Mr Seed lessons: Why do women date celebs and expect them to be faithful?

Mr Seed and Nimo Gachuiri are going to serve as a lesson to all the women who believe they can date a celebrity and bet the house on their being faithful because that is a fool’s bet and it’s about time we all admit this truth.

Meet hot Somali pregnant girl Mr Seed has been cheating on his baby mama with (Photos)

You see, he wanted to do everything right by her and she too seemed to be in the relationship for the win but they refused to acknowledge reality they faced and stuck their heads deep in the sand.

Mr Seed
Mr Seed

That is why Mr Seed failed. Had he chosen to face the reality of the high possibility he would cheat, he would have mitigated any fallout because as one of my mentors pointed out, the only thing a woman cannot forgive is her humiliation. he would have done his dirt much smarter.

Mr Seed saga: Baby trapping a man does not work

And Nimo Gachuiri is not the first nor is she the last to refuse to acknowledge that reality she faced. you see, when you’re with a high value man, a man with status (her husband is a celebrity), money and a good physique, then he will doubtless attract a lot of women willing to usurp your position in his life. She would have helped her man navigate this issue.

Nimo,Gold and Mr.Seed
Mr Seed and Nimo Gachuiri and their baby

You see, Bwana Mbegu is a celebrity and a lot of women would be more than happy to sleep with him. We already covered this. But the reason the deck was stacked against him staying faithful is because of how we evolved as human beings. Only 39% of men in all of the Earth’s history of having human beings walk it’s surface were able to reproduce.

Source: PSMag

As such, those of us who are able to have women want to spread our seed. men want to sleep with as many women as possible. And as a result, we evolved to not put emotional attachment to the act of sex.

Sabrina, the Somali lady Mr Seed impregnated

What that translates to is that Nimo Gachuiri needs to understand that her husband Mr Seed could actually step out of the house, have sex with a random fan and still come back home to be a great husband and father.

Aki Nairobi! Gospel singer Nimo Gachuiri walks out on cheating husband, Mr Seed (Video)

And why wouldn’t he if he had that option? Afterall, men are only as faithful as their options and celebrities have a lot of options. If this is a reality Kenyan women cannot live with, then why date and marry a celebrity? Why marry the one person who has an abundance of options?

Mr Seed with wife, Nimo

And yet if Mr Seed and Nimo Gachuiri had found mentors who helped them navigate this rare circumstance they find themselves in, then they would have known to handle indiscretions. Bwana Mbegu would have been taught to keep things discrete. he would have been taught not to offend his wife by humiliating her with stupid scandals. Hell, he would have been taught to use condoms. And the lady of their house would have learnt to understand that men cannot emote like women. She would have learnt to understand how men show love and concern. And that is by actually investing their time and resources in starting and maintaining a family with them.

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Mr Seed saga: Baby trapping a man does not work

Mr Seed is the latest gospel artist to find himself embroiled in a sex scandal after one of his many paramours came out to reveal to the world that they are having a child together despite the fact that he is a married man, having held a traditional ceremony for him and his lady, Nimo Gachuiri.

Aki Nairobi! Gospel singer Nimo Gachuiri walks out on cheating husband, Mr Seed (Video)

You see, his clande, a lady by the name of Sabrina came out to popular micro-blogger and gossip impresario, Edgar Obare to share her story. She basically wanted to garner pity and sympathy from people who she hoped would help pile on societal pressure on her baby’s father to perhaps even make him settle down with her.

Swabrina, Mr Seed’s side chick

Why do I say this? Because these are two consenting adults. These are two people who knew what they were doing is wrong and so they endeavoured to keep things secret. Mr Seed didn’t want his wife to find out. That means he should have used a condom. Sabrina didn’t want the world to know she is a homewrecker. So she hid her affair from everyone out of shame and guilt. She should have known a baby is a no-no in such relationships.

Mr Seed weds baby mama, Nimo Gachuiri in low key white wedding (Photos)

And in such situations, not even Nimo Gachuiri is unblemished by blame. This is not the first time she has had to deal with rumours and allegations of her man’s infidelity. She needs to understand that she is with a high-value celebrity. Certain realities come along with the territory. Or she could end this nonsense and call it quits on her relationship.

Mr Seed, Nimo Gachuiri

And this saga is a very apt lesson for all the girls who think that getting pregnant by their man is what will win him over and make him leave their wife. This is a stupid gambit that never ever pays off outside of the men who were anyway going to make them their second wife. And I know Sabrina will argue this was an accidental pregnancy but when women have so much control and power over birth control with the numerous options, you have to be a fool to swallow the notion this pregnancy was accidental.

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As for Mr Seed, he needs actual male mentors who have achieved a thing or two, not just the randy gospel artists and producers who only care about sleeping with women. He needs mentors who are focused on pursuing their vision. Why? Because

“A man who lacks purpose occupies himself with pleasures.”

Mr Seed, Nimo Gachuiri
Gospel artiste Mr Seed with wife, Nimo Gachuiri

Once again I reiterate that the moral of the story is that getting a man’s baby will not make him leave his wife and marry you. That bullshit only carries in telenovelas and Nigerian movies. And we can already see Mr Seed begin to show which relationship he primarily wants to salvage. And just like that, Sabrina is about to embark on her own single mother journey.

Mr Seed’s troubled marriage to wife Nimo on the verge of falling apart after recent expose (Video)

Men can love their partner and still want to scratch an itch and come back home to continue being a loving husband and father. Only foolish women choose to have a dalliance with such a man outside of being his wife and think that baby trapping him is a great idea.

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