Willy Paul Says “No” To Marriage, Citing Infidelity Concerns

Kenyan secular artist Willy Paul has once again publicly declared his firm opposition to getting married, basing his decision on widespread concerns about infidelity in modern relationships.

In an undated video clip, the controversial singer, known for hits like the wedding-themed collaboration “I Do” with Jamaican artist Alaine, was candid about his fears. He asserted that the risk of betrayal by a spouse is too high and that he would prefer to remain single.

Fear of Betrayal and Suicide

Willy Paul highlighted a particularly dark reason for his stance: witnessing men taking their own lives after being betrayed by their wives. He emphasized that he does not want to suffer the same fate, making his choice a form of self-preservation.

“Kuoa mi sitaki kuoa, sitaki kuoa (I don’t want to get married, I don’t want to get married),” he asserted in Swahili. “I’ve come to know… I’ve seen people commit suicide because of women. Man, you get married, you leave home, and your wife becomes the neighbour’s wife. Aii hiyo haiwezekani, sioi aah mi sioi (That’s impossible, I’m not marrying, I’m not marrying),” he stated emphatically, suggesting a general breakdown of trust in marital commitments.

The revelation is notable coming from an artist who gained popularity with a song that celebrates the joy and commitment of marriage, suggesting his personal views on relationships have shifted significantly.