{"id":141190,"date":"2020-07-21T13:06:10","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T10:06:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ke\/?p=141190"},"modified":"2020-07-21T13:06:10","modified_gmt":"2020-07-21T10:06:10","slug":"never-ever-force-a-man-to-be-in-his-childs-life-pierra-makena-takes-pride-in-being-a-single-mum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/never-ever-force-a-man-to-be-in-his-childs-life-pierra-makena-takes-pride-in-being-a-single-mum\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNever ever force a man to be in his child\u2019s life\u201d Pierra Makena takes pride in being a single mum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Despite the curves, gorgeous looks and brains, Pierra Makena ended up becoming a single parent. This is after realizing she was pregnant for the man she had parted ways with back in 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, the guy moved on quite fast and being a good woman &#8211; Pierra chose not to disrupt anything her ex had started with his new found love.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>He had moved on and dating by the time I discovered that I was pregnant and didn\u2019t want to disrupt what they had just because I was pregnant. He started dating while we were not together so it\u2019s all good.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_97536\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-97536\" style=\"width: 598px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2019\/04\/pierra4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-97536\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2019\/04\/pierra4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"598\" height=\"597\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2019\/04\/pierra4.jpg 598w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2019\/04\/pierra4-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2019\/04\/pierra4-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 598px) 100vw, 598px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-97536\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pregnant Pierra Makena<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>4 years as a single parent<\/h3>\n<p>Having chosen the path of a single mother, Pierra Makena says this was the best decision ever! According to Pierra, being a single parent has taught her the art hard work and importantance of being independent.<\/p>\n<p>Through her Instagram page, Pierra went on to celebrate her daughter\u2019s 4th birthday saying;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12135\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12135\" style=\"width: 545px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2017\/09\/Pierra.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12135\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2017\/09\/Pierra.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"545\" height=\"594\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2017\/09\/Pierra.jpg 545w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2017\/09\/Pierra-275x300.jpg 275w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 545px) 100vw, 545px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12135\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pierra Makena with daughter, Ricca Pokot<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<blockquote><p>Im soo proud of my years as a single parent than i have ever been in my life.<\/p>\n<p>I thought Raising my child without the father will be disastrous only to realise we just panic and think we can&#8217;t do without a man&#8217;s help&#8230;yet we are capable and strong.<br \/>\nI have become more hardworking&#8230;independent and super hero!!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>Deadbeat dads<\/h3>\n<p>And to women pushing their unwilling exes to be involved in their kids lives, Pierra had the following to say;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If a man does not want to be in his childs life&#8230;never ever force him&#8230;&#8230;assume his position and raise the child for him.<\/p>\n<p>STAY POSITIVE..GOD HAS YOUR BACK.<\/p>\n<p>The reason for my post you ask&#8230;? Coz people have been asking how i make it as a single mum and always happy and killing it&#8230; yes its coz i dont believe a man holds the key to my success and happiness. Shit happened we move on&#8230;&#8230;CHEERS TO ALL PARENTS RAISING THEIR CHILDREN &#8230;KUDOS!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_141191\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-141191\" style=\"width: 1080px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-141191\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/07\/421FFDED-7938-4009-9A47-27E0A99C4DC1-768x768.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-141191\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">DJ Pierra with her baby girl, Ricca<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>And in conclusion Pierra went on to wish her lovely Ricca Pokot a happy 4th birthday saying;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>HAPPY 4TH MY LOVE.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite the curves, gorgeous looks and brains, Pierra Makena ended up becoming a single parent. This is after realizing she was pregnant for the man she had parted ways with back in 2016. Unfortunately, the guy moved on quite fast and being a good woman &#8211; Pierra chose not to disrupt anything her ex had [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6017,"featured_media":141199,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[310],"tags":[20,18,347,524,132311],"class_list":["post-141190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-ghafla-entertainment-news","tag-ghafla-news","tag-pierra-makena-news","tag-pierra-makenas-daughter-news","tag-ricca-pokot-4-years-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6017"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=141190"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141190\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":141200,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141190\/revisions\/141200"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/141199"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=141190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=141190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=141190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}