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Nigerian film maker and writer, Onyeka Nwelue talks about gender inequality from the male perspective.<\/h2>\n

Onyeka Nwelue took to his Facebook page to vent about how women always hide under the guise of being the weaker sex to get away with whatever they want, including sexual molestation.<\/p>\n

The writer recounts how he has been sexually harassed by women in the past, a situation which he said will be described as rape if the reverse were to be the case.<\/p>\n

He added that women are self centered, often neglecting the psychological needs of the male child.<\/p>\n

\"Onyeka<\/a>
Onyeka Nwelue<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

“In July, a female fan came to my hotel room in New York and undressed herself. I kept telling her I was not interested in s3x. Or her body. She didn\u2019t mind. She wanted s3x with me. I had just flown in from Cuba. I had Cuban rum, which I drank when I was losing my mind. She did not want to go home.<\/em><\/p>\n

Turn around the table: a male fan in the hotel room of a woman, undressed. That is RAPE!<\/em><\/p>\n

Women get away with anything because we deceptively say they are weaker s3x. Bunkum!<\/em><\/p>\n

On my film set recently, a powerful woman came to ask me for s3x before she could give me the loan I asked from her. I told everyone who was close to me on set. Thank God, my two producers are women. I told them.<\/em><\/p>\n

As a child, I was molested by a woman. Someone we called Aunty. I made a short film, The Great Masturbator highlighting this issue.<\/em><\/p>\n

In Calgary, I spoke about being molested by a woman infront of Nigerian women and they all started laughing at me. I cursed them. I was angry.<\/em><\/p>\n

Women are about themselves. The Boy Child has no supporter. The women think only about themselves. No woman wants to know what I am going through psychologically but they want us to help them update my Facebook with: \u201cMe, too!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

No way, I won\u2019t. Unless they take our cases seriously too, I am not pandering to that!” <\/em>He wrote.
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