s dream project come alive<\/a><\/p>\n<p>During the 2007\/2008 political clashes in Kenya, the music producer sought refuge in the UK, leaving behind his baby mama and their two children.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_138867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-138867\" style=\"width: 968px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.11.23.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-138867 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.11.23.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"968\" height=\"1203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.11.23.jpg 432w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-15.11.23-241x300.jpg 241w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 968px) 100vw, 968px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-138867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Music producer, Tedd Josiah<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>This kept haunting him every time and he promised to come back and clean his mess, which saw him fall in love with his late wife, Regina Katar.<\/p>\n<h2>Second marriage<\/h2>\n<p>Tedd and Regina got blessed with a dear baby Jay Jay who has been under the care of her dad-mom and who I must admit, is a true replica of her mom.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I realized I wanted a second chance, I really wanted it. Now we have a bond with my kids, all three of them. I love them to bits. They spend a lot of time with me at home but because they are in their teens, I isolate them from social media because it can get a bit rough.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_138861\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-138861\" style=\"width: 964px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.50.11.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-138861 \" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.50.11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"964\" height=\"1217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.50.11.jpg 430w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/06\/Screenshot-2020-06-29-at-14.50.11-238x300.jpg 238w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 964px) 100vw, 964px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-138861\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tedd Josiah with daughter, Jay<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Society has pushed many into early and quick marriages, for fear that their time for marriage is ripe and if it&#8217;s not &#8216;now&#8217;, then it&#8217;s &#8216;never!&#8217; This is a stereotype that has forced majority of youths to start their own families at a tender age, which they eventually regret; either because they were never prepared [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6063,"featured_media":138882,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[310],"tags":[20,130619,130620,130618],"class_list":["post-138858","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-ghafla-entertainment-news","tag-tedd-josiah-and-regina-katar-news","tag-tedd-josiah-children-news","tag-tedd-josiah-first-wife-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138858","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6063"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=138858"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":138889,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138858\/revisions\/138889"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/138882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=138858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=138858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=138858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}