Pastor Kanyari Warns Women Against Supporting ‘Ben 10’ Relationships

Salvation Healing Ministry founder Pastor Victor Kanyari has sparked debate after cautioning women against dating and financially supporting younger men, commonly referred to as “Ben 10s.”

Speaking during his Wednesday, July 1, 2026, midweek service, the televangelist urged women to be cautious about relationships with younger partners whom he claimed rely heavily on older women for financial support.

Kanyari criticised what he described as a growing trend where some women pay their younger partners’ rent, provide food and take responsibility for most household expenses.

“Women, please stop obsessing over these flashy men who you see wearing good clothes and mostly jeans,” he said.

The preacher also questioned why some women are attracted to younger men who change their appearance through skin bleaching, arguing that appearance should not be the main basis for choosing a partner.

“Those men who also like to bleach their skins so they can become brown and men who only you will be providing for… you women doing that, know you have a big problem,” he stated.

Concerns Over Financial Dependence

Kanyari questioned why some women willingly take on the financial burden of relationships by paying for everything.

“How can you pay for a house for a man? And you even pay for the food that will be eaten in that house?” he asked.

He further claimed that some men who are financially dependent on their partners could later become a source of problems.

“My warning is that those kinds of men are the ones who end up killing people,” he said.

Comments on Beauty Standards

The preacher also raised concerns about what he described as a preference among some women for lighter-skinned men.

“And one thing I also don’t understand: why are women always obsessed with light-skinned men? What do they have?” he questioned.

Kanyari encouraged people to embrace their natural appearance and criticised attempts to change one’s skin colour to fit certain beauty ideals.

“We are Africans. That’s why I don’t want such soft behaviours. We are black colours,” he said.

He concluded by dismissing relationships involving older women and much younger men, saying he did not see the value in such arrangements.

“So those things to do with women having Ben 10s is a waste. I don’t see why you like them,” he added.

Pastor Kanyari Regains Custody Of Children Following Emotional Public Feud

Controversial preacher Pastor Victor Kanyari has officially reunited with his two children, Sky Victor and Danivictor. This breakthrough follows a highly publicized and emotional custody battle that gripped the public eye.

The custody dispute erupted shortly after the tragic passing of Kanyari’s ex-wife, gospel singer Betty Bayo, in November 2025. Kanyari publicly sounded the alarm, claiming he was being denied access to his children. He leveled serious allegations against Betty’s widower, Hiram Gitau (popularly known as Tash), accusing him of neglecting the children’s welfare and passionately appealing for public intervention.

A Breakthrough Announced in Church

Addressing his congregation during a church service on Sunday, June 28, 2026, a relieved Kanyari confirmed that the children are finally back under his care. However, he emphasized that the situation remains delicate as the family navigates the aftermath of recent events.

“Saa hii niko nao, lakini wanaogopa camera (Right now I am with them, but they are afraid of the camera),” Kanyari shared, explaining that he is strictly prioritizing their emotional healing over public exposure.

He noted that he spent the weekend bonding with the children, focusing entirely on helping them transition into a stable, nurturing environment.

The Power of Public Support

Kanyari extended his deep gratitude to several high-profile public figures whose vocal advocacy helped expedite the custody resolution. He specifically credited musician Akothee, gospel artist Eko Dydda, and Nairobi environment officer Geoffrey Mosiria for using their platforms to champion his cause.

“Ningependa sana kushukuru Akothee, Eko Dydda na Mosiria kwani walikuwa wanapiga makelele. Mambo yameanza kuwa mazuri, hata kama si 100 per cent,” he stated. (“I would really like to thank Akothee, Eko Dydda, and Mosiria because they were making noise. Things have started looking up, even if it’s not 100 percent yet.”)

Additionally, the preacher thanked Betty’s UK-based friend, Shiru Stuart, for her steadfast support of the family following the singer’s demise and her advocacy during the custody standoff.

A Long Road to Healing

While the children are legally back with their father, Kanyari acknowledged that the emotional scars run deep. He revealed that they are still processing the trauma of past events and urged Kenyans to offer patience and spiritual support during this transition.

“Tuendelee kuwaombea ili mawazo mabaya yasiwaingie. Wana mambo wanahitaji kusahau. Healing is a process,” he urged. (“Let us continue praying for them so that negative thoughts don’t overcome them. They have things they need to forget. Healing is a process.”)

Pastor Kanyari Cries Foul Once Again Over Custody Drama Of His Children

Controversial Kenyan preacher Victor Kanyari has broken his silence regarding the custody of his children, Sky and Danny, dropping a bombshell accusation against their stepfather.

The Salvation Healing Ministry founder revealed that he has been entirely cut off from his children, pointing fingers directly at Hiram Gitau, alias Tash—the widower of Kanyari’s late ex-wife, gospel star Betty Bayo.

A Heartbreaking Father’s Day

While fathers across the country celebrated their families, Kanyari expressed immense heartbreak, claiming he has been left completely in the dark regarding his children’s current whereabouts.

“This Father’s Day is one of the saddest days of my life,” a pained Kanyari disclosed. “While many fathers are celebrating with their children, I continue to live with the pain of being denied access to mine. I have not been able to see them, and I do not know where they are. I believe their stepfather has played a role in keeping them away from me.”

The Brewing Family Drama

Kanyari’s remarks have added fuel to an already blazing fire. Over the past week, the family has been thrust into the spotlight following a public fallout involving Betty Bayo’s best friend, Shiru Stewart.

Shiru—who hosted the children in the UK for the December holidays—sparked intense online reactions when she fiercely called out Tash. She accused him of withholding money that Sky had earned from various brand endorsements. However, Sky later stepped forward to refute those specific financial claims.

Public Scrutiny Intensifies

The unfolding drama has reopened conversations surrounding the children’s welfare following the tragic passing of Betty Bayo.

  • The Backlash: Immediately after Bayo’s death, a section of Kenyans online voiced concerns that Tash was not fit to raise the children alone.

  • The Shift: At the time, Shiru Stewart vigorously defended Tash against internet critics. However, her recent public fallout with him, combined with Kanyari’s emotional custody claims, has thrown the family dynamic into complete turmoil.

Is Betty Bayo’s daughter spoilt? Sky Kanyari explains why she fired her nanny

Sky Kanyari has addressed claims surrounding the dismissal of her former nanny, insisting that the decision was made by her and not her father, Prophet Victor Kanyari.

In a video shared online, Sky clarified that she was the one who decided to let the nanny go, rejecting suggestions that her father was behind the decision.

“It’s not my dad. It’s me who fired her,” Sky stated.

Confidence vs. Rudeness

Sky also addressed how her personality and communication style are perceived by others.

She explained that she expects the former nanny may describe her as “rude,” but she disagrees with that assessment. Instead, Sky said she considers herself a confident and outspoken young person who is comfortable expressing her thoughts.

“I am not rude, I’m just an outspoken kid. I am confident about what I say. I am not going to shy off,” she said.

She further explained that some of her interactions with the nanny involved responding to what she felt were disrespectful remarks directed at her.

Sky recalled confronting the nanny about the issue, saying she had asked: “Why are you being rude to me? You don’t have to be rude.”

According to her, her direct approach was sometimes misunderstood as disrespect, yet she viewed it as standing up for herself.

Speaking Out and Social Expectations

During the conversation, Sky also reflected on how confident children are sometimes perceived, especially within African communities.

She suggested that outspoken young people may sometimes be judged negatively rather than recognised for their confidence.

“I would say Africans would refer [to] confidence as I don’t know,” she remarked, highlighting what she sees as a difference between being assertive and being considered disrespectful.

The Kanyari Family in the Public Eye

Sky is the daughter of Kenyan preacher Victor Kanyari and late gospel singer Betty Bayo.

The family has often attracted public attention, with discussions around their personal lives frequently becoming topics of conversation online.

Sky’s comments have added to ongoing discussions about parenting, children expressing themselves, and how young people navigate family issues while growing up in the public eye.

Pastor Kanyari Showcases Mother’s Peaceful Home in Malaa, Calls It “Paradise”

Pastor Victor Kanyari has given his followers a rare glimpse into his mother’s home in Malaa, Machakos County, describing the property as a peaceful paradise surrounded by nature.

In a video shared on his Instagram page, the preacher walked through the spacious compound while admiring the greenery, flowers and calm atmosphere around the home.

The moment offered a different side of Kanyari, who is often associated with his ministry, online presence and public discussions. This time, he focused on family and the home he proudly identified as his mother’s.

 

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“Paradise kila kona”

As he toured the compound, Kanyari repeatedly expressed his admiration for the surroundings.

“Paradise kila kona,” he said while recording the well-maintained gardens and natural scenery.

The preacher appeared impressed by the mature trees, colourful flowers and open spaces within the compound, noting that the environment created a sense of peace away from the city’s busy lifestyle.

“Huku ni kuzuri sana. Paradise kila kona,” he added.

A look into family life

The video gave followers a glimpse into Kanyari’s family background and the place where relatives gather.

Malaa, located along Kangundo Road on the outskirts of Nairobi, has grown rapidly in recent years as more people seek spacious residential areas outside the capital.

Kanyari’s mother’s home reflected that lifestyle, featuring a large compound with plenty of greenery and outdoor space.

Fans react

The video attracted reactions from followers, many of whom praised the peaceful setting.

One follower commented that the trees and flowers made the home look calm and beautiful, while another described it as the kind of environment many people hope to enjoy later in life.

Others praised the natural surroundings, saying the compound represented a quiet and comfortable way of living.

The post allowed Kanyari’s audience to see a more personal side of the preacher, centred on family, nature and appreciation for his mother’s home.

Kanyari complains about not being happy in his Ksh90 million Runda mansion

Controversial preacher and Salvation Healing Ministry founder Pastor Victor Kanyari has opened up about the contrast between his lavish lifestyle in Runda and his simpler life in Chokaa, revealing that despite owning a multimillion-shilling mansion, he finds greater peace and happiness in his modest home.

Speaking on Sunday, June 7, 2026, Kanyari disclosed that he owns a mansion in Runda worth approximately KSh90 million. While describing the property as luxurious and fully equipped with high-end amenities, he admitted that it does not offer him the comfort and fulfillment he experiences in Chokaa.

According to the preacher, the Runda residence is a multi-storey home complete with a swimming pool and expansive living spaces. He noted that his bedroom is located on one of the upper floors and is exceptionally large.

“I have a house in Runda, a very big place, by the way, with a swimming pool where you can swim and relax. The house has many floors, and my bedroom is up there, almost on the sixth floor. The bedroom is even the size of this church of mine here. The bed is very big, like King Pharaoh’s bed; you can roll on that bed several times without falling. But there is no happiness over there,” he said.

Despite the luxury and grandeur of the mansion, Kanyari said he does not feel emotionally settled there. He explained that happiness, in his view, is not determined by wealth, expensive property, or material possessions.

The preacher revealed that he often struggles to sleep comfortably in Runda and frequently returns to Chokaa, where he feels more at home.

“Happiness for me is here in Chokaa, where I live and preach. Even if I go to Runda, I cannot sleep there; I have to come back here to Chokaa. And yet that house I bought for KSh90 million,” he said.

Kanyari went on to compare the two homes, noting that while his Chokaa residence is valued at around KSh1.5 million and lacks the luxury of the Runda mansion, it provides him with the comfort, peace, and emotional fulfillment he values most.

He explained that Chokaa offers a strong sense of community and belonging, allowing him to interact freely with residents who know him personally and treat him warmly.

“The house I have here in Chokaa is not that expensive; it is about KSh1.5 million. It is not fancy, but I love it and it is where I feel my happiness and my rest. Because my people are also here. My people call me good names, and I feel at home. The place has a vibe; they call me Honourable,” he said.

According to Kanyari, the simplicity of life in Chokaa, combined with the close relationships he enjoys with residents, contributes more to his peace of mind than the luxury associated with his Runda property.

He also highlighted the difference in lifestyle between the two areas, noting that Runda’s strict security procedures can make the environment feel less personal.

“The difference is that in Runda there are strict security procedures; they have to check and ask questions when you are going in and out,” he said.

“The Rich Never Praise You” – Pastor Victor Kanyari Explains Why He Prefers Blessings Of Less Fortunate Followers

Controversial Salvation Healing Ministry preacher Victor Kanyari has shared a candid assessment of his followers’ economic demographics, claiming that less fortunate individuals are far more genuinely appreciative, loyal, and vocal with their gratitude than the wealthy.

Speaking to his congregation, the self-styled televangelist explained that he actively draws emotional energy from his interactions with ordinary citizens, who frequently shower him with public adoration and creative nicknames without demanding anything in return.

“They Will Keep Singing Your Name”

Kanyari detailed a stark contrast in how different social classes interact with religious leaders, arguing that affluent individuals rarely offer validation, whereas ordinary citizens show immense gratitude for even the smallest acts of support.

“And the people who are not well off often keep praising a person like me,” Kanyari observed. “And they say, ‘Oh wow, you are so rich and you have a lot of money.’ And I say yes, feeling so happy. The rich will never heap praises on you, but the low-class people, just give them a little and they will keep singing your name.”

The preacher noted that this enthusiastic backing has elevated his public profile, with his most loyal supporters constantly inventing new praise titles and accompanying monikers whenever they refer to him in public spaces.

Inside His Daughter’s Ksh500,000 Digital Empire

In a separate disclosure that surprised his congregation, Kanyari revealed that financial acumen runs deep in his household, revealing that his daughter, Sky Victor, commands a monthly income of up to Ksh500,000 entirely through digital content creation.

Addressing his midweek service, the proud father praised his daughter’s business-minded approach, describing her as a sharp Nairobi creator who has fully mastered the mechanics of online audience retention. However, he jokingly lamented that despite his best efforts to manage her wealth, the young creator maintains an iron-clad grip on her digital revenue.

“She earns that per month. Imagine if it were you earning Ksh500,000 every month as she does,” Kanyari shared. “She always insists that the money has to go to her account. I often try to convince her to deposit some of the money into my account, but she says no, that it is her money.”

The Behind-the-Scenes Cooking Tricks

Amused by the realities of modern lifestyle vlogging, Kanyari went on to expose the clever production secrets behind his daughter’s highly lucrative, relatable videos, which often focus on domestic life and traditional culinary arts.

The preacher confessed that while audiences frequently marvel at her homemaking skills, he is often the invisible chef executing the heavy lifting behind the camera.

“She is a very sharp girl. Most of the content she does involves things like cooking ugali, but she uses tricks because she poses with the cooked ugali, and people think she is the one who cooked it, yet I am actually the one who cooked it. She only comes later to create the content,” he added with a smile.

Kanyari’s reflections highlight the massive generational shift within the modern Kenyan church, where traditional clerical influence is increasingly intersecting with the highly profitable, hyper-curated world of social media content creation.

Kanyari rebuffs narrative he’s entering politics for a big payday

Salvation Healing Ministry founder Pastor Victor Kanyari has dismissed claims that his interest in the Kasarani parliamentary seat is motivated by the lucrative salary and perks that come with being a Member of Parliament.

Speaking during his midweek church service on Wednesday, May 20, 2026, Kanyari said the earnings attached to the MP position are actually modest compared to the income he already makes from his businesses.

According to the controversial preacher, the estimated KSh800,000 monthly salary earned by MPs is not enough to attract him into politics purely for financial reasons.

“I am currently vying for the Kasarani MP seat, but people should not think I am going there because of the big salary of around KSh800,000. That amount is actually very small money,” Kanyari told congregants.

He went on to claim that some of his personal businesses are capable of generating a similar amount within a single day.

“I have many businesses, and those businesses can make even KSh800,000 in a day. So I’m not joining politics because of money. I’m interested in the connections,” he added.

Politics About Influence, Not Money

Kanyari explained that his main motivation for entering politics is the influence and networks that come with leadership positions.

The televangelist said he believes such political connections could also benefit his followers by opening doors to opportunities and leadership roles in the future.

According to him, some of the people close to him could eventually rise to positions such as Members of County Assembly (MCAs), Women Representatives, and other elective offices through the networks he hopes to build.

“When I get those connections, I will also connect my followers. Some of them could become MCAs, Women Representatives, and even bigger leaders in future,” he said.

Revisits KSh310 Miracle Seed Strategy

Kanyari also reflected on his controversial past fundraising tactics in church, particularly the famous KSh310 “miracle seed” contributions that once dominated his ministry.

The preacher admitted that he deliberately kept the amount at KSh310 because it was affordable for many followers and encouraged wider participation.

He explained that increasing the amount could have discouraged supporters from contributing.

“That time when I used to ask followers to send KSh310 for miracles, people were comfortable sending it because it was fair. I never changed the amount because I understood many people were willing to send KSh310,” he said.

“I could not suddenly ask for KSh1,000 when people were not willing to give that amount. You also have to be wise when it comes to branding,” Kanyari added.

Kanyari offers salvation from masturbation for city youth

Victor Kanyari, the founder of Salvation Healing Ministry, has prayed for a young man seeking deliverance from what he described as an eight-year struggle with masturbation.

During a church service at his Njiiru-based church on Thursday, March 12, 2026, the preacher addressed the young congregant directly, describing the habit as both a personal and spiritual challenge that required prayer and intervention.

Kanyari told the congregation that masturbation can affect a person’s natural desire for a partner and described it as a spiritual issue that should be confronted through faith and prayer.

“You mean you have been masturbating for eight years? Masturbation, because I know some of you, my church members, don’t know, is where a man finds ways to satisfy himself sexually. And that means he may never have the desire for a woman,” he said.

According to the preacher, the young man had travelled from Kitale in Trans-Nzoia County to seek spiritual guidance and prayer at the church. Kanyari said the effort showed the man’s determination to overcome the habit.

“It’s a spirit, and this young man has come all the way from Kitale, Trans-Nzoia County, to seek my prayers. Imagine, he has travelled all the way and spent his fare to come and seek my help,” the pastor stated.

During the prayer session, Kanyari led the congregation in a spiritual intervention, invoking God’s name as he prayed for the young man to be freed from the habit. In a video later shared on TikTok, the man is seen collapsing to the ground as the preacher prays and church members join in.

Kanyari used the moment to address his congregation about personal struggles related to sexuality, urging believers to approach such challenges with prayer, understanding and compassion rather than judgement.

“And because of that, I declare that the spirit of masturbation is done, and I declare an end to that spirit now in Jesus’ name. Now I pray for the spirit to vanish and depart from this man,” he said.

Naipei’s Warning After Joining Kanyari’s Church

The prayer session came days after social media personality Marion Naipei, who is associated with Kanyari’s church, issued a warning to people who do not give offerings in church.

Speaking during a TikTok Live on Tuesday, March 10, 2026, Naipei said she was frustrated by criticism from online users who advise her despite not contributing offerings themselves.

“You guys are all over here lashing at me, yet you never even give offerings in church. You do not give offerings, I am sure. And that means you are living on mercy,” she said.

Naipei argued that many people criticising her online fail to support church activities financially and suggested that their wellbeing depends on divine mercy.

“It’s only that God feels like giving you chances; otherwise, some of you would have very bad lives or some of you would even be dead by now,” she added.

She also dismissed advice from critics urging her to stop talking openly about the support she receives from Kanyari, including claims that he helps cover her bills and school fees.

“And don’t even lecture me or tell me to stop bragging or anything. Such advice makes me bored and even angry,” she said.

Pastor Kanyari swoops in to save Nairobi residents affected by flooding

Victor Kanyari has joined efforts to assist dozens of Nairobi residents affected by severe flooding caused by the ongoing heavy rains.

The founder of Salvation Healing Ministries spent time in the Njiru area, where his church is located, distributing food and essential supplies to residents whose lives have been disrupted by the floods.

“Leo Team Kanyari imeshinda Potmore Njiru tukipeana chakula kwa watu ambao walioadhiriwa na mafuriko,” Kanyari said.

The statement loosely translates to: “Today Team Kanyari spent the day at Potmore Njiru providing food to people affected by the floods.”

Photos shared by the preacher on social media showed residents lining up as they received food and other supplies from members of his team.

Kiengei Appeals for Donations

Kanyari joins a growing number of religious leaders stepping in to help flood victims, including Benson Gathungu, the founder of Jesus Compassion Ministries.

Bishop Kiengei opened the doors of his church to people displaced by the heavy rains.

“These rains have deeply affected many people in Kenya. Houses have submerged, properties destroyed and people have shifted… Today at JCM Church International headquarters we have received victims of the downpour,” he said in a statement issued on Tuesday, March 10, 2026.

He also appealed to the public for donations to help support those affected as they attempt to rebuild their lives.

“Please, I am appealing to you, if you have clothes, bedding and hygiene items that you can share, visit the Lord’s Store and we will reach out to the needy,” he added.

Sakaja Faces Public Criticism

The flooding followed heavy rainfall that hit Nairobi on Friday, March 6, 2026, leaving more than 40 people dead.

Several others sustained injuries, while property worth hundreds of millions of shillings was destroyed.

The situation has also triggered public criticism directed at Johnson Sakaja, as residents expressed frustration over the recurring floods that have affected the city in recent years.

Kanyari Vows To Buy Marion Naipei A Car As Criticism Continue Over His Support

Controversial preacher Victor Kanyari has broken his silence regarding his relationship with Marion Naipei, firmly dismissing online speculation that their connection is romantic. In a candid TikTok video, Kanyari insisted that his motives are strictly philanthropic, driven by a desire to protect Naipei from further public humiliation.

Referencing a previous viral incident where Naipei was allegedly mistreated by another man, Kanyari stated his protective stance clearly:

“I don’t want her to be shamed by men again. I don’t want that stupidity. I want that girl to enjoy life,” he said, emphasizing that his goal is to see her uplifted.

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Putting Money Where His Mouth Is

To prove his commitment, the pastor revealed that he has already provided Naipei with significant financial backing. Kanyari disclosed that he handed her capital to start a business and has made a high-stakes promise to further her independence. He confirmed that he has already issued funds for her to establish her own enterprise. Kanyari pledged to buy her a car in the near future, citing it as part of his mission to ensure she lives a comfortable life.

Distancing from the “Drama”

Addressing the “cheating” and “dating” rumors head-on, Kanyari was adamant that he is not seeking a relationship. He told his followers that he has “outgrown” such behaviors and that people should stop reading into his generosity.

“It’s not like I’m doing anything with her. I’m above that, I don’t do those things,” he stated, attempting to put a lid on the gossip that has divided opinion across Kenyan social media.

While some Kenyans have lauded the pastor for stepping in to help a woman in distress, others remain skeptical of the high-profile nature of his “charity.” As of March 2026, the duo continues to be a major talking point, with fans waiting to see if the promised car will eventually make an appearance on the timeline.

Mystery Deepens Around Gospel Star Betty Bayo’s Death as DPP Orders Fresh Probe

Fresh drama has erupted over the death of beloved gospel singer Betty Bayo after the Office of the Director of Public Prosecutions (ODPP) ordered the Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) to dig deeper into the circumstances surrounding her passing.

The move follows a dramatic plea by Betty’s family, led by her mother Joyce Wairimu Mbugua, who formally petitioned the DPP demanding an inquest, insisting all is not as it seems.

According to the family, the singer had no known underlying illness before her sudden death, raising troubling questions about what really happened in her final days. They allege they were shut out of critical medical information, including the post-mortem report and treatment records — a move they say only fuelled their suspicions.

Adding to the controversy, the family claims Betty was buried in a rush, denying them time to seek clarity and deepening fears that crucial details may have been swept under the carpet.

DPP Steps In

In a statement released on Thursday, December 18, the ODPP confirmed it received the family’s complaint on December 9 and agreed the concerns warranted further scrutiny.

“The complaint raises serious concerns and suspicions regarding the circumstances of the deceased’s death, including claims that she had no underlying health condition and that the family was denied access to the post-mortem report,” the statement read.

The DPP has now directed the DCI to carry out thorough investigations and submit a report for review and possible legal action, vowing that the matter will be handled independently and in line with the law.

Kenyans Split Online

News of the probe ignited heated debate online, with Kenyans sharply divided. While some supported the family’s quest for answers, others urged them to let the late singer rest in peace.

“The family and the first husband should be fair to that gentleman,” one user commented, while another warned, “This will traumatise the children. There is no need for this. Let her rest.”

What We Know So Far

Betty Bayo, famed for her soul-stirring Kikuyu gospel hits and growing online presence, died on November 10 while undergoing treatment at Kenyatta National Hospital. At the time, the family said she had been battling leukaemia.

She was later laid to rest at her family home in Mugumo Estate, Kiambu County, in an emotional ceremony attended by fellow gospel artistes, friends and relatives.

‘My Child Cried to Me’ — Mother Breaks Down

The controversy intensified after Betty’s mother went live on TikTok with US-based content creator Shiru wa Oakland, recounting what she says was a haunting final conversation with her daughter.

“My child cried to me,” Wairimu said tearfully. “She asked me, ‘Why and who did I leave her with?’ That question has never left my mind.”

She insists the family deserves full transparency, calling for a post-mortem and access to all hospital documents related to Betty’s treatment.

“I want the truth about what happened to my child,” she said. “I need the post-mortem done. I need all her documents. Why is my ID still being held? Why does someone else have the burial permit — and why is the name wrong?”

Wairimu also accused those involved of dodging meetings and ignoring the family’s concerns in the tense days leading up to the burial.

As investigators move in, the nation now waits for answers in a case that has gripped gospel fans and reignited painful questions about what really led to Betty Bayo’s tragic death.

Kanyari Vows To Change His Lifestyle For The Sake Of His Children After Betty Bayo’s Death

Pastor Victor Kanyari, founder and head preacher of Salvation Healing Ministries, has publicly vowed to change his behavior and lifestyle, citing the death of his ex-wife, Betty Bayo, and the need to become a responsible father to their two young children, Sky and Dany.

Speaking during a sermon on Sunday, November 23, 2025, Kanyari emphasized that his days of living recklessly are over, as his children now require him to prioritize seriousness and responsibility.

“Lazima sasa ni behave; siwezi kuendelea kucheza vile nilikuwa na cheza lazima niwe serious sana kwa sababu sasa I have two young children, Sky and Danny, ambao sasa I have to take care of them,” Kanyari stated (I must now behave; I cannot continue playing around as I used to; I must be very serious because now I have two young children… whom I have to take care of).

Acquiring a New Home for the Family

Kanyari also revealed that his commitment to change extends to his living situation. He explained that his current home is often filled with over 200 people, which is unsuitable for raising his children.

“In my house na kaa nawatu zaidi ya 200 people wanaka kwangu, wanakunywa huko wanakula huko [I live with over 200 people who stay, drink, and eat at my place], so jana yote nimeshinda nikitafuta nyumba ya kununua [I spent all day yesterday looking for a house to buy] where my children can stay, because I don’t want to chase away those people who are currently living with me,” he added.

He confirmed that he had identified a new property in a residential area:

“Na nikapata nyumba mzuri sana iko upande wa Runda.”

The Ksh90 Million Runda Mansion

This commitment follows an earlier announcement (on November 16) where Kanyari revealed he is set to acquire a Ksh90 million mansion in Runda, Nairobi. He told his congregation that he toured the properties and fixed his mind on the most expensive option to give his children a luxurious and comfortable life.

The property features amenities like a swimming pool, which Kanyari specifically mentioned as a place where his children can enjoy themselves and have fun.

BETTY BAYO’S DAUGHTER WEIGHS THE ADVANTAGES AND CHALLENGES OF HAVING TWO FATHERS

Betty Bayo’s daughter, Sky, opened up about the highs and lows of growing up in a blended family.

During a recent conversation with her mother, shared on their YouTube channel, the 12-year-old spoke candidly about having two fathers. She praised both men for providing for her needs while acknowledging the complexities that come with it.

“Does being in a blended family affect you in any way? Like having two dads and soon two moms—does it impact you?” Betty asked.

Sky responded that, while she has no major issues with it, there are moments when it becomes stressful. She admitted that other children sometimes tease her about it, which can be difficult. Additionally, deciding which father to involve in certain activities can be challenging.

“It doesn’t really affect me, but when it comes to events like Father’s Day, I don’t know what to do,” she admitted.

She added, “Sometimes, when people want to tease me or make me feel bad, they bring it up. But not everyone knows—I don’t think my friends are aware that I have two dads.”

On the positive side, Sky shared that having two fathers means she benefits from both financially. “One pays for this, the other pays for that. If I want something, I have two options. But when it comes to Parents-Teachers Conference, I never know who to bring.”

Meanwhile, Betty and her husband recently enjoyed a romantic dinner on the Marina Cruise, dressed in matching white outfits.

Sharing snippets from their getaway, the gospel singer encouraged those seeking love, writing, “To those trusting God for a life partner, may He bless you with someone who not only matches your outfits but also your dreams, goals, and beliefs.”

Kanyari Explains Controversial Interaction with Woman During TikTok Live

Victor Kanyari Addresses Backlash Over Viral TikTok Live Interaction

Pastor-turned-TikToker Victor Kanyari is once again in the spotlight, but this time, not for his sermons. He is facing criticism after a viral video showed him inappropriately touching fellow TikToker Kawira during a live session.

Kanyari and Kawira have frequently appeared together on TikTok Live, engaging in playful exchanges. The Salvation Healing Ministry pastor has often complimented Kawira’s looks, and their online partnership has seen them receive gifts and cash from followers.

However, their latest interaction sparked outrage. Kawira gifted Kanyari a painting for Valentine’s Day, and during the exchange, he moved closer to her, touching her in a way that many deemed inappropriate. Dressed in a t-shirt and dark trousers, Kanyari asked Kawira, who wore a denim jacket and short skirt, to turn around so he could see her backside before playfully spanking her. While she laughed nervously, netizens criticized the act as unbecoming of a religious leader.

In response to the backlash, Kanyari defended himself, dismissing the claims of misconduct. He insisted it was all in good fun, comparing it to acting in movies.

“I am a joker; those are my children. When I bumped her, it was not serious. Si hata watu wana act sinema? (Don’t people act in movies?) People act in movies, and it doesn’t mean they are married. I have to joke with her because she is a baby girl,” he said.

Despite his explanation, many questioned his influence on young people and whether he still deserved the title of a pastor.

This is not the first time Kanyari has been linked to a TikToker. In 2024, speculation arose about his relationship with TikToker Rish Kamunge, who openly expressed her admiration for him.

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Since his separation from gospel singer Betty Bayo in 2015, Kanyari has co-parented their two children. Despite his online antics, he remains involved in their lives, and they have voiced their opinions on his relationship with Kawira.

In December 2024, a video surfaced showing Kanyari, Kawira, and his children having a meal together. During the conversation, his son, Dani, openly disapproved of his father’s closeness to Kawira, while his daughter, Sky, jokingly reminded him to say goodnight to his “wife.”

Kanyari claims he is the only preacher who prays for people with HIV and they get healed.

Pastor Victor Kanyari of the Salvation Healing Ministry in Nairobi has made new claims, asserting that he is the only pastor with numerous divine permissions from God.

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In a video circulating on social media, Kanyari claims that he is the only pastor in Kenya authorized by God to heal HIV.

While speaking at his church, Kanyari assured his congregants that he has the unique ability to completely eliminate HIV from a patient’s body through prayer alone.

“I am the only preacher who prays for people with HIV and they get healed,” Kanyari stated confidently.

However, the controversial pastor added that not everyone he prays for will be healed. According to him, while God has given him the permission to pray for people with HIV, the decision of who gets healed is ultimately in God’s hands.

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“…and not everyone, only the person God wants to heal!” he added.

Many people, however, have challenged his statement, pointing out that there is no complete cure for HIV and that existing medications only manage its severity. They noted that there has never been a documented case of healing through prayer, except in Biblical stories from the times of Jesus and the apostles.

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Homophobia is stupid! Pst. Kanyari declares

Popular city preacher Pastor Victor Kanyari recently addressed criticism regarding his interaction with self-proclaimed Kenyan gay socialite Chokuu during a TikTok live session. In response to backlash, Kanyari asserted his stance of non-judgment towards members of the LGBTQ+ community, emphasizing his belief that only God has the authority to pass judgment.

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Expressing his refusal to harbor hatred or condemnation towards individuals based on their sexual orientation, Kanyari firmly stated, “You want me to hate everyone just because someone is gay? I should be like those pastors advocating for the killing of lesbians? I do not kill people, I don’t judge people, and I will never judge.”

Highlighting the role of prayer and guidance rather than condemnation, Kanyari emphasized that his duty was to pray for individuals and leave judgment to God. He adamantly rejected the idea of hating someone due to their profession or sexual orientation, denouncing such attitudes as primitive and contrary to God’s teachings.

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“I will not entertain negativity on my page,” Kanyari declared, rebuffing calls for hatred towards individuals based on their orientation. He urged those promoting hate to seek guidance elsewhere, criticizing the hypocrisy of individuals who project holier-than-thou attitudes while perpetuating negativity.

In conclusion, Kanyari affirmed his commitment to fostering positivity and understanding, urging detractors to refrain from spreading hate on his platform.

Some odd actions that Kanyari has taken since signing up for TikTok

Prophet Victor Kanyari recently made a splash on TikTok, engaging in live sessions that have garnered him newfound popularity and various opportunities.

Despite skeptics questioning his motives, Kanyari clarified that his primary aim on the platform is to spread the gospel, particularly targeting the youth demographic, which forms the majority of TikTok users.

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Since joining, Kanyari has embraced the platform’s culture, interacting with followers, and even learning from fellow TikTokers. However, his presence hasn’t been without controversy.

During one live session, Kanyari raised eyebrows with his unconventional request for gifts, urging followers to send items like flowers, lions, and hats instead of traditional offerings.

Additionally, Kanyari’s interactions with other TikTok personalities have stirred debate. He publicly admired a user’s fashion sense and even expressed a desire to emulate his hairstyle and motorcycle riding habits.

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Addressing his past struggles and current success, Kanyari emphasized his refusal to remain impoverished to please others, asserting his newfound stability.

Furthermore, his friendly rapport with socialite Chokuu sparked criticism, but Kanyari brushed off the negativity, insisting on maintaining their friendship. However, he did challenge Chokuu to clarify a curious statement about being a ‘chapati lover.’

In a surprising revelation, Kanyari disclosed his previous marriage to gospel artist Betty Bayo, but now finds himself single and actively seeking a spouse, intriguingly, through TikTok.

Prophet Victor Kanyari commends Betty Bayo, his ex-wife, for her abilities in co-parenting

Controversial preacher Victor Kanyari has publicly commended his former spouse, gospel musician Betty Bayo, for her exceptional co-parenting skills.

Kanyari, who recently gained popularity on TikTok, praised Betty during a live session after a brief interaction with their daughter, Sky, who now resides in the US.

During the session, Pastor Kanyari spoke warmly of his children’s accomplishments and proudly shared that he has been financially supporting their education.

“I am currently covering their school fees, amounting to almost one million Kenyan shillings every term,” Kanyari disclosed.

Despite their separation in 2015, Kanyari described Betty as his closest confidante and emphasized the importance of maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of their children.

“Their mother, Betty Bayo, is my friend. She calls me, and we talk. She is my closest friend, and we communicate,” he affirmed.

The leader of Salvation Healing Ministry went on to encourage other parents to prioritize their children’s well-being, even after parting ways.

“Let’s prioritize the children’s welfare, even if we go our separate ways,” he urged.

While acknowledging Betty’s remarriage, Kanyari also spoke positively about her new husband. “Even her husband is a good person,” he added.

However, Pastor Kanyari also expressed his desire to find a new life partner, stating:

“But I haven’t found a woman to marry. I desire to find a wife and get married; that’s all I want.”

Reflecting on the reasons for their failed marriage, Kanyari admitted that they were young and inexperienced when they tied the knot.

“Betty was the most wonderful woman I’ve ever met, but I believe when we met, we were both still immature,” he revealed in a previous interview.

“That’s the main reason our marriage didn’t work out because Betty wasn’t a bad woman. Our youth contributed to the breakup.”

Despite their past disagreements, Kanyari believes that both he and Betty have matured over time and are now better equipped to make sound decisions for themselves.