{"id":17638,"date":"2018-12-14T13:13:21","date_gmt":"2018-12-14T10:13:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.com\/ug\/?p=17638"},"modified":"2018-12-14T13:13:21","modified_gmt":"2018-12-14T10:13:21","slug":"signs-that-you-are-dating-a-selfish-lover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghafla.co.ke\/ug\/signs-that-you-are-dating-a-selfish-lover\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs that you are dating a selfish lover"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>He only wants his positions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>He has his favorites, and they\u2019re what you tend to find yourself in, even if you\u2019ve told him they don\u2019t really work for you or simply want to switch it up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\"><strong>He finishes FAST.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>He treats sex like its the 100 meter dash. He\u2019s pumping away, it\u2019s doing nothing for you, and all the sudden it&#8217;s over. He\u2019s the Michael Bay of boning.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\"><strong>And when he\u2019s done, it\u2019s over.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\">Don\u2019t expect him to stick around to make sure you get yours. He\u2019s either getting dressed or immediately falling asleep.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\"><strong>He doesn\u2019t help you clean up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\">It\u2019s the equivalent of cooking dinner for him and then having to do the dishes too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\"><strong>He pushes you to have sex even if you\u2019re not in the mood.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\">Instead of expressing empathy when you explain that you&#8217;re exhausted from work or have been down lately, he makes you feel like you&#8217;re failing as a partner because you&#8217;re not trying harder to get in the mood.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He only wants his positions. \u00a0He has his favorites, and they\u2019re what you tend to find yourself in, even if you\u2019ve told him they don\u2019t really work for you or simply want to switch it up. He finishes FAST. \u00a0He treats sex like its the 100 meter dash. 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