Akothee Speaks Out On Domestic Violence- “If Love Is Over, Release Her Back to Me”

Singer and businesswoman Akothee has issued a powerful and emotional statement following reports that the daughter of former Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko had allegedly been subjected to domestic violence. The news, which sparked a massive national discussion on Gender-Based Violence (GBV), prompted Akothee to speak out on the accountability of partners.

Known for her outspoken nature and raw honesty, Akothee’s message was a heartfelt call for respect and the immediate protection of young women in relationships, emphasizing that no woman, especially a daughter, deserves to suffer in silence.

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Akothee’s impassioned plea mirrored the worry of many parents who watch their children endure pain in private relationships. She directed her frustration at partners who mistreat those they claim to love, firmly reminding them that love should never escalate to violence.

Her viral statement, shared in a graphic, read:

“If love between you and my daughter is over, please release her to come back to me. I have built mansions and accumulated wealth for my children! The only thing I cannot give them is that one only thing we get from men I don’t have!” – Akothee

The message quickly resonated with fans, who applauded her for being bold and standing up for victims of abuse. Many commenters noted that Akothee’s strong words reflect the reality faced by countless families who helplessly watch their daughters suffer behind closed doors, often afraid to speak out.

Akothee Breaks Her Silence After Scary Health Emergency — Cracks Jokes, Calms Fans, and Calls Out Hospital Drama

Kenyan music star and business mogul Esther Akoth (Akothee) has finally spoken out after days of worry from fans following a frightening medical scare that landed her in hospital earlier this month.

In classic Akothee fashion, she returned to social media with humour blazing, sharing photos and videos on Facebook and joking:

“Wacha nijicheke 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣… Ngoja nikanyage chini mtanijua na zile handkerchiefs zangu 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 I forgot how to walk yoo.”

But behind the laughter was a firm message to the public: leave her children out of it.

“Guys, my children have panicked. Please don’t ask them how I am doing, I am well, sawa? Ignore hiyo story ukiwaona.”

Her posts marked the first time she addressed the terrifying medical episode that had fans fearing the worst.


Fans Celebrate Her Comeback

The comment section exploded with relief as Kenyans welcomed her back with love, prayer, and playful well-wishes:

  • Nyanyo Akoonge: “May the wifi of quick recovery be connected faster.”

  • Christine Mutanu: “Healing is your portion, Akothee.”

  • Terry Njeri: “May God heal you. I’ve learnt so much from you… you motivated me when I was down.”

Many applauded her resilience and humour, noting that even the unstoppable Madam Boss sometimes needs to pause and heal.


What Really Happened: A Terrifying Night

Akothee had earlier shared the blow-by-blow of the night everything went wrong.
On November 9, posting from her hospital bed, she revealed she had collapsed in her washroom after a night of brutal stomach pain, vomiting, and diarrhoea.

The trigger, she said, was a disturbing video involving a young girl in her home — a clip that left her deeply shaken.

“I was so terrified I literally went into labour,” she wrote.

By 5:00 a.m., the pain was unbearable. Her children rushed her to hospital — only to collide with what she described as shocking coldness from the nurse on duty.

“Instead of showing compassion, she raised her voice and told them, ‘Go outside and wait in front there.’”

Her daughter Vesha reportedly pleaded for assistance as Akothee struggled to sit in a wheelchair.
She eventually received treatment and “felt some relief,” though she said her stomach remained “tired and very painful.”


Long-Term Health Battles

This wasn’t an isolated scare. Akothee recently revealed she’s been fighting a cocktail of serious medical issues — among them:

  • Blood clot (location yet to be identified)

  • Severe migraines

  • Uterine fibroids

She also disclosed that previous medication caused her to lose consciousness for three hours.

In a candid statement last month, she said she has deliberately stepped back from the spotlight:

“I have come out of a very dangerous zone, and I have been healing in private. I am in my second month of therapy.”

The singer called this her “healing era” — a period focused on recovery, mental wellness, and taking back control of her health.

‘I Just Wanted to Die”- Akothee Hospitalized After Traumatic Night, Slams Nurse’s Cold Response

Kenyan music star Akothee was rushed to the emergency room by her children this morning after experiencing a night of agonizing and severe abdominal pain, which she believes was triggered by seeing a “disturbing video of a young girl” in her home area.

The singer, who has often spoken about managing chronic health issues, described the harrowing ordeal, which tragically included a near-death moment and a shocking lack of compassion from a medical professional.

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A Night of Agony

Akothee detailed how the emotional stress from the video instantly led to severe physical symptoms that felt like she was “literally went into labour.” From midnight, she suffered from uncontrollable vomiting, diarrhea, burning acidity, and unbearable stomach pain, forcing her to sleep in the toilet.

“At around 5.00 am, I couldn’t bear it anymore,” she recounted. “I rolled off, trying to reach their door while screaming in pain, that’s what finally woke them up.”

Her children found her on the toilet floor in a distressing state and rushed her to the hospital’s emergency wing at 6:00 a.m.

The Heartbreaking Encounter

Instead of immediate relief, Akothee and her daughters were met with a nurse who displayed a cold and unsympathetic attitude. Seeing their mother in unbearable pain, her daughters “kindly asked if the nurse could give me something for the pain.”

The nurse’s response was sharp and dismissive: “Go outside and wait in front there.”

Akothee, barely able to sit up, said the moment forced her to momentarily forget her pain to defend her children, who were simply trying to help. When she expressed that she would rather seek another hospital because the pain was so intense that she “just wanted to die,” the nurse’s reply was chillingly indifferent: “You are free to go,” before abandoning them.

Her daughter, Vesha, even resorted to begging the nurse, but Akothee’s trust was broken, telling her children to leave, fearing the nurse might even inject her “for good.”

Focusing on Survival

Akothee called the experience “heartbreaking,” lamenting that she was helpless, in crippling pain, and still had to defend her children in a place meant for care.

She later confirmed that she eventually received medication, which provided some relief, though her stomach remains painful and “tired.” She ended her post with a powerful resolve: “May I get well to protect my children.”

Akothee Strikes Again! “Madam Boss” Drags Her ‘Irresponsible Baby Daddy’ and His New Lover in Hilarious Online Rant

Kenyan singer and business mogul Esther Akoth, better known as Akothee, has once again sent social media into a frenzy — this time with a fiery and laugh-out-loud Facebook post aimed squarely at one of her exes, whom she boldly labelled her “irresponsible baby daddy.”

The unapologetic star — famous for her no-filter attitude — mixed sarcasm, sass, and side-eye as she addressed a “mystery woman” allegedly dating her former partner.


“Stop Teaching Him Tough English!”

In her signature no-nonsense tone, Akothee kicked off her viral post with a line that had fans howling:

“If you are the one dating my irresponsible baby daddy, stop teaching him those tough English. That man is a simple man, even with evolution or climate change he can’t write that English. I swear hajui AI! He ran away from the US of The A because he couldn’t pronounce ‘vegetables’ — and that was the end of him, school & English.”

The Madam Boss went on to claim that her ex could never have written the “complex” online messages she’s been seeing — implying that the new woman was doing the typing for him.

“Stop stressing him with long emails, I know his handwriting,” she added. “I’ll get back to you guys in March next year — my doctor says my brain is on a mental break. I’m happy you’re working as a team, lakini kwa vita hivi mtahitaji Yesu!”


Akothee’s “Advice” to the New Girlfriend

Never one to pull her punches, Akothee followed up with some unsolicited advice for the alleged new flame — served hot, spicy, and dripping with shade.

“If I were you, I’d be concentrating on convincing him to buy me a small apartment, a small car, and a small business — because you’re still small children,” she wrote, signing off with a flurry of laughing emojis.

And, of course, she couldn’t resist a reminder of her own boss-lady status:

“Mimi billionaire ameishi kotini since 2021. Sembuse mwenye mbegu? Ahh, millionaires watulie kwanza — tuhesabu mabilioni ndipo turudi hapo kwa ma milioni.”

Finally, she ended with a cheeky jab that fans instantly turned into memes:

“Next time mkiniona supermarket musitoroke tena, munichukulie hata ka wine ya kupigia uterus pole ala!”


The Queen of Oversharing — and Owning It

Akothee’s latest post is just another chapter in her long and colorful history of airing her relationship drama online — something her followers have come to expect and adore.

The mother of five has never shied away from discussing her exes, co-parenting battles, and the emotional ups and downs of her love life.

Despite heartbreaks, court battles, and a short-lived marriage to her Swiss ex-husband Denis “Omosh” Schweizer in 2023, Akothee continues to wear her scars — and her sass — like a crown.

Her message remains clear: she may be bruised, but she’s unbothered, unfiltered, and still fabulously Madam Boss.

As one fan put it under the viral post:

“Only Akothee can turn baby daddy drama into stand-up comedy!”

Akothee Defends Azziad Nasenya Amidst Auction Rumors: “Stop Bullying Her”

Musician and entrepreneur Akothee has publicly come to the defense of TikToker Azziad Nasenya following reports that Azziad’s Ksh25 million apartment in Kileleshwa is facing auction. In an open letter penned on social media, Akothee fiercely criticized the public for mocking the young content creator’s alleged financial struggles.

Akothee began her lengthy post by expressing her respect and admiration for Azziad’s ambition.

“Let’s stop bullying Azziad, pick a struggle! First and foremost, I respect and love this girl even more for dreaming bigger. That’s exactly the way to go,” she wrote.

Celebrating Courage, Condemning Critics

Akothee argued that the public should celebrate Azziad’s courage for taking a significant financial risk at a young age.

“At just 25 years old, Azziad can acquire a loan and buy herself a house. That’s commendable!” she stated, suggesting that Azziad’s situation simply reflects the reality that many Kenyans rely on loans.

She went on to hit back directly at critics, particularly men who were mocking the influencer.

“Some of the men criticizing her don’t even qualify for a motorbike loan and are still living in rental houses they can barely afford. Let’s celebrate courage, not condemn it,” Akothee emphasized.

Akothee also used her own tumultuous past to highlight the difficulty of life for many young women. She noted that at 25, many women are grappling with failed marriages, raising children alone, and facing financial ruin, often with “zero bank accounts, no jobs, no certificates, and no direction.”

Akothee’s message of support comes after reports surfaced alleging that Azziad had defaulted on a Ksh25 million mortgage for her apartment after only three months, leading to the threat of auction.

Akothee Dismisses Fake TikTok Reports of Road Accident

Celebrated Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Akothee has rubbished claims circulating on TikTok alleging she had been involved in a road accident on her way to the Maasai Mara National Park.

The artist confirmed she is currently in the United Kingdom on vacation, not in Kenya as the false reports suggested.

Akothee’s Response

Taking to Facebook, Akothee shared screenshots of the TikTok video and made it clear the rumors were baseless.

“Wait, hata mimi nangoja menopause kwanza, usiniharakishe na kifo. Yaani, if Kenyans were selling Oxygen, I swear they won’t serve me. I am still in the UK—hakuna Maasai Mara huku,” she wrote.

Frustrated by the spread of dangerous misinformation, she warned content creators against fabricating stories and cautioned her acquaintances not to forward such rumors without verification.

“And to my acquaintances with my contacts, don’t send me things you get on social media if not from my page or my family pages. Utakula Block,” she added.

She reminded fans that she alone will communicate any updates on her health or personal life.

A VIP Weekend in the UK

As the rumors spread, Akothee was enjoying an exclusive weekend in Manchester. She attended the high-profile Premier League clash between Manchester United and Chelsea at Old Trafford as a VVIP guest.

United clinched a 2-1 victory in the dramatic encounter that saw both teams reduced to 10 men—Chelsea’s goalkeeper Robert Sánchez receiving an early red card, followed by Manchester United’s Casemiro later in the game.

Akothee Suspends All Projects to Focus on Health After Battling Burnout

Renowned Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, has announced a pause on all her projects, citing health struggles that have left her physically and emotionally drained.

Struggles with Burnout and Headaches

The award-winning artist revealed that she has been experiencing sharp headaches that affect her moods and have remained unresponsive to painkillers. She admitted that the past year has been particularly difficult, with the last two months proving overwhelming.

“I have been battling severe burnout and sharp headaches that keep affecting my moods. It has been a rough year with no breaks, and the past two months have been especially overwhelming,” she said.

Akothee explained that despite efforts to keep up with her busy schedule, including the use of multivitamins, energy drinks, and medical interventions, her body has reached its limit. She disclosed that after her recent performance in Malindi, she was unable to get out of bed for two days.

“As a result, all projects are suspended until I regain my energy,” she announced.

Packed Schedule

The mother of five has been juggling multiple responsibilities, including managing her businesses, pursuing her music career, spearheading charity initiatives through the Akothee Foundation, and handling various brand partnerships.

Her most recent engagements included participating in the Devolution Conference in Homa Bay County and the Great Roan Half-Marathon, both of which added to her demanding schedule.

Family Commitments

Beyond her professional life, Akothee has also had an eventful year on the family front.

In March 2025, she traveled to France for her daughter Fancy Makadia’s marriage signing ceremony, paving the way for the wedding months later. Together with her fiancé Nelly Oaks and her daughters Vesha Okello and Rue Baby, Akothee played a central role in the glamorous wedding celebrations in June, where she gifted the couple a house and shared financial wisdom for their new journey.

Celebrating Cultural Roots

Despite the challenges, Akothee has continued to honor her Luo heritage through her music. Her latest release is an afro-fusion track that celebrates her cultural roots, resilience, and identity. The song also pays tribute to the sacrifices and contributions of Luo heroes in Kenya’s history.

In the music video, Akothee dons traditional regalia, showcasing the vibrancy of Luo culture while taking fans on a journey through the community’s way of life.

Akothee pens heartfelt letter against police brutality

Kenyan singer and businesswoman Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, has made a powerful and emotional appeal condemning police brutality in the wake of recent protests across the country.

Taking to her social media platforms, the outspoken celebrity expressed deep anguish and frustration over the growing number of young Kenyans injured or killed during demonstrations, particularly during the recent Saba Saba protests held on July 7th, 2025.

How many more must die before you listen?” Akothee questioned, urging the government and security agencies to respect the rights of citizens and to protect—rather than harm—those voicing their concerns.

A Voice for the Voiceless

Akothee, a mother and advocate for youth empowerment, lamented the excessive use of force against peaceful protesters, many of whom belong to the country’s vibrant and increasingly vocal Gen Z movement. The protests, sparked by public outrage over the now-withdrawn Finance Bill 2024, have transformed into a broader demand for government accountability, economic justice, and an end to police violence.

In her plea, Akothee emphasized the courage of the youth standing up for their future:

“These are our children. Our brothers. Our sisters. Our future. They are not criminals—they are Kenyans asking to be heard. They deserve protection, not bullets.”

She also shared disturbing images and stories circulating online, highlighting the gruesome injuries sustained by young demonstrators, some of whom were reportedly shot at close range or beaten by police officers and unknown assailants.

Call to Leaders and the Police

Akothee directly addressed Kenya’s political leadership, including President William Ruto and Interior Cabinet Secretary Kithure Kindiki, imploring them to intervene and stop the bloodshed.

“We cannot call ourselves a democratic nation if citizens are met with violence every time they speak up. This is not leadership—this is a betrayal of the people,” she wrote.

She also urged the National Police Service to remember their constitutional role as protectors of life and property, not instruments of fear and repression.

Echoing a Growing Outcry

Akothee joins a chorus of activists, artists, and civil society leaders who have spoken out in recent weeks, calling for justice for those who have lost their lives or been injured during the demonstrations.

Human rights organizations like the Kenya National Commission on Human Rights (KNCHR) have reported dozens of deaths and injuries across multiple counties, while social media continues to flood with first-hand accounts of abductions, arbitrary arrests, and intimidation of protestors.

 

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A Mother’s Perspective

Known for her candid and no-nonsense approach to social issues, Akothee framed her plea not only as a celebrity but as a mother worried about her own children’s safety in the current climate.

“Today it is someone else’s child. Tomorrow it could be mine. We cannot remain silent. We must speak out until they listen.”

Her message has resonated with many, drawing widespread support from fans and fellow public figures alike who see her stand as part of a larger push for justice and national healing.

As Kenya grapples with mounting political tension and growing demands for reform, voices like Akothee’s continue to remind the nation of the human cost of silence—and the power of speaking out.

A CRY FROM A HELPLESS MOTHER 🙏

My sons and daughters, we hear you We know you have your rights to be heard and understood, we know you feel ignored and the pressure is getting worse, but look at where we are my children, are we winning or loosing lives every day, are you scared the way I am, are you feeling the negative energy around the country? Are you feeling safe ?

It is high time that every parent takes personal responsibility to protect their children. Talk to your child. Ask them to stay indoors. This is no longer about what it was , it has become something far more dangerous. If we are not careful, your child could be shot dead. You could become childless. Your husband may not return home. and you may soon find yourself a widow. No government compensation can ever replace the life death has taken.

Let us remember that our true power lies in our votes , not in shouting on the streets. Look at what is happening: our children are scattered across roads, confused and endangered. The same police we once called our protectors now stand as our adversaries. Shops are shut, businesses are looted or closed down. We are burning our own nation, tearing down the very infrastructure we will later beg to have rebuilt , with money we do not even have.

As a mother and an entrepreneur, I have lost on all fronts. The economic unrest has wiped out livelihoods. We have barely recovered from one wave of chaos before another one begins. Campaigns have started again. When do we breathe? When do we heal?

Can we, for once, allow ourselves just one year of peace? One year to rebuild, to reconcile, to grow, and to breathe. Let us manage our pain with wisdom and restraint.

Go and collect your voting card. Let your ballot speak for you. Vote in the leader you believe in , and vote out the one you no longer trust. But let us not tear each other apart in the name of politics. This “by fire, by force” approach is rendering us childless, widowed, and broken. Our children leave home walking, only to return in caskets.

As mothers, where do we go? To whom do we turn?

Let us rise with sense and strength — not in flames and sorrow. The future of this country is not in bloodshe

Akothee Pens Emotional Tribute as Daughter Fancy Makadia Graduates with Master’s Degree in France

Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, is overjoyed as her daughter Prudence Vanpelt Brina, alias Fancy Makadia, graduates with a Master’s degree in Tourism and Hotel Management in Paris, France.

In a heartfelt message shared online, the award-winning singer reflected on her emotional journey of motherhood — from struggling as a single parent to now witnessing her daughter achieve academic excellence.

“My dearest daughter, PRUDENCE VANPELT BRINA BUSHNEL, Fancy Makadia… As I write this letter, tears roll down my cheeks — not from pain this time, but from overwhelming gratitude and pride,” Akothee began.

She described Fancy’s success as a turning point in their family’s story — a journey from “grass to grace.”

From Rock Bottom to a Master’s Degree

Akothee recounted the difficult years that followed the collapse of her marriage, when Fancy was just five years old.

“You were a tiny, sickly child, in and out of hospital. I couldn’t even afford paracetamol. I had to befriend a doctor just to get you treated for free.”

In one of the most harrowing moments, she recalled being arrested for loitering while seeking medical help for her daughter.

“You were burning with fever, vomiting and shivering. I called a doctor who said to meet him at Bombolulu stage — but he never showed. I stood there, alone, past 10 p.m. with no ID, no money, just fear. The police found me and arrested me. I spent the night on the cold floor of Bamburi Police Station — praying for you,” she wrote.

The next morning, she rushed home, fearing the worst, but found her children safe.

“God had kept you. That day, none of you went to school — you’d already been sent home over fees. Still, I shielded your innocence. I told you my car broke down and I spent the night at the mechanic.”

Akothee described their modest life in a small one-bedroom house in Nyali, sharing a single bed and living on faith and resilience.

“We didn’t have much, but I made sure there was food in the fridge. I tried, my child. And now — today — you stand.”

A Family United in Pride

Fancy’s sister, Vesha Okello, also expressed her excitement and admiration.

“Starting this morning on an incredibly high note! @fancy_makadia has officially graduated with her Master’s degree! You’ve made us so proud. Your hard work, grace, and dedication inspire us all. Cheers to new heights and greater wins!” she wrote.

Fancy’s graduation marks not only a personal triumph but also a powerful symbol of perseverance, maternal strength, and the power of education to transform lives.

From police station floors to Parisian graduation halls, Akothee’s story is a reminder that even the hardest journeys can end in celebration.

Akothee Addresses Speculation Over Ex-Husband’s Absence at Daughter’s Wedding

Days after Fancy Makadia and her Beninese fiancé formalized their union under French law, fans quickly noticed a significant absence at the ceremony—her biological father, Jared Okello.

The intimate marriage signing, held on March 22, was attended by close family and friends, including Akothee, Fancy’s adoptive father Dominic, and her two younger brothers, Oyoo and Ojwang. However, the absence of Okello sparked widespread speculation, with many questioning why he wasn’t present for such an important milestone in his daughter’s life.

Fans Theorize About Jared Okello’s Absence

As photos and videos from the ceremony circulated online, social media users took to Akothee’s comment section, offering their own theories. Some speculated that Okello was an absent father, while others suggested that Akothee might have denied him access to their daughter.

Though she did not directly respond to the accusations, Akothee took to social media to share a powerful message aimed at single mothers, advising them not to let bitterness influence their children’s relationships with their fathers.

Akothee’s Message to Single Mothers

Akothee and Jared Okello were married for five years before their official divorce in 2011. They share three daughters—Vesha Okello, Rue Baby, and Fancy Makadia. Following their separation, Akothee moved on and later had another child, Oyoo, with her partner Dominic, who eventually adopted Fancy and took on a fatherly role in her life.

Reflecting on absent fathers, Akothee shared a heartfelt message:

“Every painful thing you say to your child about their father will eventually reflect in their character as they grow up. If you plant the idea in their minds that they have been rejected, you are shaping a child who will carry that pain forever.

Bitter words will never make your children replace the love they have for their father with love for you. No matter how absent he may be, he played a role in their lives—even if it was just in conceiving them.”

She further urged single mothers to allow their children to form their own opinions about their fathers instead of shaping negative narratives.

“Allow your children to learn for themselves whether their father is interested in their lives or not. It is not your responsibility to keep updating them; they will figure it out in time.

The same children you are trying to turn against their father will one day seek him out and reintroduce him to you. And for those deliberately keeping their children away from their fathers, life has a way of bringing things full circle—one day, your daughter may introduce her father to you as the father of her own child.”

Her message resonated with many, sparking mixed reactions. While some agreed that children should be given the freedom to decide on their own, others argued that some fathers are undeserving of any acknowledgment if they have never stepped up to their responsibilities.

Dominic’s Role in Fancy’s Life

While the debate over Okello’s absence continued, Dominic’s presence at the wedding was a testament to the love and unity within their blended family. Akothee has previously shared that after Fancy’s biological father left and another of her baby daddies refused to accept her children, Dominic stepped in at a crucial time.

He wholeheartedly embraced the role of a father, providing the love and support Fancy needed, and their strong bond has only deepened over the years.

A Grand Wedding in the Works

Despite the ongoing speculation, Akothee is now looking forward to a larger wedding celebration that Fancy and her husband are planning. With this grand event on the horizon, fans are eager to see whether Jared Okello will make an appearance this time.

For now, Akothee remains focused on celebrating Fancy’s milestone, standing firm in her message of peace and moving beyond bitterness.

Akothee’s Daughter Fancy Makadia Marries Her Partner in France

Kenyan singer and self-proclaimed President of Single Mothers, Akothee, is now a proud mother-in-law.

Her daughter, Fancy Makadia, tied the knot with her fiancé, Engineer Faïroze, in an intimate ceremony attended by close family members. Videos shared on social media captured the joyous occasion.

Fancy’s sister, Rue Baby, celebrated the milestone with a heartfelt message on social media:

“This will be an everlasting love for you, my baby sister ❤️❤️❤️ Congratulations! I am so happy for you, my love ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥 @fancy_makadia.”

Akothee also took to social media to express her pride and joy, sharing an emotional tribute to her youngest daughter:

*”UWIIIIIIIIIIII UWIIIIIIII! BEHOLD THE OFFICIAL 3RD DEGREE THAT IS THE DREAM OF EVERY GIRL. My Daughter @fancy_makadia has proven me right once again.

 

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I LOVE YOU, QUEEN. Two degrees and one marriage certificate. Alilililili @fancy_makadia!”*

Fancy Makadia’s Engagement

In March 2024, Fancy announced her engagement, sharing her excitement about the new chapter in her life:

“Excited to start this new chapter with my soulmate 💕💕.”

Akothee has previously stated that she does not expect a dowry, emphasizing that her only wish is for her son-in-law to be loyal and devoted to her daughter.

*”I am a sober, loving, and considerate mother. I expect someone’s son to take care of, love, and protect my daughter.

She once asked me, ‘Mum, how many cows should he bring, or what do you want?’

I told her, ‘Your happiness is all I need.’ That is enough for me. I don’t need anything from him, just loyalty and unconditional love for you. May God bless your union, @fancy_makadia & my son-in-law, Engineer Faïroze. I pray for you daily 🙏.”*

A Proud Mother’s Legacy

Akothee has often spoken about the challenges she faced raising her children and her pride in their achievements. She highlighted the significance of education and discipline in her family:

*”I might be your role model, but my struggles reflect what your mothers went through. I am their role model, representing the sacrifices they made to secure your future.

If you are below 30, I am not just your role model—I am your mentor, inspiration, and motivation.

Despite all odds, I raised disciplined, educated children—five degrees in one photo! I don’t care what people think, but I know I have outshined 70% of men in this country, 10-0.

Wait for my dress tomorrow for my daughter’s big day! @mbogoriafashions weeeee!

Congratulations to my daughter, Fancy Makadia!”*

Akothee Responds to Questions About ‘Nelly Oaks Junior’

Kenyan entrepreneur and musician Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, once again showcased her sharp humor and quick wit when a fan’s comment about her figure sparked speculation online.

Celebrating Her Sister-in-Law

Akothee recently celebrated her sister-in-law, Faith Omondi Odero, who graduated with a Master’s degree. Sharing the joyous moment on her social media platforms, Akothee praised Faith for her resilience and calm nature, which she said fosters harmony within the family.

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In the photos and videos posted, Akothee looked elegant in a black maxi dress that highlighted her figure, while her partner, Nelly Oaks, complemented her style in a black suit, white shirt, and red tie. The couple radiated happiness as they posed alongside Faith during the celebratory event.

Fan Ignites Pregnancy Rumors

While most fans filled the comment section with congratulatory messages for Faith, one fan sparked curiosity about Akothee’s appearance. The fan cheekily commented, “Ni kitambi ama Nelly Junior? Congratulations to your in-law,” hinting at the possibility of pregnancy or weight gain.

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True to her bold personality, Akothee responded with her trademark humor. Tagging the fan directly, she replied with a single word: “Both.” Her witty comeback left fans in stitches, with many praising her for her lighthearted response.

Akothee’s Journey as a Mother

Akothee is no stranger to conversations about motherhood. A proud mother of five, she has three daughters with her ex-husband Jared Okello and two sons from other relationships.

Earlier this year, Akothee opened up about the challenges she has faced as a mother. She revealed losing her 8-month-old son during her early years as a young mother, an experience that profoundly affected her. Additionally, she shared details of a miscarriage she suffered in late 2022, losing what would have been her sixth child. The loss came amid a tumultuous period in her life, as she parted ways with her then-husband, Omosh, just two months after their wedding.

Despite these experiences, Akothee has remained open about her desire to have more children. She has often expressed her wish to expand her family further, a dream she shares with her current partner, Nelly Oaks. According to Akothee, Nelly is enthusiastic about the idea and has expressed a desire for four children.

Through her honesty and humor, Akothee continues to inspire and entertain her fans, proving she is as resilient as she is unapologetically authentic.

“Stay Tuned!” Akothee Sends a Strong Message to Her Critics

Musician Akothee recently took to Facebook to share a series of photos documenting her journey from the early days of her construction projects to the lifestyle she now enjoys.

Alongside the images, she addressed her critics, challenging them to reflect on their own lives:
“Before fixating on my life and letting bitterness consume you, ask yourself: Where were you in 2013? How old were you then? Be honest. Where will you be in 10 years, and are you working towards that goal?”

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Akothee reflected on her own path, revealing that at 32 years old in 2013, she had already envisioned her retirement and begun taking deliberate steps toward achieving it.

“The home you see is my retirement sanctuary in Rongo, Kamagambo—a testament to my passion for development. I supervised every aspect of construction, driven by a clear vision of what I wanted to accomplish. This was built entirely debt-free, without taking any loans,” she shared.

The businesswoman and mother of five revealed that dating was not a priority during this period, as she focused on supporting her family and building her legacy.

“While working on my home, I managed to provide for my children, siblings, and others while traveling the world and pursuing my goals. Dating didn’t even cross my mind—I needed to create a safe haven for my children first. After completing my home, I started building one for my mother as a gesture of love and gratitude,” she disclosed.

Akothee emphasized that her current lifestyle is the result of prioritizing what truly mattered and encouraged others to carve their own paths.

“When you see me enjoying life, remember that it’s the fruit of years spent focusing on my goals. Don’t just follow the crowd; be original and work on building a future aligned with your dreams and values,” she advised.

She concluded with an exciting hint about her upcoming achievements, stating, “This time next year, I will have three new titles to my name.”

“I’ve Never Wronged Nelly Oaks!” Asserts Akothee

Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, known as Akothee, has addressed her ongoing breakups with her partner Nelly Oaks. In a statement on Sunday, she emphasized that she has never wronged Nelly, who is also her manager, during their nearly ten-year relationship.

Akothee clarified that, contrary to public perception, it is Nelly who has consistently initiated their conflicts and separations over the years. She stated, “No woman will leave a good relationship. Many people think I’m the one who picks him up and drops him, but let me start the year with the truth. He is the one who has always started our fights and breakups,” in an Instagram post.

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She further explained her approach to their disputes: “As a woman, when I reach my limit, I choose to walk away and live my life because I have a life outside of our relationship. We go our separate ways but still share a strong bond.”

Akothee described the cycle of their breakups, saying, “Each time we break up, I block him and delete his number, but when we cross paths again, we pick up where we left off. Don’t get it twisted: I am a faithful, genuine, and loving partner.”

At 43, she reaffirmed that she only maintains one relationship at a time and stressed that both partners must put in effort to make a relationship work. “I love him with all my loyalty. I am a woman who dates one man at a time,” she asserted.

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The couple has had a tumultuous relationship, breaking up multiple times in the past. Last year, Akothee even considered marrying another man, but they ultimately reconciled and continued their relationship.

Akothee Cautions Women About Chemical Peels After Experiencing Skin Damage

Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Akothee has issued a warning about the risks of chemical peels after a personal experience left her with skin damage. She opened up about her struggles with hormonal imbalances, which led to frequent facial breakouts. Seeking a solution, she opted for a chemical peel based on a recommendation, but the treatment caused more harm than good.

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Akothee shared how the peel left her skin severely burned and dry, leaving her uncomfortable and frustrated. “Someone suggested a chemical peel, and I decided to give it a try. Instead of improving my skin, it left it damaged and dehydrated. I couldn’t even face the mirror without feeling disheartened,” she recalled.

Her partner, Nelly, was the first to express concern, noticing the burn marks and dryness on her face. Initially, Akothee reassured him that the effects would fade within days, but it soon became clear the damage was more extensive. When her makeup artist, Ann, also pointed out the issue, Akothee realized the severity of the situation.

Attempts to contact the clinic responsible for the procedure were unsuccessful, leaving Akothee feeling abandoned. Nelly, upset by the outcome, threw out the products they had recommended and went back to her trusted skincare routine. Thankfully, within a month, her skin began to recover.

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Reflecting on the experience, Akothee advised her followers to be cautious about new beauty trends. “Ladies, be careful with your body. Not all these trends are beneficial, and some can do more harm than good,” she cautioned.

Akothee’s story is a reminder to thoroughly research any beauty treatments and prioritize health over cosmetic trends. Although she eventually healed, the experience served as a valuable lesson.

Akothee finally discloses the reason behind the end of her marriage with Mzungu Bae, Mr. Omosh

Kenyan artist, brand influencer, and CEO of Akothee Safaris, Akothee, has finally revealed the true reason she ended her marriage with her Mzungu boyfriend, Mr. Omosh Schweizer.

In an emotional radio interview, Akothee explained that the turning point in their relationship occurred when she found out that Omosh had been hiding a health condition from her.

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“Yale ambayo niliyagundua baadaye yalikua ni mambo ambayo singeweza kuketi nayo kwa sababu alinificha na kule kunificha ndiko kuliniumiza nikasema, kama umenificha kwa wakati huu ni mangapi utanificha na nitakua ninakuamini vipi,” Akothee stated.

The discovery deeply affected her, leading to the realization that she could no longer trust him. She made the difficult decision to end their relationship because his secrecy over important matters had broken the trust they had built as partners.

“Na kile kilifanya niachane naye ni kwamba hakuniambia ukweli wake wa ndani kwamba alikua na health challenges… hizi maugonjwa za akili alikua ako na Bipolar… aliponiambia nikamwambia mbona hukuniambia nikajiabisha mbele ya watu,” Akothee shared.

While Akothee acknowledged the sensitive nature of mental health issues, she expressed disappointment that Omosh hadn’t trusted her enough to be open about his struggles. She stressed that honesty and trust are the cornerstones of any relationship, and his lack of transparency made her reevaluate their partnership.

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Akothee hopes her experience encourages others to be more open about mental health in relationships, emphasizing its importance in maintaining trust.

Mr. Omosh, whose real name is Dennis Eduard Schweizer, was born in Bern, Switzerland, in 1988.

The Previous Ones Were Just Practice – Akothee Reveals Plans for Third Wedding

Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, made an appearance on the “Gidi na Ghost” morning show on Radio Jambo, where she discussed a range of topics, including her personal life, business ventures, and her role as Uganda’s tourism ambassador.

During the interview, the 43-year-old revealed her plans for an upcoming grand wedding with her current partner, Nelson Oyugi, also known as Nelly Oaks. She remarked, “The previous wedding (with Omosh) was small, just a practice run. The real wedding is coming soon, and it’s going to be much bigger.”

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Despite experiencing challenges in her past relationships, Akothee expressed that she remains optimistic about love. “Why would I lose hope in love? I need to be loved. I’m going to have another wedding, and this one will be international. The man is well-known,” she shared.

While she refrained from disclosing too many specifics about the wedding, Akothee hinted that invitations would be exclusive, explaining, “There are many people with bad intentions… This time, we won’t announce the date. It will be invite-only, and the invitation will be based on your worth.”

Akothee and Nelly Oaks have publicly celebrated their relationship over recent months, following her separation from ex-husband Denis Schweizer, also known as Mister Omosh, earlier last year. Last year, Akothee hinted at rekindling her romance with Nelly Oaks during a live TikTok session, where she affectionately called him “babe” multiple times. Nelly, in turn, referred to Akothee as someone special, sharing romantic moments during the session.

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Nelly Oaks made it clear that his relationship with Akothee was exclusive, and when fans questioned if he was seeing anyone else, Akothee humorously responded, “You’re asking if Nelly has someone? Do you think I’m a rock or a tree? Don’t test my patience. It’s my life, and I live it how I choose.”

Akothee has previously been married twice—first to her former husband, Jared Okello, and then to Swiss national Denis Schweizer.

Akothee Rebukes Male Friends for Inappropriate Behavior: “Earn Respect by Showing Respect”

Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, has spoken out about an uncomfortable situation involving some of her male friends.

In a social media post, the mother of five expressed her discomfort with the inappropriate conversations initiated by certain male acquaintances. She criticized these friends for crossing boundaries by bringing up s*xual topics, stating such discussions are disrespectful to her and her partner, Nelly Oaks. Akothee made it clear that being friendly with men doesn’t grant them the right to introduce such inappropriate topics.

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“Let’s get this straight—are we simply friends, or have we suddenly become s*x mates or bed mates?” she questioned, emphasizing that such conversations are off-limits. She asserted there is no intention of dating or becoming romantically involved with these individuals, so such topics should never arise.

Addressing the impact of these conversations on her personal life, Akothee raised a significant point: “How am I supposed to explain to Nelly Oaks when you call and start talking like that?” She voiced concerns that these discussions could potentially harm her relationship. Akothee, known for her commitment to her partner, made it clear she would not tolerate inappropriate dialogues from friends.

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In a firm statement, she warned that if these conversations persist, she would let her partner handle it directly. “If you call again, I will just hand the phone to @nellyoaks to deal with you, as I can’t handle this nonsense,” she stated, reinforcing her stance on loyalty and respect within her relationship.

Akothee urged her male friends to maintain self-respect if they expect respect in return. She emphasized that respect must be earned and clarified that she will only discuss intimate matters with the person she is involved with.

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Entrepreneur and artist Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, has hinted at the release of her new book, two years after launching her first one.

On her Instagram page, the mother of five unveiled the cover of her upcoming book, Turn Your Pain into Purpose, and announced that the book launch is set for October 12.

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In this new work, Akothee will delve into her personal journey, sharing the challenges she faced on her path to success in music, love, and education.

She wrote, “What are the pains you can’t let go of, and how does it feel to cry over things you believe are unchangeable? Why do you carry them with you everywhere? Can we navigate your pain together with a higher purpose? Let’s meet on October 12.”

The book’s cover also highlights her resilience, emphasizing her unwavering pursuit of love.

It’s important to note that despite having a grand wedding last April, her marriage ended just four months later. Akothee had tied the knot with a Swiss national she fondly called ‘Omosh.’ Though they were open about their romance, they chose to stay silent about their split until Akothee eventually opened up about the breakup weeks later.

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Akothee Sets the Record Straight: ‘I’m a Businesswoman, Not a Socialite.’

Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, recently addressed misconceptions about her identity on social media. The mother of five expressed her frustration at being labeled a socialite, urging people to recognize her true titles.

Akothee stressed that she is far more than a socialite, emphasizing her career as a professional artist and entrepreneur. As a successful musician, she has made a notable impact in the entertainment industry, but her influence also extends into various fields such as brand strategy, marketing consultancy, and community empowerment.

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In her post, Akothee clarified the difference between being an artist and a socialite. She explained that an artist is someone who creates, performs, and expresses their talent through various forms of art, dedicating themselves to their craft to make a lasting impact on their audience and industry. In contrast, a socialite gains attention primarily through their social life and presence at high-profile events, often lacking the professional achievements and talents that define an artist.

Akothee’s career is distinguished by a wide range of professional accomplishments that go far beyond the label of a socialite, highlighting her substantial influence across various sectors.

Entrepreneurship: Akothee has led successful ventures such as Akothee Safaris, Aknotela, Akothen Properties, the Akothee Foundation, and the Akothee Academy, establishing herself as a significant figure in the business world.

Brand Strategist & Marketing Consultant: She has an impressive record in brand strategy, notably transforming Rosy, a brand under Chandaria Industries, from offering just three products to a range of 32 within three years.

Brand Ambassador: Akothee has represented leading brands like Premier Foods (Orchid Valley), Silverstone Airlines, Kenya Airways, and Tecno. Her work with Tecno, in particular, helped elevate the brand from a budget product to one associated with status and disposable income.

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Event Organizer: Akothee has spearheaded major events, including the Great Half Marathon Roan Antelope in Homa Bay County and the launch of the first-ever domestic commercial flight to Migori County.

Tourism Advocate: She has been instrumental in promoting cross-border tourism between Kenya and Uganda, demonstrating her commitment to regional development.

Philanthropy and Community Work: Through the Akothee Foundation, she has initiated various charitable projects, including securing donations to support those in need.

Akothee proudly declared, “I Am Brand Akothee,” making it clear that she is not just a socialite but a multifaceted artist and entrepreneur with a significant impact across multiple industries. Her journey of hard work and dedication has made her a powerful figure in Kenya and beyond, inspiring others with her story of success and resilience.

Akothee and Nelly Oaks redefine their relationship during a trip to Uganda

Singer and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, known as Akothee, recently shared the success of her trip to Uganda with her manager, Nelly Oaks. In a post on Monday evening, the 43-year-old revealed that during their visit, she and Nelly Oaks renewed their vows, officially becoming husband and wife.

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Akothee expressed her gratitude to Uganda, noting that the trip had strengthened their relationship. “Uganda worked its magic on us. We left as manager and artist, and we’re returning as husband and wife. Our vows were renewed in Uganda. Thank you, Uganda, for boosting my love life. I love you, Uganda,” she wrote.

She also mentioned her plans to return to Uganda soon. Recently, Akothee and Nelly Oaks, who also serves as her official manager, have been on a tourism-related trip in Uganda, openly celebrating their rekindled relationship following her split from Denis Schweizer last year.

Late last year, Akothee hinted at the revival of her relationship with Nelly Oaks during a live TikTok session, where she referred to him as “babe” multiple times. Nelly, in turn, called Akothee someone special, as they shared romantic moments on camera.

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During the session, Akothee strongly dismissed women who expressed interest in Nelly, making it clear that he was unavailable. When fans questioned if Nelly had a significant other, Akothee confidently confirmed her role, stating, “You’re asking if Nelly has someone? Do you think I’m a stone? Am I a tree? This is my life, and I live it the way I want.”

She also declined a request for Nelly Oaks’ phone number, revealing that she even had access to and could unlock his phone.

Akothee’s Birthday Message to Nelly Oaks Reveals Unique Aspects of Their Relationship

Award-winning singer Esther Akoth, popularly known as Akothee, recently shared a heartfelt birthday message for her partner Nelly Oaks, highlighting the unique aspects and challenges of their relationship.

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In her social media post, Akothee opened up about the hurdles they’ve faced together, the significant contributions Nelly Oaks has made to her brand, and their enduring bond.

Akothee began by acknowledging the trials they’ve endured due to external negativity and their own attempts to find love elsewhere. She shared, “Tumejaribu kuwachana, tuka kimbia tukajaribu kwingine, sote tulikosa amani huko tumerudi. We don’t know how to leave each other. What we know is how to get back together.”

She praised Nelly Oaks, who also serves as her manager, expressing her deep gratitude: “Today, on this special day, I want to extend my deepest gratitude to your parents for bringing such a precious gem into the world. Babe, words cannot capture the depth of my appreciation and love for you. Our journey together, filled with ups and downs, only proves the strength of our relationship.”

Akothee emphasized the unique blend of business and personal life they share, noting Nelly Oaks’ crucial role in her professional success. “I smile all the way to the bank with Brand Akothee because of you. Whenever a company pays, or a new contract is signed, you are the first person I call to share my joy and make you proud.”

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Her message also highlighted his unwavering support and the sacrifices he has made for her, stating, “The battles you’ve fought for me, the sacrifices you’ve made, and the challenges we’ve faced have only strengthened our relationship.”

Expressing her deep affection, Akothee concluded, “Yes, I have my flaws, but the way you accept, embrace, and love me is a testament to your pure heart. I love you so much, Dr. Hezekiah Nelson Oyugi. Happy birthday, my love!”

The couple, despite their ups and downs and even a brief separation during which Akothee had a wedding, has maintained a strong romantic relationship.

Akothee expresses the solitude of stardom

Popular Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, has shared the challenges she encounters as a celebrity.

In a recent Facebook post on Monday evening, the mother of five candidly confessed to feeling isolated, to the extent that she sought refuge in the homes of her relatives.

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“It gets so lonely being a star. Believe me, sometimes I miss taking a matatu without being watched. It has become so lonely that I moved into my sister-in-law’s and my children’s houses,” Akothee revealed in her post.

Expressing her emotional exhaustion, she added, “Sometimes I wonder why I pay fees or raise children that I did not give birth to as well. If you can still see my posts, just write Amen. I feel tired and exhausted 🙏 I DON’T NEED ANYTHING but a HUG 🙏.”

In another update, the 43-year-old artist addressed concerns regarding her charity organization, the Akothee Foundation. She lamented about certain individuals exploiting the foundation, which she solely funds along with occasional support from well-wishers.

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“Akothee Foundation has no sponsors or donors. It relies completely on the Akothee brand and Esther Akoth Kokeyo and a few well-wishers who come in now and then,” she clarified.

“Why do people use the Akothee Foundation to hurt and try to harm me? Why do people use the Akothee Foundation as a platform to communicate with me, and when things don’t go their way, they use that opportunity to hurt me?” she questioned.

Feeling emotionally drained, Akothee pondered on the intentions of those reaching out for assistance through her foundation, expressing disappointment in what she perceived as exploitation.

“My children finished school years ago, and the younger ones are well taken care of in Europe. So why is my DM full of people needing help, who later develop a sense of entitlement?” she questioned.

Considering the overwhelming emotions, Akothee hinted at the possibility of taking a break to find solace.

Music Producer Motif Di Don Shares The Potential Arbantone Music

Producer Motif Di Don is a strong believer in the future of Arbantone, a new music genre gaining traction in Kenya. In a recent interview with SPM Buzz, he shared his thoughts on why Arbantone artists have the potential to become very successful.

A Genre on the Rise

Motif Di Don sees Arbantone as a unique sound that’s resonating with audiences.

“It’s a new genre that has won the hearts of many,” he said, highlighting its popularity on YouTube. He believes this genre’s rise shouldn’t be ignored.

In Motif’s view, Arbantone’s novelty holds the key to financial success for its artists. “This is something more unusual than the rest,” he explained, suggesting it has the potential to generate millions.

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Motif Di Don addressed the criticism Arbantone artists have faced for using pre-made beats. He argues that these artists deserve recognition for their ability to create hit songs despite their initial struggles.

“The fact that they can be able to make a hit song is something that should be acknowledged and not criticized,” he stated.

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Motif’s Motivation

Motif Di Don’s decision to support Arbantone artists stems from his desire to foster innovation in the Kenyan music scene. “He wanted to try and do something that has never been done in the country,” the article reveals.

While he initially provided online beats, Motif Di Don clarifies that Arbantone artists have transitioned to using original beats since January. “[The online beats] were to send a message and help them pick,” he explained.

Akothee Shares Insights On Toxic Marriages After Ohangla dancer Sheila Wegesha’s Death

Musician and businesswoman Akothee has sparked discussions on healthy relationships following the tragic death of Ohangla dancer Sheila Wegesha.

Wegesha’s recent murder, allegedly by her husband, has highlighted the dangers of toxic relationships. Akothee, a vocal advocate for women’s empowerment, used a live session to address these issues.

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She emphasized the importance of open communication, urging couples to discuss problems honestly. “Let’s sit down and talk things through,” she advised, promoting healthy dialogue as a key to resolving conflict.

Akothee also addressed the emotional toll of toxic relationships.

“Women trapped in unhealthy situations can be deeply affected,” she stated, highlighting the impact on mental well-being and overall behavior.

Financial independence emerged as another crucial point. While not directly mentioned, Akothee’s own success as a businesswoman suggests self-reliance can empower women to leave abusive marriages.

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The conversation surrounding Wegesha’s death has served as a catalyst for Akothee to promote healthy relationships and potentially empower women to make informed choices.

At 43, my child’s father still brings me to tears – Akothee

Akothee, known as the self-proclaimed president of single mothers, has been moved by the ongoing dispute between Nigerian dancer and singer Korra Obidi and her former husband, Justin Dean.

Recently, Dean obtained a legal victory against Korra, preventing her from sharing videos and photos of their two children online. Korra expressed her distress over this, reaching out to her fans for financial assistance to hire a good lawyer to reverse the court decision. She emphasized the importance of her children in her career as an entertainer.

In a detailed social media post, Akothee emphasized the importance of mature co-parenting, suggesting that the current situation between Korra and Justin could drive them both to a breaking point. She urged Korra to halt the drama and advised Justin to allow Korra to share photos of their children while giving her space to gather herself.

“One party needs to show some decency, or else their situation is a recipe for disaster. This back-and-forth and living each other’s lives is foolishness,” wrote the mother of five.

“And Korra, stop this nonsense, my dear. Men often lack an emotional connection with children. I’m not saying they don’t love their children, but the pain you endure while fighting for them is often greater than a man’s. If I were you, I would strive for peace.

You see, Justin has hurt you now; that’s how men are. My own father also expressed discomfort seeing other men posting pictures with his child. It’s a man thing, but it’s inconsequential; it only serves as a reminder that he has a share and talks about his children, yes, he contributed,” she added.

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Akothee highlighted that Justin had a say in the upbringing of their children if he was willing to take responsibility.

“Whether he’s being malicious, bitter, or honest. You can take this to the bank. I see both of you as very toxic in this parenting situation, and it appears you both need assistance. I swear, you were never friends; you were dating your enemies, and you both slept with your enemies,” she remarked.

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Drawing from her own experiences, Akothee admitted that co-parenting still brings her to tears to this day. She also criticized Korra for seeking financial help from fans.

“Korra, I’m 43 years old, and my child’s father still brings me to tears. My child is 15 years old, and my other child is 11. Until yesterday, I was still shedding tears.

Co-parenting requires maturity, patience, and understanding, not chest-thumping. You’re asking for financial assistance from fans to support a legal battle.

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Fans are not your family. As a public figure, they depend on you, and they won’t do this a second time; you still need to find ways to make a living.

“But know this, my dear, you won’t end these parenting wars. This issue is bigger than all of us. Your children are under 4 years old.

Korra, you have 14 years of tears, crawling, pleading, and suffocating ahead of you, and at this rate, one of you will snap. You both are like daytime and nighttime, Sadam Hussein, Russia fighting. Hello, what’s wrong with Korra and Justin?” she concluded.