Avoid Drama & Take Up Responsibility- Akothee’s Message To Single Mothers

The ‘president of single mothers’ Esther Akoth (Akothee) has shared some shrewd words to single mothers; especially those with perennial baby mama dramas. The mother of 5 has connoted the need for independence when it comes down to taking care of their own children.

According to the singer and entrepreneur, single mums should avoid drama with their baby daddies and just let them be. She adds that drama exhibits desperation and toxicity in a woman- which shouldn’t be the case.

She shared via a long post on her Instagram;

”Any baby mama feeling like starting trouble to inbox me ! Let me tell you FACTS ABOUT This journey ????, you are Alone by the way ???? ,the more drama you creat in your motherhood journey the more desperate & toxic you look .No man wants a dramatic woman full of her Exes issues . Being A single mother isn’t a tittle ,it’s a story of a successful journey of raising your children without the privilege of the other partner . Don’t brag with a one month old pregnancy calling yourself Single mother ! Single mother of which cat? Do you know what it takes to raise A child ? Forget about children! Carrying pregnancy doesn’t qualify you a mother!”

Akothee continued to urge women to step up and take responsibility;

”A mother is One strong person with all her flows ,owns up responsibility and step up for the missing part ???? Women should step up and stop embarrassing some of us . Stand up and own your life/ responsibility as A mother ,How about widow’s? what should we tell them ????
Will they carry graves to court ! Will their children stop going to school since their dad is no more ! Aaa! Aaah! Wanamaaa”

Akothee’s experience as a single mother is indomitable and her advice will definitely suffice.