Nurse Judy voices support for Nadia Mukami
Nurse Judy has come out in defence of singer Nadia Mukami after the musician faced criticism over her comments about co-parenting with her former partner, Arrow Bwoy.
The media personality joined the conversation after Nadia responded to online critics who questioned her decision to maintain a peaceful relationship with Arrow Bwoy despite their separation.
Nadia had explained that she prioritises emotional peace and does not want to carry bitterness, a position that received both support and criticism from social media users.
Nurse Judy supports Nadia
In a social media post shared on Sunday, June 21, 2026, Nurse Judy defended Nadia’s approach, saying there is nothing wrong with choosing peace and maintaining a healthy relationship after a breakup.
She argued that some of the criticism directed at Nadia came from people who struggle to accept seeing others move forward peacefully.
Referring to Nadia’s message and the reactions it attracted, Nurse Judy claimed that much of the backlash was coming from women.
“I said it yesterday; I know ‘people’ in her caption are mainly women. Kenyan women have bad hearts, dirty spirits, jealousy and witchcraft,” she wrote.
Her remarks sparked debate online, with some users supporting her defence of Nadia while others criticised her for making broad statements.
Debate over bitterness online
Continuing her support for Nadia, Nurse Judy suggested that some people prefer seeing others remain unhappy after relationships end.
She argued that Nadia’s decision to embrace peaceful co-parenting should not be viewed negatively.
“They just love when you can join them in their misery. I can swear Kenyan women are leading the world in bitterness, jealousy and bad spirit,” she said.
Her comments came shortly after Nadia explained that she refuses to hold onto resentment and prefers focusing on her mental health, family and personal growth.
The singer had responded to criticism after encouraging Arrow Bwoy following his defeat to Ugandan boxer Shakib Cham during the Vurugu 2.0 celebrity boxing event.
Calls for healing and reflection
Nurse Judy further suggested that some online criticism often comes from people dealing with unresolved personal struggles.
She encouraged people to focus on their own healing instead of constantly attacking others.
“They will forever be constantly trying to drag other women every day, while their own issues remain unresolved,” she wrote.
Mixed reactions online
As she concluded her message, Nurse Judy maintained that bitterness has become common in online conversations and urged people to focus on growth rather than judgement.
“Very weird human creatures, they want everyone to be bitter like them. Not all, but 98 per cent of Kenyan women need therapy. Bitterness much,” she concluded.
Her remarks have since attracted mixed reactions, with some praising her for standing up for Nadia and promoting emotional wellbeing, while others questioned the tone and generalisations in her statement.
