Kenyan socialite tells women to stop begging her to hook them up with rich men
Nica Njenga has addressed women who have been asking her to help them find wealthy partners similar to the man she is reportedly dating.
The Gen Z social media personality spoke about the issue in a video shared online, explaining that many young women regularly approach her with questions about how to attract or meet financially stable men. According to Njenga, most of these requests reach her through direct messages and comments on her social media pages.
Viral remarks about relationships
In the circulating clip, Njenga said some women believe she can connect them with rich men because of the lifestyle she portrays online and the people she is occasionally seen with.
“Some girls keep asking me to help them get a rich man like mine,” she said in the video.
Njenga explained that relationships involving successful or wealthy partners cannot simply be arranged through introductions. She added that personal decisions, lifestyle choices and compatibility often play a major role in how relationships develop.
The video quickly spread across Kenyan social media platforms, where users reposted the clip and debated her remarks in comment sections. Much of the discussion centred on dating expectations, financial stability and the influence of social media on relationship goals among young people.
Public profile and online following
Njenga is part of a growing group of Kenyan influencers who have built large audiences on platforms such as Instagram and TikTok.
Her content typically features lifestyle posts, fashion videos and commentary on relationships and youth culture. Several of her previous videos discussing dating preferences have attracted significant attention online.
In an earlier widely shared clip, Njenga said she prefers partners in their thirties, explaining that she believes men in that age group are often more financially stable and settled in life.
Ongoing online discussion
Following the latest video, social media users continued debating her remarks. Some commenters supported her view that relationships cannot simply be arranged through social connections, while others argued that social media has contributed to rising expectations around wealth and lifestyle among young people.
Entertainment blogs and online pages that track trending conversations involving Kenyan influencers also shared the clip, further amplifying the debate.
While reactions remain mixed, the discussion surrounding Njenga’s comments reflects broader conversations taking place online about dating expectations, lifestyle aspirations and financial security among Kenya’s Gen Z audiences.
