Signs that you are dating a selfish lover

He only wants his positions.

 He has his favorites, and they’re what you tend to find yourself in, even if you’ve told him they don’t really work for you or simply want to switch it up.

He finishes FAST.

 He treats sex like its the 100 meter dash. He’s pumping away, it’s doing nothing for you, and all the sudden it’s over. He’s the Michael Bay of boning.

And when he’s done, it’s over. 

Don’t expect him to stick around to make sure you get yours. He’s either getting dressed or immediately falling asleep.

He doesn’t help you clean up.

It’s the equivalent of cooking dinner for him and then having to do the dishes too.

He pushes you to have sex even if you’re not in the mood. 

Instead of expressing empathy when you explain that you’re exhausted from work or have been down lately, he makes you feel like you’re failing as a partner because you’re not trying harder to get in the mood.