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You probably got married as friends, but then found yourselves running into difficulty because you each had your own way of living and doing. You came from one family, and your partner came from another family, and those families were different.<\/p>\n

Your job as a couple is to create some boundaries and rules that will guide you in your marriage. But if you\u2019ve never created any rules before, and you or your partner don\u2019t like rules and boundaries, it won\u2019t be an easy task.\u00a0(read more)<\/a><\/p>\n

Who is the Leader?<\/h2>\n

You are equal partners making decisions in marriage. Responsibilities must be divided up. You need policies, procedures, and rules in order to work cooperatively as well as independently.<\/p>\n

You will enjoy working together as you know each other better and gain confidence in each other\u2019s decision-making ability. Developing faith and trust takes many months. Forging a new way of life from your different backgrounds takes time and patience.<\/p>\n

Remember, you are equal partners. You are both vitally interested in all areas of the marriage. As in a business, consult with each other and participate in making decisions and reviewing them.\u00a0(read more)<\/a><\/p>\n

Competing Spouses<\/h2>\n

When each partner sees themselves as the better parent, this causes a lot of tension between spouses. you need to know that you are married to compliment each other and not to compete.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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