{"id":6854,"date":"2018-02-21T14:51:19","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T13:51:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ng\/?p=6854"},"modified":"2018-02-21T15:20:20","modified_gmt":"2018-02-21T14:20:20","slug":"6854-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ng\/6854-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Toolz is dispeased that her male friends stopped talking to her after marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the African custom, once a woman gets married, she has to cut off so many relationships, most including that with men. Reason being because, she is now crowned with a man, who should be her only spring of everything. Tolu Demuren popularly known as Toolz shared her experience about how most of her male friends deserted her after marriage.<\/p>\n<p>One of those friends is musician Praiz. She said she confronted Praiz after his interview with her colleagues Maria and Olisa and he said he didn\u2019t stop talking to her; he only curtailed the frequency of their communication because of his respect for her marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Also Timaya, told her that she is dead to him the day she got married and he has stayed true to his words. Even Iyanya stopped talking to her because of marriage and the OAP felt really disappointed and unhappy about their actions.<\/p>\n<p>Read:\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ng\/2010-2\/\">Kemi Adetiba:Marriage is not my crowning glory<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the African custom, once a woman gets married, she has to cut off so many relationships, most including that with men. Reason being because, she is now crowned with a man, who should be her only spring of everything. 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