{"id":176483,"date":"2022-06-13T11:33:33","date_gmt":"2022-06-13T08:33:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ke\/?p=176483"},"modified":"2022-06-13T11:35:37","modified_gmt":"2022-06-13T08:35:37","slug":"akothee-explains-why-it-is-easier-to-deal-with-death-than-a-divorce-case","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-explains-why-it-is-easier-to-deal-with-death-than-a-divorce-case\/","title":{"rendered":"Akothee explains why she prefers death over divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Self declared president of single mums Akothee is back with another lesson for all of single mums thinking divorce is the solution to their failed marriages. This being a topic she\u2019s tackled in her book Akothee Sibuor Madhako Quotes, the singer opens up on reasons why most separated couples should avoid dragging their personal lives to court.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/05\/akothee.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-161016\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/05\/akothee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/05\/akothee.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/05\/akothee-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Having had 3 failed marriages already I want to believe that Akothee knows one or two about marriages and relationships which explains why she continues to remain single.<\/p>\n<p>Well according to Akothee it\u2019s easier to live knowinv your spouse is dead rather than having to deal with them in court each and every time there\u2019s a hearing. Addressing this, the single mum of 5 through her Instagram page wrote:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/akothee.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-172045\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/akothee.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"604\" height=\"387\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/akothee.png 604w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/akothee-300x192.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>AS YOU WALK TO COURT THIS WEEK REMEMBER ME ON THIS ????#akotheequotes<br \/>\nPg 33)\u00a0Its easier said than done , Divorce is worse than death , especially when children are involved. When you lose a loved one , you mourn you are broken once for the lose , you hurt you miss them ,and with time you heal! You start learning how to live without them ????<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>Choose your battles right<\/h3>\n<p>Not that she\u2019s encouraging couple to stick to toxic relationships but she encourages many to have a discrete separation to avoid messing with the kids mental health. She went on to say;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/06\/Akothee-2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-162780\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/06\/Akothee-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"521\" height=\"312\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/06\/Akothee-2.png 521w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/06\/Akothee-2-300x180.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 521px) 100vw, 521px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>But with divorce where children are involved , if you don&#8217;t choose your battle wisely , you will be broken daily , buried daily , hurt daily as the kids grow, forget living for a moment \u270d breaking up with a loved one leaving you behind with his \/ her copies is not something you can deal with in 3\/ 4 years, this takes TIME. . If you have to divorce or break up , do it descently , you are not the first or last ,people survived We are with you in prayers ????<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But again &#8211; all relationships are different and they also end differently. Her advise many not work for everyone but at the end of the day &#8211; at least we get her point &#8211; and that is your mental health and that of the children should always comes first!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self declared president of single mums Akothee is back with another lesson for all of single mums thinking divorce is the solution to their failed marriages. This being a topic she\u2019s tackled in her book Akothee Sibuor Madhako Quotes, the singer opens up on reasons why most separated couples should avoid dragging their personal lives [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6017,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[310],"tags":[137409,133939,116564,11,20,19],"class_list":["post-176483","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-akothee-divorce-news","tag-akothee-ghafla-news","tag-akothee-kenya","tag-akothee-news","tag-ghafla-entertainment-news","tag-ghafla-kenya"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176483","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6017"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=176483"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176483\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176488,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176483\/revisions\/176488"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=176483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=176483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=176483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}