{"id":221747,"date":"2024-09-10T12:20:09","date_gmt":"2024-09-10T09:20:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/?p=221747"},"modified":"2024-09-10T12:20:09","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T09:20:09","slug":"akothee-rebukes-male-friends-for-inappropriate-behavior-earn-respect-by-showing-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-rebukes-male-friends-for-inappropriate-behavior-earn-respect-by-showing-respect\/","title":{"rendered":"Akothee Rebukes Male Friends for Inappropriate Behavior: &#8220;Earn Respect by Showing Respect&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, has spoken out about an uncomfortable situation involving some of her male friends.<\/p>\n<p>In a social media post, the mother of five expressed her discomfort with the inappropriate conversations initiated by certain male acquaintances. She criticized these friends for crossing boundaries by bringing up s*xual topics, stating such discussions are disrespectful to her and her partner, Nelly Oaks. Akothee made it clear that being friendly with men doesn&#8217;t grant them the right to introduce such inappropriate topics.<\/p>\n<p>CHECK OUT:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"UsA66xHn4S\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-ill-never-stop-seeking-love\/\">Akothee: &#8220;I&#8217;ll Never Stop Seeking Love!&#8221;<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"&#8220;Akothee: &#8220;I&#8217;ll Never Stop Seeking Love!&#8221;&#8221; &#8212; Ghafla! Kenya\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-ill-never-stop-seeking-love\/embed\/#?secret=bejHdi8a3C#?secret=UsA66xHn4S\" data-secret=\"UsA66xHn4S\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Let\u2019s get this straight\u2014are we simply friends, or have we suddenly become s*x mates or bed mates?&#8221; she questioned, emphasizing that such conversations are off-limits. She asserted there is no intention of dating or becoming romantically involved with these individuals, so such topics should never arise.<\/p>\n<p>Addressing the impact of these conversations on her personal life, Akothee raised a significant point: &#8220;How am I supposed to explain to Nelly Oaks when you call and start talking like that?&#8221; She voiced concerns that these discussions could potentially harm her relationship. Akothee, known for her commitment to her partner, made it clear she would not tolerate inappropriate dialogues from friends.<\/p>\n<p>ALSO CHECK OUT:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"baIgUMJYqu\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-and-nelly-oaks-redefine-their-relationship-during-a-trip-to-uganda\/\">Akothee and Nelly Oaks redefine their relationship during a trip to Uganda<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"&#8220;Akothee and Nelly Oaks redefine their relationship during a trip to Uganda&#8221; &#8212; Ghafla! Kenya\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ke\/akothee-and-nelly-oaks-redefine-their-relationship-during-a-trip-to-uganda\/embed\/#?secret=7PhqzS7V2o#?secret=baIgUMJYqu\" data-secret=\"baIgUMJYqu\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>In a firm statement, she warned that if these conversations persist, she would let her partner handle it directly. \u201cIf you call again, I will just hand the phone to @nellyoaks to deal with you, as I can&#8217;t handle this nonsense,\u201d she stated, reinforcing her stance on loyalty and respect within her relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Akothee urged her male friends to maintain self-respect if they expect respect in return. She emphasized that respect must be earned and clarified that she will only discuss intimate matters with the person she is involved with.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, has spoken out about an uncomfortable situation involving some of her male friends. In a social media post, the mother of five expressed her discomfort with the inappropriate conversations initiated by certain male acquaintances. 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