{"id":20278,"date":"2018-12-12T15:15:14","date_gmt":"2018-12-12T14:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ng\/?p=20278"},"modified":"2018-12-12T15:15:14","modified_gmt":"2018-12-12T14:15:14","slug":"speed-darlington-reveals-how-men-contribute-to-womens-insecurities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ng\/speed-darlington-reveals-how-men-contribute-to-womens-insecurities\/","title":{"rendered":"Speed Darlington reveals how men contribute to women&#8217;s insecurities"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Speed Darlington reveals how men contribute to women&#8217;s insecurities<\/h3>\n<p>In a recent video, Speed Darlington talks about how men contribute to the problems of women. The speech has earned him a lot of respect from his followers who liked the speech. In the video, he said:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Girls them see their beauty through our eyes.<\/p>\n<p>If a big butt pass and you look at it, another girl is looking at you. In her mind she registers that big butt is in, look at him look at her.<\/p>\n<p>So, when you say negative things about our skin color, it registers in our girls&#8217; mind that we&#8217;re not beautiful. And this leads to bleaching cream.<\/p>\n<p>Be careful what you say when you&#8217;re upset. Don&#8217;t make statements like; see as she black like amala dudu. Instantly, it has a psychological effect on the girl.<\/p>\n<p>We, guys have responsibility too. OK?<\/p>\n<p>We can&#8217;t be talking about &#8216;girls don&#8217;t bleach, girls don&#8217;t bleach&#8217; yet guys keep saying things to make them insecure and then they end up bleaching.<\/p>\n<p>So, all of us in diaspora from home to abroad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/alexis.lindaikejisblog.com\/photos\/shares\/5c10b415cdeea.PNG\" alt=\"Speed Darlington makes a lot of sense as he talks about how men contribute to women\" \/><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BrQWlh1HEut\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Speed Darlington reveals how men contribute to women&#8217;s insecurities In a recent video, Speed Darlington talks about how men contribute to the problems of women. The speech has earned him a lot of respect from his followers who liked the speech. In the video, he said: &#8220;Girls them see their beauty through our eyes. 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