{"id":1577,"date":"2017-10-23T09:56:29","date_gmt":"2017-10-23T06:56:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ug\/?p=1577"},"modified":"2017-10-23T09:56:29","modified_gmt":"2017-10-23T06:56:29","slug":"things-not-get-cheated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/things-not-get-cheated\/","title":{"rendered":"Things Not to do when you Get cheated on"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A number of you have been cheated on and then always dont know what to do. Here are some tips<\/p>\n<h4>DO not act like it never happened.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/cheating.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1578\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/cheating.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When you try to act like it never happened just because its too painful, it hurts even more.<\/p>\n<p>If you do this, you might end up resenting your partner which may lead to self harm, or hurting the other person out of revenge.<\/p>\n<h4>Do not blame yourself.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/chating.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1579\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/chating.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"295\" height=\"171\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Someone cheating on you is <em>not your fault<\/em>. You\u2019re not responsible for it, you didn\u2019t &#8220;deserve&#8221; it, and if your partner crossed lines instead of communicating their needs (or breaking off the relationship), that\u2019s on them, not you<\/p>\n<p>Sorry, I aint sorry<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Don\u2019t bring up the incident to &#8220;win&#8221; unrelated arguments<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/cheat.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1580\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/cheat.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, at least I am not the one who cheated like you&#8221; is one very common statement even years after cheating has happened. That\u2019s not to say that if you\u2019re hurting about the infidelity, you shouldn\u2019t bring it up, but acting petty when you know better doesn\u2019t help anyone.<\/p>\n<h4>Dont try to get even (revenge)<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/bc.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1581\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/bc-300x158.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/bc-300x158.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2017\/10\/bc.jpeg 310w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Breaking their, TV or car or even sleeping with someone else to revenge should never be an option.<\/p>\n<p>this is especially for people who still love each other and may want to salvage the relationship. This only causes more hurt and pain for the bot of you.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you find these helpful and comforting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A number of you have been cheated on and then always dont know what to do. Here are some tips DO not act like it never happened. When you try to act like it never happened just because its too painful, it hurts even more. 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