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Kidum features in Burundi’s MB Data’s song “Yayaya”a highlight of domestic violence against men

Posted on April 10, 2020 by Branny

YAYAYA! Not the play song we did as kids in circles but is the new song by Kidum featuring MB Data. This is a heart break song of struggles of a married faithful man of a drunkard wife.

Kidum has mostly thrived on live music performance as he is one of the best vocalists in the region.

He has a list of songs including: nakupenda, Mapenzi, Nipe Nguvu, Number moia, Kimbia. He has collabos with artists like Lady Jaydee, cedo Bensoul, Mbwira, Sanaipei, Peter Msechu, Alicious

The Burundi based artist MB Data has done a number of songs including: Focus, Kiramutuna,Koma, Kata, Rumata among many others. He has also worked with artist from his country and now with Kidum.

They teamed up for this song when Kidum visited his mother country some time in March and YAYAYA is the result.

Lyrics

For this jam they take turns to express their frustration and justify their decision to binge drink. They struggle with drunk partners, ladies with sharp tongues and domestic violence.

In this case highlighting what some men fear to talk about domestic violence against men.

Typical struggles in most African families. The vocals of the two artists are just a perfect match.

Raha zako tu ni kunichanganya kichwa mama

Mapenzi si maoenzi ni fujo tu kila siku

Ni kama tu tunacheza mchezo wa paka na panya

Hebu nikuulize ni kitu gani mami

Unapata ukinitesa baby

Hebu nipe majibu, unasaidikaje kila mara ukiona machozi zangu zikitiririka kama mtoto mdogo

Well, these two have got mega marital issues that they have to deal with especially once they sober up from the drink

Set up in the domestic situation we get a glimpse of the two respective families. Furthermore, it gets even funnier when MB Data is the one who saves Kidum from being beaten black and blue by his wife. Kidum runs off to safety like a child saved from a huge fight.

The video is of good quality and does a good job in helping us relate to the song better.For one we give credit where is due their Swahili bis impeccable.

The song is amazing, evident from the positive comments of the contented fans.

Rating 8/10

Men, can you rock this?

Posted on March 26, 2019 by Abisola Mohammed

Men, can you rock this?

Whatever this man is doing, we don’t know. but men, can you rock this?

Five (5) Things That Terrify Men

Posted on August 7, 2018 by Peace Agyare

It’s often said that men are the bravest when it comes to the human race. However, there are things that really do terrify them as much as a snake can scare the hell out of a woman.

There are certainly some things men dread and just the mere thought about them drive them crazy.

Check out five of such things below;

1. Castration

Just the mere thought of someone going Lorena Bobbit on my dick makes me cup my balls like I’m a mother hen protecting her offspring. Men are legitimately terrified of being castrated. They treat it as if it’s this thing that can just happen to them, like paying taxes or getting a parking ticket. “I went to the corner store and a crazy homeless person cut my dick off!” “I was having sex for four hours straight and my penis just fell off into their vagina/butthole!” I’m pretty sure it doesn’t happen like that. T

he only way you’re getting castrated is if you go to Cancun on spring break and end up getting kidnapped by a bunch of devil worshippers who want to use you as a ritual sacrifice. (That seriously happened. I saw it on E!) It’s a totally irrational fear but I get it. Men love their penises.

Even if your dick is two inches and bent like a U-turn, you still cherish it and send it love letters. The thought of my dick just up and leaving my body one day makes me want to dry heave. Did you see that movie Hard Candy where Ellen Page plays a boy/girl who lures an internet pedophile into her home?

Well, she gets a little knife happy with the pedophile’s dick and when I saw the scene in theaters, I had to avert my eyes and use my tub of popcorn as a barf bag. I mean, good for Ellen Page for showing that pedophile who’s boss but…

2. Being short

There is nothing realer than a Napoleon complex. Let’s be honest, straight men are PISSED about being short. They want a refund on that body. They want to take it back to the manufacturer and tell them to add four inches to the frame. I don’t know why they’re so upset about being 5 foot 7. (By the way, short guys always lie and say they’re 5 foot 9. EVERY SINGLE TIME.

It’s the universally agreed upon magic height for short guys. “5 foot 7? Are you kidding? I’m 5 foot 9, 5 foot 10. Stand up, stand up!” They’re also TERRIFIED of tall girls. “Is your friend Lana coming?” They ask, their voice trembling. “The chick who’s like almost six feet tall?” I don’t see what the big deal is. In my experience, short dudes have the biggest wangs so, you know, it all evens out in the wash.

3. Erectile dysfunction

Even typing “erectile dysfunction” makes my dick shrink and retreat. Is there anything more frightening than a dick that doesn’t work? IT’S IN YOUR HEAD, IN YOUR HEADDDDDD (zombie zombie…) No but really, it is in your head sort of. Sexual anxiety is REAL and will cause you to have serious performance issues. I can’t even talk about it anymore because now I’m scared that my dick won’t work the next time I hook up with someone. I’ve cursed myself!

4. Male pattern baldness

You know what I hear when someone mentions male pattern baldness? I hear, “TEARS, EXPENSIVE HAIR TREATMENTS, MY FUTURE.” Men love their hair almost as much as they love their dick. In fact, if you could just put a giant penis on top of their full head of hair, all males would be set for life.

5. Caring about anything

“I got a new job that pays six figures so that’s cool. I found someone to love me so that’s pretty sweet, I guess. I got named The Best Person Ever by Everyone In The World magazine so that was nice.” They only emit emotion when the topic turns to their dick, their hair, or their height.

Credit: https://thoughtcatalog.com/ryan-oconnell/2012/08/5-things-that-terrify-men/

Photo: How many men can do this?????

Posted on May 11, 2018 by Abisola Mohammed

Men, what does this photo mean to you

In this photo, a man carries his two children, one at his rear and the other on his shoulder as his woman walks with his woman who carries a market bag. How many men in thinks there is no problem with this?

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Five Things Guys Notice First When They See a Woman

Posted on January 31, 2018 by Deborah

Ladies, it can be hard to figure out which part of your body to polish and which not to, when heading out. We usually meet and interact with a lot of people, without knowing the different things they have notice about us. Here are five things that Guys Tend to notice first when they see a woman.

The Twins.

Notice that when you walk towards a male, the twins are pointed and facing right at them. Most times, we reseal that a man’s eyes are at our boob level by the time we draw close to them. It is not their fault however, as women too look at a man’s chest when they are walking towards them. Buy the right bras, not too tight, and not too lose. Wear the perfect top, and do not look down as yoou walk towards a man.

The hair.

There is a common saying that if your hair looks nice, you will definitely look beautiful. Plait the right hairstyle that suits your body shape, and brings out your face. Some men love long bouncy weaves, whereas others adore naturals. Endeavor to have your hair clean, neat and organised before you meet a man.

The Nails.

When you finally engage into a conversation with a man, he will look at the movements your hands are making. The colors on the fingernails sometimes turn a man on. Keep your nails neat, and beautiful, as they sometimes speak a lot about your personality.

Some very important hair tips from darling

The Smell

Just like women love a man who smells good, they too cannot resist a woman with a yummy scent. Invest in your smell, as it communicates more than your beauty. The scent you create also gives you individual confidence to walk up to him. To not use perfumes and sprays that are too toxic and suffocating.

The Smile

On top of a lovely outfit for the day, dress up in a descent smile. Nobody wnats to approach a grumpy woman. We all want to see your ability to laugh at our jokes, even from first impression. en love to be funny, and they want a woman who can smile.