{"id":149230,"date":"2020-10-16T11:23:30","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T08:23:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ke\/?p=149230"},"modified":"2020-10-16T11:23:30","modified_gmt":"2020-10-16T08:23:30","slug":"how-to-not-spoil-kids-with-toys-or-junk-and-normalize-a-saving-culture-from-an-early-age","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/how-to-not-spoil-kids-with-toys-or-junk-and-normalize-a-saving-culture-from-an-early-age\/","title":{"rendered":"How to not spoil kids with toys or junk and normalize a saving culture from an early age!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Where\u2019s the fun in a rollercoaster?<\/p>\n<p>One never knows where\u2019s the next turn is, or to where. A sheer drop will happen when one expects a turn left, or a sudden rise that leaves the bowels churning.<\/p>\n<p>Modern parenting is akin to riding one.<\/p>\n<p>The working parent spends more hours at work &#8211; deadlines, traffic, travel, et al. The kids spend more time at school, and gigantic loads of homework. Where\u2019s the time to teach life\u2019s basics and societal norms like it should be?<\/p>\n<p>Often times, little treats and surprises for the kids make up for this. An average household is littered with abandoned toys. Other times, it\u2019s junk &#8211; perhaps, an even worse choice for instant juvenile gratification.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-149233\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo2.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo2-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo2-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Recently, I was jolted by a strict mother ahead of me on the line at the cashier\u2019s desk, at the mall. I kept thinking that she\u2019d given me an impetus to teach financial tenets to my five year old daughter.<\/p>\n<p>As always, the cashier\u2019s desk is massively loaded with trendy gizmos, flashy packed junk and whatnot &#8211; cunningly meant to squeeze out that last dollar.<\/p>\n<p>As the cashier ran the mother\u2019s groceries, the kid &#8211; perhaps four or five &#8211; picks a Superman model and says, <em>\u201cMum, I think I\u2019ll pick this one today\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The mum grabs the toy and places it back. <em>\u201cNo, Max, I can\u2019t afford that. You have to save for it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The kid bursts into tears. The mum, classic Kenyan-style, grabs an ounce of flesh under his sweater and pulls him away from the cashier\u2019s desk &#8211; with a handful of change in her hands.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cListen, Max, this is my money. If you want to buy your stuff, save your money.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cBut, mum, am saving for a bike.\u201d<\/em> The kid, says, all teary. The mum is unmoved.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI know. If you also want Spiderman, too\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIt\u2019s SUPERMAN &#8211; not SPIDERMAN\u2026Muuuum!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI don\u2019t care, Max &#8211; you have to use your own money for your toys!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>They left the mall, but the mum left a lasting impression on the now silent queue. It was a valuable lesson for us all.<\/p>\n<p>I confess a bad habit. Every time I had shopping chores, I would buy something for my daughter. This had over time made it seem normal for her, and she\u2019d rummage through the baskets the moment I got home.<\/p>\n<p>Not today, Margaret.<\/p>\n<p>As expected, Margaret was crestfallen when she couldn\u2019t find any of her usual bites &#8211; crisps, chocolates and themed toys.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI cannot afford those things, little one.\u201d<\/em> I tell her. <em>\u201cYou have to now start saving to buy your toys and anything else you want.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-149232\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo3.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo3-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2020\/10\/jumbo3-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It takes a while, and a ton of tears and tantrums to instill this saving discipline, but it eventually pays off. The best time to teach financial discipline, and a saving culture &#8211; is as early as the kids learn to demand.<\/p>\n<p>The next best time, is NOW.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/campaign.co-opbank.co.ke\/jumbo-junior\/?utm_source=ghafla&amp;utm_medium=blogger%20banners&amp;utm_campaign=Jumbo%20Junior\">Co-op Bank<\/a> has a transitional account that\u2019s a perfect tool to teach the saving culture to kids, and financial discipline that will be beneficial in their pre-adult and eventual adulthood. It\u2019s designed for children below the age of 18 years, for the safe keeping of money.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/campaign.co-opbank.co.ke\/jumbo-junior\/?utm_source=ghafla&amp;utm_medium=blogger%20banners&amp;utm_campaign=Jumbo%20Junior\">The Jumbo Junior Bank Account.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Besides, there\u2019s a load of other unbelievable benefits. To sign up, or learn more about Jumbo Junior, visit the nearest Co-op Bank branch, or <a href=\"https:\/\/campaign.co-opbank.co.ke\/jumbo-junior\/?utm_source=ghafla&amp;utm_medium=blogger%20banners&amp;utm_campaign=Jumbo%20Junior\">click here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>The Big Bank Account\u2026.For Little People!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Where\u2019s the fun in a rollercoaster? One never knows where\u2019s the next turn is, or to where. A sheer drop will happen when one expects a turn left, or a sudden rise that leaves the bowels churning. Modern parenting is akin to riding one. 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