Wahu Opens Up About What Happened To Her Marriage After The Birth Of Their Baby

The legendary Wahu Kagwi is a mommy to two adorable little girls Nyakio and Tumiso. Having had two children she has reasonable experience when coming to balance the love between your child and your husband without the ‘momzilla’ in you coming out.But it has not always been a smooth ride for the lady and this is her story:

‘After I gave birth to my first child Tumiso, the change in the dynamics of my relationship with my hubby was almost tangible. All of a sudden the bulk of our communication revolved around the baby…diapers clinics, feeding, baby poop and all that good stuff. It is always such a joy when there is a new member in the family. However more often than not, baby’s arrival does affect how you relate with your partner, especially if you are first time parents’

Wahu says that they often fell-out due to the anxiety experienced by first time parents and that sort of strained their relationship. As a second time mother she has learnt a few tips on how to maintain a cordial relationship with your husband after the birth of a little bundle of joy. She advices first time mommys to:

Understand that your husband is first time dad too so do not be too hard on him. Teamwork is key

Communicate your feelings, and finally Don’t hog the baby .To all first time mothers and daddy’s out there, I believe you can learn a thing or two from Wahu’s experience, so check out her blog here