TikTok Community Organizes Candle Lighting For Betty Bayo At Kanyari’s Church

The digital and faith communities are set to converge to celebrate the life of the late gospel singer Betty Bayo, who passed away earlier this week. TikToker Obidan Dela has formally invited all TikTokers and Kenyans of goodwill to attend a special candle lighting session at the Salvation Healing Ministry founded by Pastor Victor Kanyari, the father of Betty Bayo’s children.

Speaking on TikTok on Thursday, November 14, 2025, Obidan sat next to a visibly emotional Pastor Kanyari as he announced the event, which is intended as a moment of reflection and unity for her fans.

“We first offer our condolences for the loss of the mother of your children; we love you very much. We send our heartfelt sympathies as the TikTokers’ family,” Obidan stated to Kanyari.

He urged attendees to come with hearts full of love and respect.

The candle lighting will take place on Monday, November 18, 2025, starting at 2:00 PM, at the church located at Kayole Junction. Obidan also confirmed the date and location for the burial.

“Tuko na mazishi ya Betty Bayo, atapumzishwa next week, date 20 side za Kiambu. Asante sana kwa kusupport our prophet Kanyari.” (The funeral for Betty Bayo is next week, she will be laid to rest on the 20th in Kiambu. Thank you very much for supporting our prophet Kanyari.)

Kanyari Pledges to Fill the Gap

During the session, Pastor Victor Kanyari spoke candidly on Facebook about his renewed commitment to fatherhood following Betty Bayo’s passing. He shared his intentions to fully step into the parental role for their children.

“I have the best bond with my kids. I value them and even do more than expected of me. I know a man is to err, but I promise to be the best dad ever to my kids,” Kanyari vowed.

He concluded with a powerful message to other fathers: “I promise to fill that gap their mother left. And I also urge all men out here to try and follow my footsteps as a dad; parting ways with their mother shouldn’t be a reason to bring any hatred to the kids.”