”Stupid Me”-Pastor Victor Kanyari Expresses Deep Regret As Family Turmoil Intensifies

Barely a month after vowing to leave his battles to God and embrace a life of silence, controversial preacher Pastor Victor Kanyari appears to be wrestling with a heavy heart. The Salvation Healing Ministry founder took to Facebook on Wednesday, January 21, 2025, with a cryptic message that suggests his “peaceful” approach may have backfired.

“The quiet Kanyari… Harmless Kanyari!!!!! “Stupid me,” the preacher wrote in a brief but emotionally charged post.

The late-night reflection has sent social media into a frenzy, with followers speculating whether the “Prophet” is feeling overwhelmed by the mounting pressures in his private life.

A Family in Crisis

The timing of Kanyari’s outburst is significant. He is currently navigating a period of immense public scrutiny following the tragic death of his ex-partner and mother of his children, Betty Bayo. The aftermath of her passing has opened a Pandora’s box of family disputes and legal questions.

Adding to the tension, Betty’s mother, Joyce Mbugua, has publicly demanded a post-mortem to determine the exact cause of her daughter’s death. She also reportedly urged Kanyari to seek full custody of the couple’s two children, Sky and Victor, further complicating an already delicate situation.

The Tug-of-War Over Custody

Despite the pressure from his former mother-in-law, Kanyari recently maintained a hands-off approach regarding his children’s living arrangements. In late December 2025, he revealed he had spent over Ksh400,000 to send his children on a UK vacation—a country he noted he has never visited himself.

“They have the freedom to choose where they want to stay,” Kanyari stated at the time, insisting he would not force them to live with him upon their return.

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Is the Silence Broken?

Kanyari’s latest “Stupid me” comment suggests a pivot from his December 2025 pledge of total surrender to God. For a man who built his reputation on being outspoken and confrontational, his attempt at being “the quiet Kanyari” seems to have left him feeling vulnerable rather than vindicated.

Whether this post signals a return to his old, more aggressive persona or simply reflects the weight of grief, one thing is clear: the preacher is no longer finding peace in his silence.