“I can’t compete with my own project” Akothee claps back at family members accusing her of envying small sister

Akothee has been ranting on social media about her family and siblings who seem not to like for some reason. Well, it all started with Akothee complaining about wanting to disown her own people since theyve stressing with issues she cannot seem to understand.

Akothee with younger sister, Cebbie

With the issues piling up – Akothee recently held a live session where she called out her own mother for not being supportive towards her; and instead seems to be fueling the family issues by taking sides – which is not fair since she too is a daughter of hers just like Cebbie is.

Akothee also talked about how the mum or rather family thinks she envys Cebbie who will be walking down the aisle in December; and instead of her (mum) being happy that both her daughters are getting married soon – they all decided to gangup on Akothee claiming she is competing with her younger sister.

Clap back

Okay. This being a family matter – i guess all we can do is report what has been posted on social media; and although publicizing such issues doesnt help….all i know is that Akothee has not been having it easy hence the online rants.

Akothee with her family in France

Anyway clapping back at ger family, Akothee through her social media wrote;

No elder sibling can support the younger ones and start competing with them. How can you compete with your own project? Its like competing against yourself.

adding;

There is nothing like siblings rivalry if you’re not arguing over family inheritance.

Well – like i said, we cant sort out family issues on social media. But at least we now know Cebbie is to walk down the aisle this December.

Akothee ready to walk out & abandon family, says “she has had enough”

Akothee is back to publicizing her family problems on social media and although she is one big artist…not forgetting wealthy – i still cant understand why she chooses her social media as a place to seek therapy for all her family problems….but yea, were back at it and this time around she wants to call it quits with her family.

Well, a few hours ago the singer shared a post venting about her family which she says has been stressing her over the few months. From what I can tell is that shes back to having issues with her siblings who btw – don’t seem to be her biggest fans.

Through her IG stories, Akothee started with

I have no idea why its always me in question. Was it wrong for me to be born in this family?

adding;

I wish my grandfather was alive

Where are the parents?

Okay…not that I know Akothee’s family but I want to believe she has a mother and close relatives to intervene in such situations; but since she wishes her grandfather was around to sort the current issue – means she on her own.

In addition to the rant…Akothee went on to add;

You’re the one to live with the dents of upgrading people to a level they couldn’t, behave faithful at because they had not grown into it organically.

And lastly….Seems like the lady is thinking of abandoning her family because at this rate, Akothee is fed up with her close relatives.

 

 

Sarah Kabu praises Akothee for being an independent single mother

Sarah Kabu is proud to see Akothee living life to the fullest and unlike other single mums who are yet to get to the singer,s level….. Mrs Kabu thinks Akothee is an example every other woman out here should try to learn a thing or two from.

Mrs Sarah Kabu

The Bonfire CEO said this on a new post shared on her page where she praised Akothee for picknicing on her owned backyard lawn with bae; something she is sure many women cannot relate to or might never relate with.

Although this is the first time we’re seeing Sarah Kabu take interest in the life of Akothee…truth is we don’t know whether this is how a new friendship will be born or if Sarah Kabu is admiring life as a single mum…maybe? Anyway she wrote;

Akothee with lover

Single ladies does this picture speak volumes to you? Yaani Akothee is picnicking with new mzungu boyfriend on her backyard lawns.

Work for your own

This being a post directed at single ladies looking for an easy way out of poverty…Mrs Kabu discouraged them on depending on Sponyo’s yet they can earn their own

Ladies work hard sio lazima uenjoy such stuff via sponyo usiteseke kwa mapenzi

Awesome advise right? But again Akothee has been in this game for years……and I mean years…..which explains why she can picknic in her backyard….while the rest of the other single mums can only afford apartments with small balconies….which are specifically for storing mitungi ya maji.

Akothee Reveals Her Main Reason For Not Be-Friending Women

Without a doubt, Akothee is one of the most sought after female celebrities, and her antics in speaking out her mind are impeccable, and to some, admirable.

Despite having tumultuous relationships and marriages, Akothee isn’t one to tolerate nonsense from friends, especially women.

Opening up about her previous life experience, the musician shared a detailed message on her gram, claiming that she’s not scared of losing friends;

”Something happened to me like 3 years ago . I nolonger fear people walking out of my life or even accepting me the way I am,I nolonger welcome new friends in my life especially females ???? If you knew me before Fame I will keep you ,after fame it’s all social climbing game ???? joka you didn’t post me and post for me this that ???? . I no longer feel pressure to say no ,I say it without feeling guilty, I nolonger wait for validation,if you like me okey if you don’t like me it’s also okey all I care for is that I love myself Soo much that you will not hold for long before you like me back, it’s you who know what you don’t like about me ,but I don’t even care because I don’t want to know. I nolonger call those who don’t call or check up on me , I don’t attend impromptu invitations ????????????. In my businesses ,yes I micromanage all my businesses,and will never let go off my hands ,human beings are full of talks than actions .I am the vision bearer of my dreams so I will hold onto it until I achieve my goals.

Dr Ofweneke reveals why he is charging Akothee Sh 1.4M to host her white wedding

Its funny that Akothee has been dating her young Mzungu boyfriend for a few weeks now and we’re already hearing rumors about an upcoming wedding….and I’m thinking Akothee doesn’t waste time huh…?

Anyway as you’ve probably already heard, Akothee is allegedly planning a white wedding with her new man and since the event will go down in Kenya, the singer wants Dr Ofweneke to host her ceremony….simply because she approves.

Anyway sharing new details of her upcoming wedding, Akothee through her Instagram page shared a photo of Ofweneke to which she wrote;

Wee I thought we were friends @drofweneke is charging me 1.4 m to be the official Mc on my wedding day both white and traditional, ????????????

Ofweneke on why he is charging Akothee Sh 1m

Well seeing how expensive the comedian is charging Akothee for the show,we couldnt help but wonder why…i mean, it’s just a wedding right?

However according to Ofweneke the reason he is charging madam boss 1.4 is because once again, Akothee is choosing a Caucasian over African brother…..

 Kwani Kenya Hakuna wanaume ? Ni madharau Gani hii unatuonyesha, wewe lipa 1.4 ksh ama ulete MC Mzungu basi ????

But again….the heart wants what it wants, and for Akothee i guess white men are her fantasy.

Akothee Calls Out Dr Ofweneke Over Hefty Payment To MC Her Wedding

Akothee is once again in love- And the intriguing fact is that she’s willing to get married again and settle with her newly found mzungu boyfriend monikered  Schweitzer. How do you even pronounce that name? Anyway, Akothee’s white boyfriend has dearly swept her off her feet; and she can’t keep calm about it.

The perennial gushes she has been showering him with prove that Akothee has indeed fallen head over heels for the guy.

Akothee’s Love Life

Akothee previously had a tumultuous time with her relationships, not forgetting to mention her marriage. The colossal number of men she has dated and replaced already hint that she might as well fail in her current relationship. But who are we to judge?

Marriage Plans

The musician recently shared with her fans that she’s ready to be a submissive wife and settle down with her new guy. And marriage plans are already underway. But comedian & MC Dr. Ofweneke might have just blocked the party. This is after his demand of Ksh 1.4 million in order to emcee Akothee’s wedding.

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Unsettled Predicaments

Akothee took to her Instagram to express her disappointment with Ofweneke, adding that they are good friends and that amount is too much.

”Wee I thought we were friends @drofweneke is charging me 1.4 m to be the official Mc on my wedding day both white and traditional, ???????????? ati kwasababu ni Mzungu ????
Babe why ?
His answers
Kwani Kenya Hakuna wanaume ? Ni madharau Gani hii unatuonyesha, wewe lipa 1.4 ksh ama ulete MC Mzungu basi ????
Someone tell @drofweneke haki sio kwa ubaya ,sikuona yeyote abayenifaa poleni basi,” she wrote.

Ofweneke commented and demanded a 50% down payment for the agreement to stand. They’re yet to bargain and come to an agreement.

Akothee accuses Government of ‘turning a blind eye’ to Kenyan women suffering in Gulf countries

Its no secret that women are willing to do anything to ensure their families are living okay. This is what most young girls have found themselves stuck in countries like Saudi Arabia where they travel to work as house girls hoping to make a better living.

Diana Chepkemoi returns home from Saudi Arabia

But as you’ve heard….vitu kwa ground ni different as most end up nasty bosses who mistreat them and some even say they’re physically, mentally and sexually abused by those they work for. However despite the many testimonies – including the latest case of Diana Chepkemoi…the government still remains silent.

Akothee calls upon government to help women stuck in Gulf countries

However self proclaimed president of Single mums Akothee has come out to call upon the new government asking them to intervene. Actually Akothee sounds surprised that women are still getting transported to countries like Saudi Arabia and no one is saying anything;

How many of these cases do we have in a week? How many mother’s , voiceless women are suffering in the hands of this Saudi Arabia thing , this is demeaning as a country, what can we do stop this kind of mess. Why are people allowed to leave their country and not have the freedom to quite when it’s not rosy anymore? What is someones child ,mother doing in deportation, detention, jail while the family is waiting happily that they are making a living . Halooo. SIRIKALI HALOO SIRKAL HALOO.

 

The Don’t care type

Seeing that the matter also involves human rights, Akothee also questioned the Kenyan Embassy to Saudi Arabia for playing the bigger part ruining these ladies by their silence. She wrote;

Where is human rights exercised?
What’s the Kenyan embassy to Saudi Arabia doing ? I thought their work is to take care of their citizens in foreign countries ????as A mother this is LABOUR PAIN.

Akothee also took a swipe at naive ladies still seeking jobs in the gulf countries – knowing very well how house girls are treated there.

I know someones daughter will still ignore this post ,and is busy signing forms and desperately can’t wait to fly
385k for 3 years ???????????????? Kwani huko housegirls wanalipwa ngapi ? ????

Well…with Diana Chepkemoi’s story already forgotten after so much publicity…,I guess it’s every man for himself and every bureau aiming for profits.

‘I Was Still In Shock’- Akothee Admits She Battled Depression Before Finding Love Again

Musician Esther Akoth is still in disbelief that she has been able to bag herself yet another boyfriend after her separation with former manager Nelly Oaks. The mother of 5 recently unveiled her newly found love, and expressed how dearly she had been swept off her feet by the hunk mzungu gentleman.

She started off by flaunting their lovely vacation, where she introduced the newly found love. Her caption;

”Sawa basi ,
It’s yeeeeeeeeees

????????????????????????
Someone tell my mum atoke tu church aende home I went for a lunch date in mombasa shortly”

She has since been flaunting him over and over on her social media, confessing her unwavering love for him.

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Akothee On Battling Depression

I have never felt like this my entire 40 years" Akothee cries after finding  true love in young mzungu boyfriend - Ghafla! Kenya

This time, the musician has divulged that she was actually not ready to love again before love found her. Opening up about the same, she penned via her Instagram;

”I was just chilling on my holidays after a long episode of fighting depression, I wasn’t looking for a relationship,I gave myself 2 to 3 years before thinking of having someone in my life ,then Boom ????, Found myself on the next photo,, before I know it , it’s on the next photo,” part of her message read.

She continued to claim that she’s still in disbelief that she actually found love.

”I am equally still in shock .I have been pinching myself if it’s true???? , for the past 3 months,I thought it was a joke ,eeeh it’s getting serious guys . Just thinking loud ???? someone tell me it’s true”

The comment section was filled with ambivalent reactions, with some claiming that the musician won’t be able to cosset the new relationship for long- considering her previous ones. Only time will tell.

“I have never felt like this my entire 40 years” Akothee cries after finding true love in young mzungu boyfriend

Akothee is in love and whether you like it or not she is not about to keep her mouth shut just because Kamati ya Roho chafu is watching and hating on the side lines….and since most of yall cant enjoy love with this bad economy – i guess mapenzi mtaionea kwa Akothee social media pages.

Akothee enjoying birthday vacation

Well, days after sharing a cute video spending time with her mzungu…wait the video was something like a music video where the young man is seen chasing after Akothee while on the beach at slow motion he carries her, spins her around before they fall on the sand….and the whole time I am watching the clip – I’m thinking kwani Akothee ameadd weight, ama huyu muzungu hana nguvu. But all in all they looked so cute, right?

Days later Akothee has shared an intimate photo while in the company of her new man to which she captioned;

6.8.2022 in Alba Italy never felt like this mu entire 40 years. Allow me to enjoy myself

Love is beautiful

Although Akothee has found herself  the perfect man – young, husband, Caucasian I bet she can now start planning for another child – that is if she isn’t already expecting her 6th child who she said would be from sperm donor.

Anyway I guess this is the only time most of her ex boyfriends might end up getting bitter…I mean have you seen her man?

I’m Ready To Settle And Be A Submissive Wife- Akothee

Musician and businesswoman Esther Akoth (Akothee) is ready to get married once again, despite her numerous previously failed marriages.

Despite having a tumultuous love life, Akothee has given herself another chance to love. This comes months after her nasty break-up with her former manager Nelly Oaks.
Akothee had even promised him 2 children before their amicable decision to part ways.

On To The Next

Akothee is never tardy when it comes to replacing men, however good or bad they were. And this is exactly what she has done.
This time, the singer has fallen in love with a ‘Mzungu’.
And she’s more than willing to settle with him.
Recent videos and photos have depicted how deeply they’re in love with each other.

Akothee Ready To Settle

Sharing via her Instagram, the mother of 5 revealed the latter, adding that she’s looking forward for a “till death do us part” relationship.

“A wonderful morning from Rongo spa, off to Ruma park.

I don’t know my village could become a paradise. The King was missing in action. I can now say my life is complete and ready to settle, ready to be a wife, a submissive one. Join us in making it to till death do us… ”

Akothee’s relationships have been shaky, and this might as well end in a cul de sac. Only time wil tell.

Akothee Introduces Her New Mzungu Boyfriend (Screenshot)

Musician Akothee has once again revamped her love life by bagging herself yet another mzungu boyfriend. The businesswoman and musician is famously known to date rich, white men- and she even has white baby daddies to spice it up.

The singer has revealed the mystery man on her Instagram with a video of the two having some fun at the beach on the coast. The playful couple was chasing after each other in white sand and the man could be seen playfully grabbing Akothee from the back in the video that is filled with romance.

In her caption, Akothee indicated that they had a deal that she will say yes to him if he manages to take her down which he did. Netizens have been left amazed with how easy it was for Akothee to leave the singles club while most have been trapped there for years. Akothee has only been single for a few months after her break-up with Nelly Oaks.

”Sawa basi ,
It’s yeeeeeeeeees

????????????????????????
Someone tell my mum atoke tu church aende home I went for a lunch date in mombasa shortly,” Akothee’s caption read.

 

This is like her 3rd relationship this year. And Akothee is always willing to give men a chance.

Akothee distances herself from mzungu man rumored to be her latest boyfriend

It’s really been tough for Akothee now that her relationship with Nelly Oaks ended in the worst way ever. I mean, for some reason the president of single mums made it known that she had been fooling the guy for almost 6 months before she dumped him; and problem is – the way she said it sounded really bad.

Akothee Introduces Her New Mzungu Bae (Photo)

Okay, yea we get it – she’s older than Nelly Oaks but honesty the man didn’t deserve such treatment and if he did, Akothee should have found a better way to do it; and not belittle him in public.

Anyway that’s water under the bridge and after months of staying single – Akothee recently shared a video enjoying breakfast with a certain Mzungu man; and knowing how she likes her European men – many concluded he is the latest man warming her bed.

‘Chill It’s not him’ Akothee denies dating mzungu man

Well having come across the many posts ‘introducing’ Akothee’s latest man, the singer now says blogs need to chill out and quit claiming the guy seen on her videos is her new man.

The singer revealed this in a post shared on her page where she went on to say;

Hey these are my guests visiting, I haven’t posted the man dating me, ????????????No ring on the finger yet ????,don’t be in a hurry,

However she promised to unveil her latest man very soon, but as for now – all she wants she wants is for news outlets to chill and give her time until she’s ready.

when time comes you will see him.just calm down Wacha MBIO ✌️‼️

Akothee and baby daddy coparenting sons in toxic environment

Akothee’s life is just interesting. Judging from the stories she tells – one would think her life is something like a movie. I mean the 41 year old mum of 5 has 3 baby daddies but only one out if the three is the responsible one.

Baby daddy (A)

Forget about the Kenyan one, but let’s call him baby daddy A. His girls are already grown and working courtesy of their mum. Well the other two baby daddies are European and unfortunately – dad to her eldest son (baby daddy B) still remains bitter about her.

Akothee with baby daddy (B)

Apparently for the years they have been coparenting it’s been like a drug dealing exchange where he (baby daddy B) drops his son and step son (son to baby daddy C) at a certain place where she then picks them and drops them to the other baby daddy (C.)

Determined to make it work

Well…judging from the way some ladies are set up I’m pretty sure they’d have already given up on the coparenting – if this how they’d do it. I mean they’re kids, not product….why not make it a blended family already?

Baby daddy (C)

Which also leaves me wondering why Akothee also puts up with the guy if he is hard to handle…but again – just like any mum I bet it’s just another sacrifice she is making for her son since he didn’t sign up for such parents.

However true…Akothee is a woman of steel yaani nikupambana na situation venye inacome.

“It’s not rivalry it’s JEALOUSY” Akothee reveals as beef with sibling escalates

Lately singer Akothee has been throwing shade through her social media pages talking about why minding your own business as a person is important. At first it looked like she was just doing her regular thing until todays post where she called out one of her siblings for envying her.

Although the sibling she threw shade at is not named – netizens in the comment section believe she is beefing with her younger sister Cebby. Not quite sure where but rumor has it that chances are that the sisters are beefing because of wealth.

Apparently one feels jealous of the other sister’s success and instead of accepting the little offered to her by the rich sister – she (the jealous one) goes on to bad mouth her.

Last time, the two sisters were said to be beefing over the same issues and barely a year since that incidence they’re back to it again.

Akothee speaks

If not for the post shared by singer Akothee where she wrote;

Well there are those siblings who will constantly hurt you, cause you pain and feel like nothing happened. Cease & desist. Guard your peace ✌???? Sijataja mtu

And respond to a fan who jokingly wrote;

Sibling rivalry it’s especially women????????

To which Akothee responded saying;

No nothing like sibling rivalry it’s Jealousy. Call it by its name.

Well, I guess this is another story of Joseph and his brothers relived again.

Akothee celebrates 41st birthday on board expensive Yacht

Akothee may have turned 41 years about 3 months ago but this doesn’t mean she’s stopped celebrating her journey into the 4th floor. I mean, she has all the money she needs (but keeps working harder for more) her girls are grown and independent; while the boys are living large in Europe. Talk of blessings on blessings.

Singer Akothee enjoying life at its best

Of course having had her kids while still young means she’s got to grow with them and looking at how they relate – let’s just say they’re more of friends but…with boundaries.

Anyway thanks to Akothee’s latest post – we have reason to believe that she’s currently celebrating her 41st birthday somewhere in Europe. Madam boss made this known after sharing a couple of photos enjoying herself on a private yacht to which she captioned;

Akothee enjoying vacation

This is how you should celebrate your 41st birthday, 4th floor is no joke, it must be respected ????????Done with educating my girls. The boys are safe. What else in life ?

Life at 40

Mmh well, like we’ve always said – Akothee is one wealthy business lady most Kenyan celebrities (both men and women) can’t compete with. She is on her own level and lane which is no secret.

However having struggled while young to fend for her girls, she didn’t get to enjoy life that much; but and that she’s past that stage – all Akothee wants to do at 41 is live life to the fullest.

Esther Akothee living large

The little girl Esther Akoth Kokeyo
My S”” life just begun. ????????????
You can take this to the nearest bank
@akotheesafaris thank you for this adventure

Madam boss at 41

Akothee announces plans of having baby No. 6 through IUI treatment

Singer Akothee is not done having babies and even at 40 years – she’s still determined to have one more child before hitting 45 years.

The singer who already have 5 kids revealed this in a new post where she mentioned about going for artificial insemination to have her 6th baby. The treatment will apparently happen in France where she’s currently vacationing while visiting one of her daughters.

Being one who is quite outspoken, Akothee went on to reveal that she settled for the treatment since it looks like she won’t be bagging a good man anytime soon. Or rather, bail ya men ya sahii haiwezi. 

I have something for kids. I miss something and I don’t want to get pregnant at 45 . Since looks like a partner won’t be possible soon. I will be going for Artificial insemination here in France ????

Don’t ask for my baby daddy

Having dumped Nelly Oaks who was a good candidate to have her 6th born with, Akothee went on to urge her fans not to ask about her baby daddy’s whereabouts – since she too wasn’t going to find out much about him.

With all the money she has, the singer made it clear that she will not be entertaining any drama from a man; since all she wants is a baby and not a grown man to stress her out.

So when you see me pregnant don’t ask me who the father is . ???? All I want is my own baby with No drama,. Cheers and good night. Do what you want to do in this life ,Its your life .????

And you stilll think money can’t buy happiness?

 

“I have always been the first to apologize” Akothee vows never to settle

Akothee has had 10 years of therapy to help deal with some issues from her past and now that she is stronger – the lady says she will not be allowing toxic energy around her aura.

Well – it hasn’t been easy dealing with a baby daddy that wasn’t supportive during her struggling days; to family members who feel they deserve a cut in her wealth now that she has money.

Speaking about this experience, Akothee earlier today shared a post where she wrote;

Now I know I am not the problem. For a long time I have fell a victim in the hands of mean family members ,I have always been the first one to say sorry even when they are on the wrong , wait ,it dint take a week before I was crying again ???????????? hurting again , ????

Everyman for himself

According to the lady some of her family members are well known takers and if not handed what they want – the relationship becomes bitter. Like it’s her place to provide and fulfill their every need and if not – there’s bad blood.

It took me 10 years of therapy ,crying and trying to figure out what else can I do ????, then I realised Ooh Esther takers have no shame Guvers must creat boundaries ???????????? today I can tell you for free ,I have blocked doors to even the closest family member , people I THOUGHT I couldn’t do without , people I EDUCATED and seen through life .and I don’t feel guilty about it . I am at peace and happy???????? .

But at 40 years, the mother of 5 has learnt that she owes no one anything not even her own kids! With the knowledge she now has, no one can guilt trip her even if it means becoming rivals.

AT 40 I cant afford to loose my sleep over lost envy in the name of rivalry . There is no rivalry Call it JELOUSY  PERIOD ????We can be in a family gathering and I don’t get carried away by the fact that ooh we are together ,shit ,I suffered and not going back . No hello ,no nothing ,not even them attending to forget about my wedding but even my burial .

Shots fired! Shots fired! Nelly Oaks responds to Akothee’s interview about their breakup

Barely a week after Akothee went on to throw shade at ex Nelly Oaks claiming she dumped him 6 months before ending the relationship; looks like Mr Oaks also has something to tell his ex girlfriend and mehn it ain’t pretty.

But like they say, pick fights with someone of your own size and maybe Akothee shouldn’t have cast the first stone because Nelly Oaks is conning in gun blazing and no regrets.

As Akothee boasts about dumping and leaving Nelly Oaks in a relationship he thought was blooming roosts; Nelly Oaks on the other hand is letting fans know what he was up to whenever his ex started acting up. With them other hoo ho*s and he is not keeping quiet.

Fear the silent ones

The fella made this known in an Instagram stories post where he flaunted expensive bottles of the good alcohol and in the back ground – you can hear drakes Money in the grace hit…..and the most interesting part is that he chose this part of the song;

I mean, where the f*ck should I really even start? I got hoes that I’m keepin’ in the dark
I got my niggas ‘cross the street livin’ large
Thinkin’ back to the fact that they dead

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And at this point Im like….somebody take away Nelly Oaks phone! Ata choma!

But this being the first time we’re seeing him fire back indirectly means he is done getting toyed with; but since he also had other h*es on the side….I guess the score between him and Akothee is 1-1.

 

Lanes: Akothee on why she remains the highest paid musician in Kenya

Akothee is not getting off her high horse anytime soon and if you don’t like her – then that’s on you! Well after sharing details of how she dumped her ex, Nelly Oaks – the self declared president of single mums is now letting fans now know why she is the highest paid musician in Kenya.

Akothee

Speaking during a recent interview Akothee went on to reveal that her rate card is what has her making money left right and center. This is because unlike other musicians who charge small amounts for their performances, she charges millions. Not Ksh 1M but Sh2, 352, 000.

Right now my rate-card is $20,000 (Sh2, 352, 000). Its value for money, I bring value. I think I’m the number one earning artiste in Kenya right now.

Akothee

Well her only reason for asking for the crazy amount is because she always delivers what is expected of her; that is giving fans a perfect performance and the organizers also make money off her too.

Tough times

This is however new information since she had earlier revealed to charge Ksh 1 million for her services; but with the economy weighing down on everyone – she too has bills to settle and kids to look after.

Iwapo nikiitwa kwenye show mi hupeana rate card yangu ambayo ni Sh1 Miliion kwa sababu nauza brand… it is the value I am bringing on board.

And just like that – she’s able to keep her brand at the top and is never approached by con event organizers because she’s not one to play with her money or investments.

Ouch! Akothee reveals she was mentally & emotionally disconnected from Nelly Oaks while still dating

Singer Akothee recently revealed she’d parted ways with boyfriend Nelly Oaks following issues that were affecting her health. According to the singer, relationships were not only weighing her down but also distracting her.

The mother of five shared this through her Instagram page while announcing her breakup with Nelly Oaks saying;

I have walked out of other relationships with different ups & downs, so this last one shouldn’t be a shock or a surprise. It’s just a personal decision, I need time to concentrate on my new Found happiness with less destruction, I need to work on myself and my career, I am not ready for any commitment, questions, or answers to what transpired just didn’t want to hurt anyone. but sorry it is what it is

Despite the breakup post,madam boss made it known that she still respects the fella as they share a long history;

Me and Mr. N have a family Relationship back in Rongo. For that matter let’s respect family and keep family RESPECT, He is not someone I just picked on the streets. So for that matter Wishing All of you the best of life

Detached from relationship

However speaking to presenter Ali on a recent interview Akothee now says she detached herself from Nelly Oaks in December 2021. So basically the guy was in the relationship by himself for 6 months not knowing Akothee was done.

Okay – sounds really mean but then again Akothee isn’t the type to sugarcoat her stories meaning things didn’t end so well for the two.

  I would never announce a break up if I’ve not walked through it. Even the biggest of the biggest celebrities out there struggle with relationship… actually, according to me I had walked out of the relationship back in December.

And I guess this explains why the two no longer follow each other on social media and why they’ve since deleted each other’s photos on their social media pages too.

Akothee explains why she prefers death over divorce

Self declared president of single mums Akothee is back with another lesson for all of single mums thinking divorce is the solution to their failed marriages. This being a topic she’s tackled in her book Akothee Sibuor Madhako Quotes, the singer opens up on reasons why most separated couples should avoid dragging their personal lives to court.

Having had 3 failed marriages already I want to believe that Akothee knows one or two about marriages and relationships which explains why she continues to remain single.

Well according to Akothee it’s easier to live knowinv your spouse is dead rather than having to deal with them in court each and every time there’s a hearing. Addressing this, the single mum of 5 through her Instagram page wrote:

AS YOU WALK TO COURT THIS WEEK REMEMBER ME ON THIS ????#akotheequotes
Pg 33) Its easier said than done , Divorce is worse than death , especially when children are involved. When you lose a loved one , you mourn you are broken once for the lose , you hurt you miss them ,and with time you heal! You start learning how to live without them ????

Choose your battles right

Not that she’s encouraging couple to stick to toxic relationships but she encourages many to have a discrete separation to avoid messing with the kids mental health. She went on to say;

But with divorce where children are involved , if you don’t choose your battle wisely , you will be broken daily , buried daily , hurt daily as the kids grow, forget living for a moment ✍ breaking up with a loved one leaving you behind with his / her copies is not something you can deal with in 3/ 4 years, this takes TIME. . If you have to divorce or break up , do it descently , you are not the first or last ,people survived We are with you in prayers ????

But again – all relationships are different and they also end differently. Her advise many not work for everyone but at the end of the day – at least we get her point – and that is your mental health and that of the children should always comes first!

“Ofweneke is mine” Akothee confesses

Singer Akothee is one of the those artists who rarely give shout outs to fellow celebrities but when it comes down to comedian Dr Ofweneke – the mother of 5 can’t hold back from showering praise on this guy.

Akothee

As seen on a new post aimed at appreciating Ofweneke for being her favorite MC, Akothee earlier this morning shared a long post talking about her work relationship with the comedian saying;

There are those who say they have your back ,then there are those who gives you their back to sit on when all the chairs are taken. That’s my Personal Mc Without @drofweneke in my Event ,I’d better cancel.

Why Akothee praises Ofweneke

From what Akothee says is that working with the comedian has always been easy for her since he always delivers as promised; and unlike working with other MC’s who will probably let you down or even fail you – Akothee says she’s never had to struggle when it comes to this particular comedian.

Akothee to Ofweneke

Just to prove how much his work is appreciated by Akothee and her relatives – the singer pointed out that her own mum looks forward to seeing Ofweneke MC; and incase he is not coming for Akothee’s event  – then she (mama Akothee) won’t show up either.

Akothee made this known on the same post where she went on to say;

Applause for the baddest MC
The most booked, the most active my mum always ask Is OFWENEKE the MC ? Then I am coming . This guy is Active❗️ He is already booked 4th june for me & 26th June for my sister in laws wedding ???? And 3rd December for my other event ???? You can now take him for the rest of the dates. Please 4th June 26th June 3rd December OFWENEKE IS MINE ????????????????????

Well – we’re not saying the madam boss is kissing @ss (she doesn’t) but looks like Ofweneke is really making her happy, right?

Imagine if all celebrities celebrated their MC’s this way… they’d be challenged to better their skills even more, right?

Akothee shares reasons as to why she has no female friends

Singer Akothee is not shy to admit that she is a loner. Unlike your usual female celebrities rolling around in group of friends – Akothee says she likes to roll solo and this is because she understands how friendships between females work.

Well – speaking from previous experience, the singer revealed that having female friends is a bomb; it can be fetal, unpredictable and once it goes off – things just become ugly. Doubting her? Ask Huddah what happened after she started making more money than her friends…they poisoned her.

Also read: Akothee reveals biggest mistake she will live to regret

For this reason, Akothee through her gram explained why you will never catch her with female friends – even if it meant that life depended on it. She wrote;

Akothee

REASONS I HAVE NO FEMALE FRIENDS WHO ARE MY AGEMATES.

When they start as friends they become very open to each other,open their hearts and pour out their hearts to each other! Their emotions lie to them they are in love with each other ???? When they realise the other persons have more than what they have ! Mrs JELOUSY ” AKA competition gets its way INN ” ????They forget that, everyone woman have different strengths capabilities and different up bringing, different calculations, origine and destination ???? every woman has a different way of seeing things.

Competitive beings

Also read: Akothee on why she regrets the day she became famous

From what life has taught her is that women will always have some jealousy hidden somewhere in their hearts; however what many don’t understand is that they all can’t be equal. She explained her point using breasts as example saying;

Akothee with the only besties she trusts

we can’t All be equal and it has never happened and will never happen! Women should understand the narrative of Breasts???? ????Some are round ,some are “yago”, some are huge some like nipples , some are standing ovation some are onto your marks ????
But hey ! they All qualify as Breasts ,and met have different taste of them.

Also having seen what happened in Young, Famous and African, I guess you can clearly see why Akothee prefers keeping to herself; instead of surrounding herself with women rooting for her downfall.

Any woman competing to be the Number one woman of All women is making A fool of themselves! There will always be another woman doing other things you ain’t capable if doing . In short we all have different strengths so Stop BEING THE PREFCT IN THE CIRCLES OF YOUR FRIENDS,
As A woman ,don’t hesitate to walk out of a group of friends that make you feel small. RUIUUUN  GOODMORNING

Akothee reveals biggest mistake she will live to regret

Singer Akothee has always been one to publicize her family on social media and after years of not giving her kids privacy; Akothee now says she wishes, she knew the kind of damage she was exposing her children to.

Tbt: Akothee with her girls and ex husband

The singer shared her regrets through a detailed Instagram post showing a conversation between her; and one of 5 kids requesting for their IG account to be deactivated.

Also read: ‘Only Morning Glory Disrupts My Routine’- Akothee Tells Rue Baby After She Locked Her Out Of Their House

From what we can tell is that the ‘child’ was no longer interested in exposing their life on social media; hence the request to have their accounts removed for good. For this reason Akothee went ahead to vent on her caption talking about things she regrets to have done as a parent. Her post read;

The mistake I will leave to regret, Introducing my innocent children to the mean Internet, full of witchcraft; Witches from All corners of the world . To me I thought it was wonderful sharing my life to uplift or motivate someone,at the expense of my family’s privacy! Shit !

Give your children privacy

Well, having exposed her 5 kids to the online life, Akothee’s children have not only been trolled but abused, hated/picked on; and can no longer live life as other normal kids enjoying privacy even in public.

Also read: ‘I See Divorce Everywhere’- Akothee On Why She Will Be Keeping Her Love Life Off Social Media

But now that the damage is already done, the singer says her next plan is to hold off from publicizing love her life from IG; and hopefully fans will also understand why she now has to practice a more private life.

I would advice new parents to keep off their children of this mess of social media.
And for that reason soon my love life will be off social media,. I already feel the heat and I will have to find a way to forgive myself for hurting my family ???? I HOPE YOU TSKE THIS HOME ????

Akothee on why she regrets the day she became famous

Singer Akothee is back with yet another social media rant and this time around, it’s on why she regrets the day she became famous. The singer revealed this through a detailed post where she complained about her fans not respecting her privacy.

According to Akothee some of these fans don’t seem to understand the difference between TV life; and the behind the scenes one – which allows her to go back to her normal self as Esther aka mama Rue and not Akothee the singer.

Also read: ‘Hospital Would Be Prison Without You’- Akothee Gushes Over Lover Nelly Oaks After Being Discharged

Akothee’s rant

Speaking on how fame has affected her life so far, Madam boss through her Instagram page shared a detailed post where she wrote;

I regret the day I became famous,this bulshit ain’t getting funny, Even with my neck support and funny face ,some people would still insist on a selfie ???? Eeee

Akothee in need of a break

From what I’m gathering from Akothee’s post is that she would love to have some privacy for now especially since she is hurting and needs time to herself.

Also read: ‘I Can’t Describe What Is Eating Me Up’- Akothee H0spitalized For The 5th Time

Addressing the few fans who know nothing about giving their favorite celebrities a break, Akothee wrote;

Is this really love ama ni kitu sijui ?
Sometimes I am in pain and just pushing a little bit of life! Spare me the impromptu photos PLEASE! I KNOW YOU LOVE EVIDENCE! NGOJENI KIDOGO.
THE YEAR STARTED ON A ROUGH PITCH FOR ME ! hata Nguvu ya kupiga picha Sina mtanisamehe.

But again, aren’t Kenyans the most snobbish people especially when it comes to ignoring celebrities on the streets?

‘I Can’t Describe What Is Eating Me Up’- Akothee H0spitalized For The 5th Time

The ‘president of single mothers’ Akothee is having a tumultuous time when it comes to her health. The mother of 6, who recently welcomed a daughter through surrogacy; has been on an illness spree which has seen her h0spitalized every now and then. On her side, it’s becoming difficult to explain what’s really messing up her health.

But the musician and entrepreneur had previously disclosed that she has been having sessions of physiotherapy to correct nerves on her neck and arm.

‘”I told you I have a pinched nerve on my neck that’s what affected my Arm , so I have sessions of physiotherapy to try correct it ! This thing hurts badly , especially at night ,I can’t find the correct position to place my neck ! My neck feels over burdened ,tired and burning like f!re ???? good night”

But this is probably not it. Akothee has this time shared that she doesn’t know exactly what’s messing her health up.

She wrote on her Instagram;

I can’t describe what is eating me up , but it keeps doing it’s thing at the worst moment of time .
We have been here since Saturday and this is our jamhuri celebration. Today I can lift my head ????”
Numerous celebrities sympathized with Akothee, wishing her a quick recovery.
Her daughter Rue Baby wrote;
”Get well soon my love ❤️????????”
Radio presenter Mwende Macharia wrote;
”Pole mama praying for you❤️❤️❤️❤️ quick recovery..I miss your vibrant self”
Kabi WaJesus reacted;
”Quick recovery dear”
Despite laying on her hospital bed over & over, her lover Nelly Oaks has stood by her. She’ll definitely be well soon enough.