Renowned Kenyan actor and media personality Martin Githinji, popularly known as Daddie Marto, has spoken publicly for the first time about his separation from long-time partner Koku Lwanga, addressing months of speculation and online scrutiny.
In a detailed and heartfelt statement, Marto outlined the timeline of their breakup, reaffirmed his continued role as a father, and directly responded to allegations that have impacted both his personal life and career.
Clarifying the Timeline: “This Is Documented”
Marto revealed that the couple parted ways in December 2024, initially hoping to reconcile. However, by March 2025, they agreed that the relationship had ended. He moved out of their shared home the following month but remained actively involved in the children’s lives to ensure minimal disruption to their routine.
By May 2025, they had drafted a joint statement regarding the separation, intending to share it publicly at an appropriate time.
“This is documented. We were no longer together, in both words and actions. This is a fact, not wishful thinking,” Marto emphasized, addressing claims of ambiguity around the separation.
Addressing Financial Allegations: “I Never Abandoned My Responsibilities”
Marto dismissed accusations that he had neglected his family obligations, detailing the financial support he has consistently provided.
He cited receipts, bank statements, and mobile money records to show that he continued to cover household expenses, school fees, medical insurance, and utility bills even after moving out.
Marto also disclosed that he paused work in July 2024 to help Koku complete her mother’s house in Kerugoya, a project he supported emotionally and financially until November.
“When the available funds ran out, I took a loan to finish it, hoping to recover once back to work. I unfortunately still carry that financial debt to date,” he noted.
On Rent Contributions and Household Dynamics
In March 2025, Marto says Koku offered to assist financially by paying the nanny and contributing to a loan. He requested instead that her contribution go towards household expenses, prioritizing their children’s well-being.
After moving out, Marto explained that her financial support shifted toward paying rent, as he was now supporting two households.
“There have been suggestions that there was coercion into paying rent. That is not accurate, and the full record is available,” he clarified.
The Incident and Ongoing Police Investigation
Marto addressed a physical altercation at his home, one of the most contentious issues surrounding their separation.
He described being confronted at his door while with a friend and said he recorded the exchange, a practice he had adopted in therapy. The situation escalated, leading to a physical injury to his eye.
Marto insisted there had been no prior violence in their relationship and confirmed that the incident is now under police investigation.
“Since that night, I have been portrayed in ways that suggest I am violent, abusive, manipulative, and irresponsible. Nothing could be further from the truth,” he said.
Legal Action and Commitment to Co-Parenting
In response to online attacks and alleged defamation, Marto revealed he has initiated legal proceedings through his lawyers, seeking to resolve matters respectfully and through proper channels.
“I take full responsibility for my part, but I will not carry what is not mine. That is not healing; that is self-erasure,” he said.
Marto concluded by affirming his commitment to co-parenting with dignity and shielding his children from public drama.
“My children’s peace comes first. I will continue to do my part as a father and strive to move forward with dignity and integrity.”
Marto’s statement comes amid a broader conversation about personal accountability, public image, and the challenges of navigating private matters in the public eye. His decision to address the situation publicly signals a desire for closure and a commitment to protecting his family’s well-being.
