“She denied me sex” Daddie Marto opens up about his marital woes

Daddie Marto has been opening up about his marital woes that led to him deciding to end his marriage to Koku Lwanga and it would seem married men really do suffer in silence.

Attention was sensationally called to the breakdown of their marriage when Koku took to social media to sensationally accuse Martin Githinji of being an abusinve husband – a claim that she neither provided evidence for nor was called upon to substantiate. And for a while this was the predominant narrative as Daddie Marto chose to be silent.

But now that he is finally talking about the drama, he has decided to lay it all bare and what he has said has shocked and divided the internet with many either siding with him as they shake a weary, knowing head or they take up with Koku and her female perspective.

He has sensationally revealed that the reason his marriage failed was that for a very long time, his wife denied him his conjugal rights… Check out his recent social media statements below:

For 6 years in the 9 years we were together, I suffered intense emotional abuse. I walked on egg shells with someone who chose to transfer their wounds to me. We did videos on YouTube, spoke about these wounds. Talked to them to find ways to heal. They feigned control over them. I gave up. And it is when I had given up what she started feeling that I have emotionally abandoned them.
This was me doing everything I could to survive and keep things intact. This is something that a lot of men do. Your spouse is horrible, vindictive, mean and unappreciative? Your spouse sucks the joy out of you with everything you do even with the best-intentioned ones? Vumilia bro. You are doing it for the children. Your legacy. Let your children grow up in a 2 parent home.

 

And now I will touch on the forbidden subject. Physical intimacy. It was non existent in the marriage. You wonder how we got pregnant. With the underlying medical condition we have spoken about before. This was truly the act of God to get those children.
All reasons given were valid. Postpartum. Health. Moods. Conflict. And in all the reasons, I sympathized. I gave her space to heal. I even subjected myself to a test to see if I was responsible for her health issues. And it was discovered that I was not the cause. We discovered the cause, it was rectified, and that is how we got the second born. We have told this story before, I will not dwell.
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Koku Lwanga Responds To Daddie Marto’s Separation Claims

Christine Kokuundera, popularly known as Koku Lwanga, has released a comprehensive counterstatement directly challenging eight key points made by her ex-husband, Martin Githinji (Daddie Marto), regarding their separation. In her lengthy response, Koku offers her own version of events, detailing their differing views on their split, financial responsibilities, and a public altercation.

On the Nature and Timing of Their Separation

While Daddie Marto previously stated that their separation was finalized in March 2025 and formalized when he moved out in April, Koku paints a different picture. She asserts that the decision to live apart was a temporary, three-month arrangement intended to give them space to reflect and work on their relationship. “Yes by the time the fiasco was happening you had already moved into a separate place. However it was to create space between us as we figured out and worked on ourselves to reconvene 3 months later and assess the situation,” she wrote.

Koku further claims she was blindsided when she returned home from work to find Marto had removed several of his belongings, including the children’s television and office equipment, without her knowledge. She said he responded to her questions by stating it was “because you wanted to,” and that she found his actions selfish and “diabolical.” She also notes that despite supposedly moving out, Marto continued to use the home for showering, eating, and storing his clothes, creating confusion about their relationship status.

Financial Burdens and Accusations of Violence

Koku’s statement directly contradicts Marto’s claims of continued financial support. She says she has been shouldering most of the financial burden for nearly two months, relying on support from family and income from selling her recipes. She firmly denies ever demanding money from Marto, stating that she only requested communication and transparency. In a particularly painful accusation, she alleges that Marto unfairly used her mother’s financial contributions to their family, specifically funds intended for her mother’s house, as an excuse for his own financial difficulties.

“It’s so painful to see you mention my mother’s house as the source of your financial woes,” she stated.

Regarding the night of their public altercation, Marto had claimed he was confronted and injured while trying to defuse the situation. Koku, however, alleges that he physically assaulted her while she was in a fetal position, claiming, “You even started kicking me.” She says neighbors and guards intervened and that she has their statements to back up her account. She also accused Marto of selectively recording the encounter to suit his narrative and attempting to influence witness statements.

Daddie Marto Breaks Silence on Separation from Koku Lwanga, Addresses Allegations and Sets the Record Straight

Renowned Kenyan actor and media personality Martin Githinji, popularly known as Daddie Marto, has spoken publicly for the first time about his separation from long-time partner Koku Lwanga, addressing months of speculation and online scrutiny.

In a detailed and heartfelt statement, Marto outlined the timeline of their breakup, reaffirmed his continued role as a father, and directly responded to allegations that have impacted both his personal life and career.


Clarifying the Timeline: “This Is Documented”

Marto revealed that the couple parted ways in December 2024, initially hoping to reconcile. However, by March 2025, they agreed that the relationship had ended. He moved out of their shared home the following month but remained actively involved in the children’s lives to ensure minimal disruption to their routine.

By May 2025, they had drafted a joint statement regarding the separation, intending to share it publicly at an appropriate time.

“This is documented. We were no longer together, in both words and actions. This is a fact, not wishful thinking,” Marto emphasized, addressing claims of ambiguity around the separation.


Addressing Financial Allegations: “I Never Abandoned My Responsibilities”

Marto dismissed accusations that he had neglected his family obligations, detailing the financial support he has consistently provided.

He cited receipts, bank statements, and mobile money records to show that he continued to cover household expenses, school fees, medical insurance, and utility bills even after moving out.

Marto also disclosed that he paused work in July 2024 to help Koku complete her mother’s house in Kerugoya, a project he supported emotionally and financially until November.

“When the available funds ran out, I took a loan to finish it, hoping to recover once back to work. I unfortunately still carry that financial debt to date,” he noted.


On Rent Contributions and Household Dynamics

In March 2025, Marto says Koku offered to assist financially by paying the nanny and contributing to a loan. He requested instead that her contribution go towards household expenses, prioritizing their children’s well-being.

After moving out, Marto explained that her financial support shifted toward paying rent, as he was now supporting two households.

“There have been suggestions that there was coercion into paying rent. That is not accurate, and the full record is available,” he clarified.


The Incident and Ongoing Police Investigation

Marto addressed a physical altercation at his home, one of the most contentious issues surrounding their separation.

He described being confronted at his door while with a friend and said he recorded the exchange, a practice he had adopted in therapy. The situation escalated, leading to a physical injury to his eye.

Marto insisted there had been no prior violence in their relationship and confirmed that the incident is now under police investigation.

“Since that night, I have been portrayed in ways that suggest I am violent, abusive, manipulative, and irresponsible. Nothing could be further from the truth,” he said.


Legal Action and Commitment to Co-Parenting

In response to online attacks and alleged defamation, Marto revealed he has initiated legal proceedings through his lawyers, seeking to resolve matters respectfully and through proper channels.

“I take full responsibility for my part, but I will not carry what is not mine. That is not healing; that is self-erasure,” he said.

Marto concluded by affirming his commitment to co-parenting with dignity and shielding his children from public drama.

“My children’s peace comes first. I will continue to do my part as a father and strive to move forward with dignity and integrity.”


Marto’s statement comes amid a broader conversation about personal accountability, public image, and the challenges of navigating private matters in the public eye. His decision to address the situation publicly signals a desire for closure and a commitment to protecting his family’s well-being.

Daddie Marto & Koku Lwanga Saga Deepens As Legal Action Gets Confirmed

The highly publicized marital dispute between popular Kenyan actor Martin Githinji (Daddie Marto) and his wife Christine Kokueendera Lwanga (Koku Lwanga) has escalated, with Marto confirming his intention to pursue the matter through “legal channels.” This announcement follows Koku Lwanga’s explosive online allegations of infidelity, emotional abuse, and physical violence.

Marto, in his formal statement, acknowledged the “profoundly painful and serious” nature of the claims, while asserting that the public narrative presented by Koku was a “significantly distorted and one-sided picture of events” lacking crucial context. His decision to involve legal authorities indicates a firm stance against the allegations and a move towards a formal resolution beyond social media.

Koku Lwanga’s detailed accounts, shared across social media, have painted a disturbing picture of their ten-year relationship. She notably alleged that Marto rented a separate two-bedroom apartment within their own compound to house another woman during a period of separation. The confrontation with Marto and the alleged mistress, she claimed, tragically escalated into physical assault, with Koku providing images of bruises on her back as evidence.

Furthermore, Koku’s allegations extended to emotional neglect, gaslighting, and body-shaming, particularly in the postpartum period. She described Marto as emotionally unavailable, engaging in online flirtation, and dismissive of her attempts to seek marital counseling.

The public reaction remains intense, with many expressing shock and concern over the seriousness of the accusations. As Marto vows full cooperation with authorities, the legal process is now set to unravel the full complexities of this high-profile separation, shifting the narrative from social media accusations to formal judicial proceedings.

Daddie Marto and his wife Koku Lwanga set to host a new dating reality show

Kenyan viewers are in for a festive season treat as Showmax launches its newest dating reality series, Nairobi Bachelor. Set to premiere on December 6, 2024, the 13-episode show offers a fresh perspective on the challenges of modern romance.

Hosted by celebrity couple Daddie Marto, known from Sue na Jonnie, and his wife Koku Lwanga, the series follows young bachelors and singles on their journey to find love, capturing both the joys and struggles along the way.

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The creators have crafted an engaging experience filled with heartfelt moments, surprising twists, and raw emotional honesty. Director and show creator Clementina Kabutha shared the inspiration behind the project:

“Nairobi Bachelor was inspired by the need to reimagine the traditional dating show. We aimed to create a platform that reflects the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on emotional connections, shared values, and resilience in the face of challenges.”

A standout feature of the show is the Baggage segment, where participants confront personal truths, deciding whether to continue despite their partner’s revelations.

 

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A Cultural Celebration of Love

Set against the vibrant Nairobi cityscape, the show’s diverse cast and cultural depth distinguish it from typical dating programs. Kabutha emphasized its unique appeal:

“By blending real-life experiences with compelling drama, the show strikes a perfect balance between authenticity and entertainment.”

Co-host Koku Lwanga expressed her enthusiasm for this new venture:

“When the opportunity arose, I was both excited and nervous. Hosting a show like this pushed me out of my comfort zone, but I saw it as a chance for growth. I’ve always been passionate about fostering meaningful connections, and being part of a project that celebrates the beauty and complexity of love feels incredibly fulfilling.”