Oga Obinna discusses why Kenyan women find him irresistible

Oga Obinna has openly shared why he believes many women are drawn to him, arguing that financial stability often matters more than physical appearance.

Speaking during an interview with Trudy Kitui, the comedian and radio presenter reflected on relationships, fame, and the realities of dating as a public figure. According to Obinna, many women are attracted to men they perceive as financially secure and well-organised.

“Si pesa tu… kwani mi fala nini… ni pesa tu,” Obinna remarked during the conversation.

He went on to downplay both his looks and celebrity status, saying the attraction largely comes from the belief that he has his life together.

“I am not the most handsome guy you will meet. I am not the most outspoken guy you will meet. I am not the only celebrity you know. However, amongst the ones that they know, I am the one they assume has his shiet together,” he explained.

‘A Complete Project’

Obinna suggested that many women prefer men who already appear stable rather than those still trying to build their lives from scratch.

“Most ladies like that. When they see a complete project, they are like, ‘Aaah, that looks like a project I can invest in,’” he said.

He contrasted this with relationships where couples grow together through difficult beginnings, noting that only a few people are willing to start from the ground up.

“Very few ladies will go and say, oh this is the groundwork, let’s do the groundwork, this is the foundation, let’s do the foundation and build it all the way up,” he added.

His remarks have since sparked debate online, with some social media users agreeing with his observations while others criticised the comments as overly broad generalisations about women and relationships.

Comments on Fatherhood

The father of four also spoke about the type of messages he receives from women online, including single mothers who tell him they believe he would make a good father figure.

“Then now there is a bunch of single mothers who think I would make an appropriate father to their children,” he said.

Obinna added that some women even jokingly tell him they would like him to father their children.

“The others are like me, I wish you could just make me pregnant and me hapo kwa pregnancy kidogo tricky,” he said humorously.

Public Image and Relationships

Over the years, Obinna has built a strong fan base through radio, comedy, and digital content creation. His openness about relationships, parenting, and personal experiences has frequently placed his private life in the public spotlight.

Like many Kenyan celebrities, he often shares aspects of his personal journey with fans online, continuing to fuel conversations around modern dating, financial security, and relationship expectations in the social media era.