Pastor Kanyari Requests Custody Of His Children, Vows To Be A “Good Father”

Pastor Victor Kanyari, the presiding pastor of Salvation Healing Ministries, has publicly requested custody of his two children, Sky and Dany, following the recent death of their mother, musician Betty Bayo.

Speaking on Wednesday, November 19, 2025, alongside TikToker Obidan Dela, Kanyari addressed online concerns about his suitability as a parent, insisting that his desire to take the children in is genuine and rooted in love.

Distinguishing Roles; Father vs Husband

Speaking ahead of Betty Bayo’s burial, Kanyari calmly differentiated between his roles as a partner and as a father, urging the public not to confuse the two.

“I am a good father. I may not be a good husband, but I am a good father,” he asserted during a Facebook Live session.

He cited his consistent support for the children—paying school fees and ensuring they “have never lacked”—as proof of his responsibility. He expressed confidence in his ability to raise them well, promising them a better life:

“Sky na Dany nawapenda, na wataishi maisha mazuri kuliko yenye walikua wanakaa,” (I love Sky and Dany, and they will live a better life than the one they were living).

Addressing Financial Readiness

Kanyari also tackled claims that he might not be financially ready to take full custody, emphasizing that he cannot give money to strangers online while his own children are suffering.

He added that despite the criticisms, he has remained composed.

“Si mnaona sijakua na drama? Watu wananiingilia nikiwa nimenyamaza,” (Don’t you see I haven’t caused drama? People criticize me while I remain quiet), he said, explaining that his occasional online acts of generosity are to show appreciation for those Kenyans who defend him.

Finally, the pastor asked Kenyans to commend him for stepping forward, noting that in many cases where a single mother passes away, the ex-husband often fails to appear or act with kindness.