Orie Rogo Manduli And Maina Kageni Leave Kenyan Men Grumbling Loudly With This
Maina Kageni has gotten some serious backlash from Kenyans especially men for his apparent crime against men that is siding too much with women. He has been accused of defending women too much thus making them ‘spoilt’ with his detractors claiming that he shouldn’t speak since he is not married.
This time he is the recipient of harsh critics for what is apparently a touchy topic, the issue of men showing up with nothing buy condoms to a woman’s place. This discussion stemmed from Orie Rogo Manduli who said that women should always slam the door if a man shows up with nothing but a condom in hand.
Speaking to the Nairobian, Orie Said that, men who showed up with only a packet of condoms at your door at classless and the only thing they deserve is the door slammed in their faces.
“Flatten his nose with door if possible. That’s like calling a woman a prostitute. Such men should just go to brothels with their condoms and they would still use money.” she said clearly beside herself with anger.
A comment that has been backed up by Maina Kageni
“Over the weekend Orie Rongo Manduli was advising women that they should stop entertaining men who only visit them with nothing but condoms.
In my opinion it’s only right to visit someone with a gift even if you pay for the rent or whatever bills.
It’s the hallmark of a gentleman to treat a woman right. You cannot just visit a woman with nothing and expect to enjoy the food she cooks, watch the dstv she has paid for etc.
A gentleman should always bring a gift and condoms do not count as gifts. Carry something proper and as for you ladies stop accepting such mediocre men as Orie put it.
I’d like to know you thoughts and you may also share your experiences. Does your man bring you gifts every time they visit?” he wrote.
A statement that seems to have stirred the hornet’s nests with furious men calling in and saying that a woman should appreciate that the man even bothers to visit. That beggars cannot be choosers.
And as shocking and as offensive as this comment sounds there are those actually throwing their weight behind this seriously chauvinistic comment.
Njiru Joseph Maina: one thing if u r visiting a woman u must hav bn welcomed ..is sex not a gift..?? The only gift i carry is my dick period.
David Mburu: I am a single dad and I don’t have time to go and splash my Spanish libido into a couch where I will need to pay for a gift as if it were government taxes. Happy to be raising my own son without makelele
Samuel Masai: Condoms are the best gifts awoman can expect from a man who cares
Wa Muthoni: I listen to Maina discussions but one thing is for sure .Maina is always biased .only there to impress ladies while he direct them to make wrong decision .For those who follow his advice I wish them good luck as they graduate .relationship is for two and their decision should be theirs without such influence from the likes of maina who is a mami’s boy
Ayub Mwenda Aguero :Thank God you have somebody to visit you first…kwani mipango za kando huwa wanaleta nini???….maina teach women to love men for who they are n not what they are.. if demand things surely they will get them but in the process they will lose our trust..we will feel that if somebody else brings something bigger will sleep even in the matrimonial bed.. maina i think u have a problem with men n it’s not their Fault.