Harmonize’s latest confession just shows that men too hurt as much after break up

Traditionally break ups have always been the worst for women. Considering women are always vocal about their pain.

This an indication that women find a way to heal before jumping to the next relationship.

However the other gender-men- have lived gagged in the pretext of “Men do not cry.” So they do the “kuchochana”of playing the strong guy.

Well, Tanzania’s bongo star Harmonize recently confessed that his latest hit “Nishapona” was written 4 years back and shot 3 years ago.

In his explanation he says  he wrote the song at a time when he was hurting because of the past relationship. Well we all know the woman in his life then was Actress Jackline Wolper who they broke up in 2018.

However it only happened after rumors of he was said to be seeing someone else- his current wife Sarah.

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For Harmonize to love someone else almost immediately after his break up shows you he was hiding his pain. Further he is a celebrity and well we scrutinize private life like its a cup of tea.

Also read : Why Tanzanian general elections campaigns is a WCB moment to sideline Harmonize again

Societal Pressure on “Manhood”

So you might be wondering what am trying to get at  with this? Harmonize took this long before dropping this song because his ego then could not just allow him. I mean after all he is an “African man”.

Societal pressures have made men believe they are weak if they show emotion which is totally wrong. Men should not be tied down in belief that is taking them to their early graves due to mental breakdown.

For one what’s the worst that can happen if  you, a man- is genuinely broken by that woman you love? If it hurts that bad cry. Lets see if you will die.

We don’t have to conform to things that are draining us, for one in this day and age  someone said Its okay not to feel okay- I don’t know who did but its makes sense to me.

You don’t have to kill yourself just because you want to fit in and not look “weak”.

Harmonize ‘aliyefukuzisha mwarabu:’ Harmonize the man from Mtwara,Tanzania

Rajab Abdul is famously know as Harmonize.He was born on 3rd October 1991, in Mtwara, Tanzania.

When he started off , he had moved to Dar es  Salaam  in 2009 on completion of his high school studies at Mkundi  Secondary School in Mtwara.

Just like any other young person  in  pursuit for livelihood, he started working as a hawker at Kariakoo selling small products and tea to other businessman, prior to starting music.

His music career started back in 2011, but did not pick up as the music was below per.After a struggling for 4years  trying to get a platform for his music, he got the chance to meet WCB boss Diamond Platinumz.

He was signed by WCB (Wasafi Classic Baby) Wasafi Record Label.

That was his life changing moment that struck after the  release of his first song ‘Aiyola” that became a hit in 2015. Ayiola is a song that depicts the life of a young man that tries to impress his woman but is unappreciated.

The song topped the chats and that was the beginning of the now successful career of Harmonize.

Relation with his boss..

The two -Diamond Platnumz and Harmonize- became  inseparable. Diamond Platnumz relocated him to South Africa where he at times lived with Zari.

Further Harmonize on his own, got a permanent tattoo of Diamond Platnumz on his hand.Reason?

He said, that the tattoo could not be compared to what Diamond Platnumz has done for him. All he has became and owns is all because of Diamond’s help.

For that  he got a permanent tattoo of Diamond Platnumz to remind him of his kindness.

Awards

He was nominated at the AFRIMMA AWARDs, WatsUp TV Africa Music Video Awards  and African Entertainment awards,in 2016  and he won all the three in one year.

Love life…

I don’t know if its something among them but seems Harmonize too enjoys the noise that comes in matters love.At the moment Haronize is said to be dating Sarah an Italian.

This was after a dramatic break up with Tanzanian actress Jackline Wolper.Harmonize and Wolper started dating just few weeks after breaking up from Wolper.

Conclusions?Your guess is just like mine.Did Harmonize cheat on Wolper? Anyway that is a story we can’t tell as at now. Tunaganga yajayo!!

As they got deeper into the relationship, Karma seems was busy trying to catch up with Harmonize.It is said the the Italian girldfriend once cheated on him with a body guard ‘Mwarabu’.

Also read;Harmonize slams Diamond Platnumz after revealing his Italian fiancé had an affair with body guard ‘Mwarabu’

This was after Diamond Platinumz released his latest jam ‘Inama” where he mentions  it‘…….Mapenzi imefanya harmonize amfukuzishe mwarabu’

But he forgave her and even recently proposed to her.

Music done so far..

  1. Kainama ft Burna Boy and Diamond Platinumz
  2. Kadamshi ft Dully Sykes
  3. Atarudi
  4. Kidonda Changu – 2018
  5. Dm Chick – 2018
  6. Penzi – 2018
  7. Acha Nilewe – 2018
  8. Pull Up – 2018
  9. Kwa Ngwaru – 2018
  10. Nakupenda – 2017
  11. Nishachoka – 2017
  12. 911 – 2017
  13. Don’t Go – 2017
  14. Niambie – 2017
  15. Happy Birthday – 2017
  16. Shulala – 2017
  17. Sina – 2017
  18. Bado – 2017
  19. Matatizo – 2017
  20. Aiyola – 2016

As he works on his album, be sure to get great music from Harmonize.

Daktari maarufu Bongo adai kuwa Wolper ni ‘Wife material’

Japo Wolper bado hajapata mtu ambaye anaweza kumuoa mrembo huyu wa muvi za bongo sasa hivi anatoka na mwanaume ambaye anasemekana ni mdogo kumshinda.

Hii iliwafanya watu wengi kumchana lakini Daktari mmoja kutoka Bongo, Dk Fadhili Emily ameonekana kuwa na maoni tofauti. Akizungumza katika mahojiano alisema kuwa mrembo huyu akona uwezo wa kuwa mke mzuri kwam tu yeyote.

“Nimeona kwenye mitandao, wanamuandama kuwa hajatulia na kwamba ana msururu mkubwa wa wanaume ambao ametembea nao, kimsingi huyu mrembo hajapata tu mtu sahihi lakini anafaa kuwa mke wa kulea familia kabisa,”

Hata hivyo daktari huyu pia anasemekana kuwa hapo awali alitoka kimapenzi na Wolper lakini wakamwagana kwa sababu ambazo sio wengi wanajua.

 

Wolper awasihi raia na wasanii wa Bongo movie kumsaidia Jini Kabula anaye Ugua

Jackline Wolper ambaye ni malkia wa bongo movie amejitokeza kuwaomba wasanii wenzake na raia pia kumsaidia Mariam Jolwa anayejulikana kama Jini Kabula aneyeugua ugonjwa wa akili.

Kupitia mtandao wake Wa a Instagram Wolper aliandika kusema;

Natamani niongee mambo mengi sana juu yako lakini natamani ata kukusaidia urudishe akili yako swali ni kwamba nimechelewa??nakama nimewahi je nitafanikiwa kweli. sasa tuzungumze jambo jamani maana siju hizi tarfa tunazipata insta naona nalangu niliongelee insta wanatasnia wenzangu tunamsaidiaje mwenzetu nini kimekuta kipi je nayoyasikia ndio hayo????nakama ndio mbona kuna wataalam wakusena nae naakakaaa sawa. Basi watanzania wenzangu naombeni tuchangie maoni yenu hapa nakama nim2 uwezi toa ushauri hapa basi tuma msg kwakupitia cm hii 0765776776 basi tuweze kumrudisha kabula jamani. naandika msg hii huku nalia namoyo mdogo sana usiweza kuvumilia naumivu nakumbuka nimishawahi kumwambia kabula we nimwanamke mzuri sana bongo movie lkn natamani kujua tatizo nini kacheka tuu akachukua nguo akaondoka sikupata muda wakuzungunza nae ….sasa npo safarini hope kesho au kesho kutwa nikijaliwa tukutane kwaoamoja .. Bongo movie tumfwate alipo jamani tujue tunamsaidiaje nimeona vdio anaongea sjui niamechanganyikiwa masikn me ata nashindwa kuandika jamani ….

Huyu ndiye mrembo mpya anayetoka kimapenzi na Harmonize

Wikendi hii Harmonize kwa mara ya kwanza aliweka picha ya mpenzi wake mpya baada ya wengi kumchana kwa kumwaga Wolper.

Kama ilivyokuwa ikitangaza kwenye mitandaoni, Harmonize anatoka na mrembo wa kizungu na kama hiyo haijatosha wawili hao wanatarajia mtoto wao wa kwanza.

mambo haya mawili yamewaacha mashabiki kama wameduwaa kwa sababu mimba hiyo inaonekana kuwa ina miezi 6.

Hata hivyo, Wolper naye ameonekana aliendelea na maisha yake bila kujali kile mpenzi wake anafanya. Tazama picha hizo hapa;

Wolper afunguka kuhusu uhusiano wake na Harmonize, hii ndio maana hawezi muacha!

Harmonize na Wolper wamekuwa pamoja kwa muda sasa na ingiwa wapenzi hawa pia hupitia mashida kama watu wengine, wawili hawa hawana mipango ya kuachana hivi karibuni.

Miezi kadhaa iliyopita wengi waliacha wakijiuliza kilichotokea kati ya hawa wawili na kuachana kwenye mitandaoni hata hivyo hakuna anayejua lakini kwa sasa wamerudiana na wawili hawa wanapanga kuanza maisha yao pamoja.

Hata hivyo Wolper alifunguka kwa mara ya kwanza kudai kuwa hakuna kitu kibaya ambacho Harmonize hashawai kumfanyia. Wolper alidai kuwa  hajuti kuwa na msanii huyu kwa sababu anamuelewa na pia kwa sababu wanapendana.

Ghafla!
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