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Lilian Ng’ang’a Shares Personal Insights on Relationships and Deal-Breakers

Lilian Ng’ang’a recently opened up about her personal life, shedding light on her upbringing and the challenges she faces in relationships.

Known for her private nature, Lilian spoke about her privileged background, family values, and the qualities she prioritizes in a partner. She also revealed how her father’s influence shaped her expectations in relationships.

Struggles with Excessive Drinking

In a March 9 interview with Dr. Ofweneke, Lilian shared that one of her biggest challenges in relationships is dealing with a partner who drinks excessively.

She explained that growing up with a father who didn’t drink influenced her views on alcohol consumption.

“I struggle with men who drink a lot because I don’t know how to be in that setup. I don’t drink myself. I did in my twenties, but I stopped. Alcohol can embarrass people. You start well, but after a few drinks, you become someone else.”

While she has no issue with moderate drinking, excessive alcohol consumption is a major turn-off for her. She believes men should maintain self-control and be aware of their surroundings.

“It makes you lose respect for that person. Drink, but in moderation. Don’t drink to the extent you get completely intoxicated because alcohol adds no value.”

Prefers a Man Who Comes Home Early

Lilian also emphasized that she values a partner who prioritizes coming home early, a trait she admired in her father.

Although she has adjusted her expectations over time, she still prefers a man who doesn’t stay out late unnecessarily.

“My dad is a man who always came home early. Times have changed, but I have to admit I like a man who does the same. I struggle with someone who comes home late. I’ve adjusted—I could probably tolerate 10 PM—but just be home early. There’s always another day.”

She recalled being in a relationship with someone who was busy but always informed her when he would be late, usually no later than 8 or 9 PM.

Importance of Neatness

Another key quality for Lilian is neatness, as she admitted she cannot tolerate an untidy partner.

“My dad is super neat. A messy man would bother me. Of course, have your space, I’m not asking you to do things exactly like me, but if you’re the complete opposite, we won’t get along.”

She noted that she can often tell if someone is disorganized just from a casual meeting.

“If it’s too much, I can’t handle it. I just lose my mind. Even during a simple coffee or lunch, I can pick up on someone’s level of order. If it’s bad, there won’t be a second conversation.”

Views on Polygamy

Addressing the topic of polygamy, Lilian expressed strong disapproval, arguing that it is often an excuse for poor behavior.

“People just want an excuse to behave badly. There is nothing like polygamy. The men who engage in it are often the most hopeless.”

She believes that truly successful men are devoted to one woman and take proper care of their families.

“A successful man has one wife and provides for his family. Those who seek multiple partners are just feeding their egos, but deep down, they are lacking something.”