Kenyan musician Miss P has shared her views on dating single fathers, saying she has no problem being in a relationship with a man who has children as long as the relationship is healthy and genuine.
Speaking during an interview with media personality Dr Ofweneke on Friday, May 8, 2026, Miss P explained that she prioritises a man’s character, emotional maturity, and intentions over his past relationships or family situation.
According to the singer, her main focus is understanding the individual she wants to build a relationship with before considering anything else.
“I first look at this man I have decided I want to be with; forget about the kids that are coming with him, him as an individual, before the kids, there is him. For me, I am looking at him first,” she said.
Miss P added that what matters most to her is a person’s emotional state and whether they have healed from past experiences.
“What is his state of mind as far as romance is concerned? What has he healed from, what has he experienced? What is he looking for? I’m not looking for history,” she explained.
The singer noted that she believes many relationships struggle because people become too focused on investigating each other’s past instead of concentrating on the present and future.
“I am that kind of person; when I get to something new, I erase the past. One of the reasons why some relationships do not last is someone wanting to find out about the partner’s past; the past is in the past,” she said.
Miss P further explained that people grow and evolve over time, making it unfair to permanently judge someone based on previous mistakes or experiences.
“We cannot be the same person; we have grown. Of course, the past builds up the person we are today, and you cannot judge someone based on what they did in the past. We all make mistakes; everyone deserves a second chance,” she added.
For the artiste, relationships should be built on acceptance, understanding, and the willingness to start afresh together.
“Number one, everyone deserves love; everyone deserves a chance,” she said, adding that what matters most is whether two people are capable of building a healthy relationship in the present.





