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Nyaniso Dzedze gives his opinion on why Men Cheat

Posted on by Molly Mwangi

Nyanisos Dzedze took to Instagram to share an opinion on why men cheat.

In the lengthy Instagram post, he said one of the main reason Men cheat was that of sex.

Here is what he had to say;

I am disappointed.

I am a little distraught… A little in despair.

I just saw a couple I enjoy keeping up with on social media torn apart by infidelity.

The news is “He cheated… Countless times”. He loves her. I know he loves her because I’ve seen it. I see him. I saw it in myself and I didn’t stop loving Yana when i “cheated” (those are the words we use right?) “he’s a lying, toxic, cheating dog”. My thoughts however are… “what’s going on with him?” There’s something going on with him. There’s something going on with all men that they keep making pornography, strip clubs, brothels and the rest of the sex industry one of the highest earning industries in the world.
Let’s be honest, it’s not just for pleasure that we are sex driven. We are sex hungry, and we are sex thirsty. EVERYTHING is sold with sex and MEN are the biggest consumers.
We are not just enjoying the pleasure of sex We are USING sex to COPE.
The most respected men. Men in great power. The big chink in their armour is sex. Whether rapists, infidels, porn addicts, serial brothel and strip club goers they’re related. S. E. X.
I don’t think sex is a problem.
I think excessive unconscious sex abuse, and using it as a coping mechanism is what is leading men down destructive paths.
We need to understand why we are going to sex when we do, and what might actually need to be addressed as opposed to using sex as a veil?
I am seeking the most impactful way to address – Men cheating – men and the unconscious relating to sex – men and the relationships we have (or lack thereof) with our cocks

For now, it seems
Initiating men into their power through the #TheEnlightenedSavageKing will be the platform I continue to use.

To keep interrogating the powerlessness, the surrender of our power to sex.
What would shift if we intimately knew our power, our capacity to hold ourselves? Would we still seek validation and holding from fleeting experiences such as sex?

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Nyaniso Dzedze reveals who made first move on proposal

Posted on by Purity Lisa

Nyaniso Dzedze and his wife Yana Seidl tied the knot two months ago, and theirs is a sweet love story.

While on WTFTumi, Nyaniso revealed who made the first move on making the marriage proposal. And no, it was not him, but his wife.

Yana surprised Nyaniso by going down on one knee in the kitchen floor where she asked for his hand in marriage. He said yes.

Actor Nyaniso Dzedze speaks on struggle with masturbation

Posted on by Purity Lisa

Nyaniso Dzedze has given a detailed account of his addiction to masturbation right from the time he was 16, until the age of 30.

He did this in an Instagram post, explaining that the introspection came from a conversation he had with his wife.

“We used to have sex at an average of about three times a day. Now it is less and less with every month. We’re going to end up having sex once every two months. I refuse to have that relationship‚” said Dzedze to his wife‚ not too long ago.

Sex dependency

For Dzedze, he knows where men’s dependency on sex came from. Society seems to have instilled emotional release for men, through sex.

“Men allow themselves to cry and release emotions they wouldn’t in any other space or time during sex. So what men have naturally done is place every opportunity to express excitement‚ sadness‚ depression‚ stress‚ grief‚ a rough day through sex. Is it truly a wonder why we sexualize everything all the time? Is it such wonder why we want to have sex all the time? Nope.

“Men don’t just like sex‚ we depend on it. We have come to need it‚ almost as integral as food.”

Dzedze recently got married, and openly spoke about his masturbation struggle.

“I used to jack off tons, used to jack off lank hard. I used to pretend that I’m sick on Sundays so my mom would leave me at home alone and I would jack off all day (then I’d pray and repent all night before school). More recently I would jack off from Saturday night till Sunday afternoon without a wink of sleep.

“I could literally go days without sleep… just stroking‚ eating‚ pissing‚ shitting and stroking. I did this periodically for years since. Started around 16 till 30. I was an addict.”

He is currently dealing with his emotional issues, and is no longer an addict. He has learnt to look at women differently and loves differently.

“It was only when I started using emotional tools that addressed the root of my hurt. The more I worked on the heart of the problem‚ the less I needed porn and jacking off to feel better. Since I started moving my inner instability about two and half years ago I must have gone to porn and jacked off a few times rehabilitating but I am not an addict anymore. I don’t need it anymore. I feel different about myself now. Look at women different. I hold women different. I allow myself to love different‚” Dzedze said.

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Photos: Actor Nyaniso Dzedze off the market

Posted on by Purity Lisa

Nyaniso Dzedze is officially a married man. He married his longtime girlfriend and English-German dancer, Yana Seidl.

Taking to social media to share the great news, he also shared photos from the big day.

Nyaniso rocked his creamy Xhosa layers and tribal makeup., while his wife was in a white off-shoulder gown.

“I don’t have words for all of this. Welcome to the world Mr and Mrs Dzedze,” he captioned on Instagram.

His friends including Thembisa Mdoda, Clint Brink, Candice Modiselle, Lehasa Moloi, Siv Ngesi and Masasa Mbangeni congratulated the newlyweds.

“So beautiful. Congratulations you two,” Mdoda wrote.

“Congratulations again! I say it every time I see a pic of you two! He who finds a wife finds a good thing,” Mbangeni commented.

Photos

https://www.instagram.com/p/BmYBLIal16y/?taken-by=nyanisodzedze

https://www.instagram.com/p/BmYBpR5FoMH/?taken-by=nyanisodzedze

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