Big Brother housemate, Omololu, simply called Lolu, yesterday, during his diary session, spoke to biggie about a very dark side of his childhood. According to him, he has chosen to share his story, not to attract sympathy but to serve as an inspiration to other young boys that might be going through what he went through.<\/p>\n
The housemate told Big brother, of the maid that molested him sexually when he was much younger. He carried the shame in his heart without being able to tell anyone, until he was 21, when he finally opened up to his younger sister.<\/p>\n
His words below;<\/p>\n
The maid would subject me to a lot of punishment and if I refuse, I had consequences which I cannot discuss on national Tv because it is too graphic.<\/em><\/p>\n
I finally told my younger sister about it when I turned 21.<\/em><\/p>\n
I\u2019m saying this because I want people who have gone through this kind of assault to talk about it. The right thing to do is speak about it.<\/em><\/p>\n
Most people don\u2019t know they have the right not to let such things affect them negatively or positively.<\/em><\/p>\n
Even though I\u2019ve come to terms with it, I remember the incident sometimes.<\/em><\/p>\n
I have sought therapy sometimes, but I am not ashamed or sad about it. I have dealt with it for the past 24 years so I\u2019m fine.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lolu shared his experience with Big Brother during yesterday’s diary session. Big Brother housemate, Omololu, simply called Lolu, yesterday, during his diary session, spoke to biggie about a very dark side of his childhood. According to him, he has chosen to share his story, not to attract sympathy but to serve as an inspiration to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6035,"featured_media":10079,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[8157],"class_list":["post-10073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-lolu"],"yoast_head":"\n
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