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Former Nanny Appeals After Court Dismisses KSh 28 Million Lawsuit Against the Kabus

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Simon Kabu and Sarah Njoki’s former nanny has taken her case to the Court of Appeal after the Employment and Labour Relations Court dismissed her lawsuit alleging sexual harassment, violation of dignity, and invasion of privacy by the estranged business couple.

The woman, identified as JK, had sued the Bonfire Adventures directors for over KSh 28 million, claiming her rights were violated during her employment. The case gained public attention in December 2024 after Simon allegedly leaked CCTV footage of an altercation between JK and Sarah. The footage fueled online speculation about the couple’s marital troubles, with JK asserting that she was unfairly labeled a “husband snatcher” and targeted on social media.

In her lawsuit, JK sought KSh 7 million for alleged sexual harassment by Sarah, another KSh 7 million for breach of confidentiality due to Simon’s release of the footage, and KSh 14 million for violation of her privacy and dignity by both parties.

However, Justice Manani ruled that JK’s lawsuit was inadmissible because her employment contract had already been terminated on October 15, 2024, following an out-of-court settlement with the Kabus. The judge stated that since there was no existing employer-employee relationship, the Employment and Labour Relations Court had no jurisdiction over the matter. JK, however, claims she was coerced into the settlement by police officers whom she believes were influenced by the Kabus.

Additionally, the judge ruled that since JK was employed by Bonfire Adventures, a registered company, rather than Simon and Sarah personally, her claims against them should have been filed in a Magistrate’s Court rather than the Employment and Labour Relations Court. Despite this, he acknowledged that the ELRC has original and unlimited jurisdiction over all labor disputes, including those within a magistrate’s jurisdiction.

JK’s lawyer, Mr. Arunda, criticized the ruling, arguing that the judge should have transferred the case instead of dismissing it entirely.

“The ELRC, as an extension of the High Court, has jurisdiction over all employment disputes. Striking out a case should always be a last resort. This is why we are dissatisfied with the decision and have already filed a notice of appeal at the Court of Appeal,” said Arunda.

Simon Kabu Petitions Court to Dismiss Nanny’s Sh21 Million Lawsuit Against Him and His Estranged Wife

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Simone Kabu the CEO  of Bonfire Adventures Travel Agency wants the case in which he and his estranged wife Sarah have been sued by their former nanny for Sh21 million dismissed.
The nanny has sued the estranged couple over a home video that went viral, citing a breach of privacy, cyberbullying, sexual harassment by Sarah, and mental anguish.

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In December 2024, the nanny was thrust into the limelight following an alleged  CCTV footage that triggered a debate on the marital woes of the Bonfire Adventures Directors.
JK (the woman) claims in court papers that her employment as a nanny and homeschool teacher for the Kabus’ two children in June 2024 was part of a ruse aimed at using social media to make her a scapegoat for the estranged couple’s marital problems.

JK’s case has shone a spotlight on the seemingly troubled life of the Kabus, which is a stark contrast to what the estranged duo has shown the public for years – a happy-clappy power couple using their perfect marriage to grow their company into a tourism industry behemoth.
The case has also revealed that Sarah may have narrowly dodged criminal charges for causing actual bodily harm to JK, which carries a maximum prison sentence of five years.

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She is seeking Sh7 million for sexual harassment by Sarah, Sh7 million for breach of confidentiality by Simon’s release of the CCTV footage, and violation of dignity by both Simon and Sarah.

The saga, which has snowballed into an intrusive legal battle exposing secrets of the Bonfire Adventures proprietors, started on July 8, 2024, barely a month after JK was hired.
Simon and Sarah were already separated, with the latter having already moved out of their marital home in the posh Edenville gated community along Kiambu Road.

JK says in court papers that Simon had all along attributed Sarah’s absence from the home to a busy working schedule.
She says Simon and Sarah’s marriage became problematic with her thrown in the center of it despite remaining professional in her duties.
While Sarah wanted her gone and even fired her, Simon ordered her to stay a situation that intensified the couple’s marriage woe.
JK says during the back and forth between the married couple, she was at one point assaulted by Sarah who she also alleges hurled sexual innuendos at her. When she threatened to report the matter, JK says Simon urged her not to.

On August 28, 2024, Simon sent Sh250,000 to JK’s bank account, but the court papers do not indicate what the money was for. On October 15, 2024, Sarah and JK reached an out-of-court deal, and it was agreed that the money Simon had sent the latter be considered part of the settlement fee.
She notes that Sarah was also willing to give her an extra Sh100,000 to close the matter. JK now maintains that she agreed to the settlement out of duress.

“I opted for settlement because I was disappointed at how my case was being handled, the prejudice, and negative discrimination I faced at the Kiambu police station. Sarah’s case was a clear manifest of how the rich are protected by the law even if they are in the wrong,” JK says in her court filings.

The matter should have ended on October 15, 2024, after the deal was signed and everyone was told that the CCTV footage had been deleted.

But on December 4, 2024, the same video that was non-existent started trending on social media. Some social media users claimed that JK was romantically involved with Simon and that she was pregnant.
She now claims that Simon and Sarah paid some bloggers and social media users to malign her name for publicity stunts.

When JK called Simon and asked why he had leaked the video. Simon allegedly said he mistakenly sent it to the Bonfire Adventures WhatsApp group while trying to get the footage to his lawyer.

Those form the basis of JK’s next two claims for violation of privacy and reputational damage, for which she wants Sh14 million.
Simon filed a preliminary objection terming her former employee’s case as frivolous, bad in law, vexatious,s and an abuse of court.
He also wants the case to be struck out, on the grounds that, the Employment and Labour Relations court has jurisdiction to determine the suit.
The matter came up for mentioning this week before Hon. Justice Bernard Matanga who directed the parties  appear before him on 27th March 2025 for the ruling of Mr Kabu’s objection.

Sarah Kabu Explains Why She Attacked Her Husband With a Knife

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Sarah Mtalli, a Kenyan entrepreneur and founder of Bonfire Adventures, was interviewed on Dr. Ofweneke’s show “Lessons at 30.”

The interview covered a wide range of topics, including Mtalli’s personal life, her career in the tourism industry, and her thoughts on love, relationships, and women’s empowerment.

Mtalli opened up about her marriage and divorce, revealing that she had been emotionally separated from her husband for several years before the official divorce. She revealed that the person she attacked in the video was an employee of one of Simon Kabu’s baby mamas who had started bringing friends over to where their children lived.

She also shared her experiences with marriage counseling and the challenges of maintaining a healthy work-life balance while running a successful business.

The interview also touched on Mtalli’s childhood and her journey to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She discussed her early ambitions, her education, and the challenges she faced in building Bonfire Adventures.

Mtalli also shared her insights on women’s empowerment and the importance of self-care. She encouraged women to prioritize their own happiness and to build strong support systems.

Sarah Mtalii and Simon Kabu: Navigating New Paths Amid Divorce Speculations

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In 2024, Bonfire Adventures CEO Sarah Mtalii announced that she would no longer be using her husband Simon Kabu’s surname, sparking rumors of a potential divorce. Sarah has since rebranded herself, adopting the name “Sarah Mtalii,” which translates to “Sarah the Tourist” in Swahili.

The entrepreneur, who shares two children with Simon, clarified that she is reverting to her maiden name and will officially go by “Sarah Njoki Nyaga.” Sharing her decision on social media, Sarah explained:
“Guys, I’m rebranding my name. I will now be known as Sarah Mtalii. My official name is Sarah Njoki Nyaga. I will no longer be using the name Sarah Kabu. So from today, when referring to me, please use Sarah Mtalii, my brand name online. I want to thank my fans for their overwhelming support. I know you didn’t know what I was going through. I started the foundation to encourage you, as I understand how challenging the journey can be.”

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Interestingly, Simon Kabu has also embraced the “tourist” branding, referring to himself as “Simon Kabu The Tourist” in a recent interview.

Marriage Struggles and Separation

In 2024, Sarah revealed she had moved out of their matrimonial home following a widely circulated video of a woman, allegedly Sarah, in a heated altercation with a househelp. Addressing the rumors, Sarah provided clarification:
“There is a girl claiming she was my housegirl, and I beat her up at my former home, which she called ‘Pharaoh’s house’ or ‘Egypt.’ She says this happened before I moved out.” Sarah drew a symbolic comparison between her former home and the hardships of Egypt.

Reflection on Infidelity and Past Advice

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The Bonfire Adventures boss also expressed regret for her past advice to women about staying in marriages despite infidelity.
“I want to apologize for encouraging women to stay in marriages where there is infidelity. Ladies, I’m asking for your forgiveness. If things aren’t working, it’s better to leave while you still can,” Sarah stated in a video. She further emphasized, “From today onwards, if it’s not working, it’s not working—just leave.”

The couple, who once presented a united front, now appears to be pursuing separate paths both personally and professionally.

Sarah Mtalii shares inspiration behind her new name and son’s response after separation from Simon Kabu

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Following her highly publicized split from Simon Kabu, Sarah Mtalii (formerly Sarah Kabu) has opened up about the heartfelt inspiration behind her new name and her son’s reaction to the changes in their family dynamic.

During an emotional speech at an event hosted by her Virtuous Women Foundation, Sarah revealed that the name “Mtalii” holds deep personal significance, as it was inspired by her son. She tearfully shared how the transition to their new home after separating from Simon Kabu led her son to give their family members new names, symbolizing a fresh start.

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“The brand name Sarah Mtalii is very dear to me because my son inspired it,” she said, her voice breaking with emotion. “Children have a unique way of finding inspiration, even in the toughest times.” She paused briefly, overwhelmed by tears, as attendees clapped in support, with several women coming to the stage to comfort her.

Sarah recounted how her son embraced his role as the “man of the house” following their move. “After we relocated to our new home, I told my son he would now be the man of the house. I was amazed by how he accepted it. As a child, he observes and adapts to family changes,” she noted.

The Bonfire Adventures Managing Director further shared that her son christened every family member with the name “Mtalii” because he no longer wanted to associate with the Kabu name. “He called me Sarah Mtalii and made it clear he didn’t want to hear the name Kabu again,” she said.

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Sarah dropped the name Kabu after parting ways with the father of her two children, a split that became a public spectacle following the release of CCTV footage. The footage appeared to show a woman, believed to be Sarah, confronting another woman, with a man, presumed to be Simon Kabu, stepping in to intervene.

Addressing the controversy, Sarah questioned how the footage was leaked and challenged her estranged husband to reveal the identity of the other woman. Simon, however, clarified that the woman in the video was their house manager, who had been professionally recruited. He added that the incident had been reported to the police for investigation.

Simon Kabu’s Actions at End-of-Year Party Spark Speculation Among Fans

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The ongoing public dispute between Bonfire Adventures CEO Simon Kabu and his estranged wife, Sarah Mtalii, has continued to draw significant attention as their personal and business conflicts play out online.

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In the latest development, Sarah Mtalii has publicly asserted her ownership stake in Bonfire Adventures, the travel company she co-founded with Simon. As a mother of two, Sarah has been vocal about her involvement in building the business, intensifying the heated exchanges between the two.

The situation escalated further when a video surfaced online allegedly showing Sarah involved in a physical altercation with another woman at their luxurious home. The clip quickly gained traction on social media, reigniting public interest in the couple’s strained relationship.

The video only seemed to heighten the tension, with both Simon and Sarah taking to their respective platforms to present their versions of events.

Awkward Interaction at End-of-Year Party

Despite their ongoing conflict, both Simon and Sarah attended Bonfire Adventures’ end-of-year party. However, they maintained their distance, sitting at separate tables throughout the event. Sarah, dressed in a glamorous gold gown, sat at a table behind Simon, who spent the evening engaging with followers on TikTok.

During a TikTok live stream, Simon invited Sarah to greet his viewers. Sarah briefly waved and smiled politely before walking away without further interaction, highlighting the strained dynamics between the two.

The awkward exchange sparked mixed reactions online. Some fans speculated that Simon’s behavior—appearing cheerful on social media—was an attempt to mask his true feelings. They suggested that while Sarah seemed to have moved on, Simon might still be struggling with the breakup, with some labeling his actions as narcissistic.

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Others expressed hope for reconciliation, praying for the couple to mend their differences.

Sarah has confirmed that she has officially left their matrimonial home, describing the move as a step toward peace and happiness. Referring to her decision metaphorically as leaving “Misri” (Egypt), she hinted at escaping an oppressive situation.

In addition, Sarah has called on the Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) to investigate Simon over allegations of domestic violence. She accused him of using his influence to avoid accountability and expressed frustration over the lack of action.

As the couple’s very public fallout continues, it remains unclear how their personal and professional disputes will ultimately be resolved.

Sarah Kabu accuses her estranged husband of domestic violence, files police report [VIDEO]

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Sarah Kabu decided to escalate her marital woes to the authorities as she reported her Simon Kabu of domestic violence. In a recent video shared to social media, she thanked the DCI for engaging her based off her allegations and taking up the investigative mantle.

She accused her husband of being a narcissist by claiming he insisted on them showing the world a happy, united front while she was the victim of domestic violence. All this emanates from a video that was leaked on social media that purportedly showed Sarah kabu threatening a woman with a knife in their matrimonial home.

 

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Simon Kabu is currently in Europe on a trip and their daughter has come out to show her support for him with a rather touching post that celebrated her father – a move that raised eyebrows as the couple have been embroiled in their ongoing tiff for the past week as at the writing of this article.

Sarah Kabu had previously addressed the uproar surrounding a viral video showing her forcibly ejecting a woman from her home, demanding that her husband, Simon Kabu, disclose the identity of the mysterious individual. The Bonfire Adventures Managing Director also revealed that she no longer resides in her matrimonial home, which she likened to “Misri” (Egypt), a symbol of hardship and oppression.

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“Sarah Kabu Apologizes for Backing Infidelity: ‘Please Forgive Me’”

“Sarah Kabu Apologizes for Backing Infidelity: ‘Please Forgive Me'”

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Bonfire Adventures CEO Sarah Kabu has issued an apology for previously advising women to stay in marriages despite infidelity.

In a video statement, Sarah acknowledged the importance of prioritizing mental health and personal well-being, retracting her earlier advice.

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“I want to apologize for telling women to stay in marriages where there is infidelity. Wamama, tafadhali nawaomba mnisamehe. If things aren’t working, it’s better to leave while you still can,” she said. She added, “From today henceforth, if it’s not working, it’s not working—just leave.”

Back in November 2024, during an interview on Art of Living on KTN, Sarah had suggested that women should not end their marriages over cheating.

“But nowadays, I am telling women, actually cheating should not be one of the reasons we leave men or worry about our husbands,” she said, explaining that women should focus on “bigger things” and let men be who they are. She claimed that showing indifference could even make men more concerned.

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The mother of two had also defended men who cheat, urging women to let them “have fun” if their actions were not life-threatening. “I’ve seen a lot of couples separating, and I feel it’s not necessary unless it’s life-threatening. If he’s just having fun, let him be,” Sarah stated.

Speaking on the Hey Girl Podcast with Eve Mungai last month, Sarah shared her belief that men who cheat still deeply love their wives. “Most married men dearly love their wives. If you’re a married woman and he hasn’t chased you away despite cheating, just know he truly loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you,” she remarked.

She further argued that married men often prioritize their wives over side chicks, pointing to politicians as examples. “They don’t leave their wives. They put their wives’ names on their investments, not the side chicks’,” she added.

New Questions Arise as Simon Kabu Reacts to Viral CCTV Video

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A video showing an incident where a woman, believed to be Sarah Kabu, is seen holding a knife and forcibly removing another woman from her home has sparked significant online reactions.

Simon Kabu, CEO of Bonfire Adventures and Sarah’s husband, has responded to the controversy with a detailed statement. However, his response has raised more questions than provided answers.

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In his statement, Simon emphasized that his decision to remain silent shouldn’t be interpreted as an admission of guilt.

“Silence is often the best response, but it can sometimes be misjudged as guilt. This message is for my children, loved ones, fans, and anyone who looks to me for guidance. I share this in good faith to clear the air,” he said.

Kabu clarified that the woman involved in the incident was his nanny, hired through formal channels.

“The woman in the video was hired as a professional nanny by my HR and GM after I provided the job description,” he explained.

He further detailed that the altercation occurred after the nanny had been employed for about a month without any previous issues.

“The incident took place that morning, and the lady was hurt. She reported the matter to Kiambu Police Station, and a case was filed. Some people even tried to label it as attempted murder,” Kabu recounted.

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He mentioned that the situation was eventually resolved, with Sarah Kabu offering an apology.

Kabu also denied rumors of any inappropriate relationship with the nanny or any other woman.

“There are rumors about a woman being pregnant, but let me clarify—no woman, including this one, is carrying my child. Let’s stop tarnishing someone’s name,” he said.

 

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Despite his explanation, many fans continue to question the details of the altercation, including the reasons behind the confrontation, why Sarah Kabu resorted to violence, and who leaked the CCTV footage.

While Simon’s statement aimed to provide clarity, it has instead left fans with more unanswered questions, fueling further speculation about the incident.

Sarah Kabu Pressures Husband to Expose Woman in Viral Video

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Sarah Kabu has addressed the uproar surrounding a viral video showing her forcibly ejecting a woman from her home, demanding that her husband, Simon Kabu, disclose the identity of the mysterious individual. The Bonfire Adventures Managing Director also revealed that she no longer resides in her matrimonial home, which she likened to “Misri” (Egypt), a symbol of hardship and oppression.

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Viral Video Sparks Speculation

The widely circulated footage captured Sarah in a heated altercation, pushing the woman out as Simon intervened. The woman, who remained composed throughout the incident, quickly became the subject of online speculation. Initial claims suggested she was Sarah’s househelp, but Sarah denied this, accusing unnamed parties of orchestrating a smear campaign against her.

In a video statement, Sarah clarified the situation, introduced her two long-serving househelps at her new home in an upscale Nairobi neighborhood, and dismissed claims that the woman in the video worked for her. She used biblical references to describe her departure from her matrimonial home, likening it to leaving “Pharaoh’s house” for a better place.

Demand for Answers

Sarah also raised questions about how the CCTV footage was leaked, pointing fingers at her husband, who she says controls access to the system.
“Even I want to know who leaked it. My husband must tell us who that woman is because he’s the only one with the CCTV password,” she said.

Simon Kabu’s Cryptic Response

Simon has yet to address the controversy directly. Instead, he shared a cryptic social media post featuring heart emojis, leaving followers to speculate about his position on the matter.

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Public Reaction

The incident has reignited debates about the couple’s tumultuous relationship, which has often played out publicly. While some supporters have praised Sarah for demanding accountability, others have criticized the public airing of their personal issues, urging the couple to resolve their differences privately.

As the situation unfolds, attention remains on the Kabus, with many wondering if this controversy will lead to resolution or further strain in their marriage.

Assault, Drama, or Setup? Sarah Kabu Breaks Silence on Viral CCTV Incident

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CCTV footage dated 09/07/2024 shows a woman, allegedly Sarah Kabu, using what appears to be a kitchen knife to forcibly remove another woman from her living room. The video, which quickly went viral, has drawn widespread public attention and speculation, with many assuming the individual in the footage was Kabu’s house help.

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In response, Bonfire Adventures MD Sarah Kabu addressed the allegations through a video on social media. She denied the claims, asserting that the woman in the video was not her house help and accusing critics of orchestrating a smear campaign against her.

“This is my home, and that woman is not my house girl. I won’t hide behind the keyboard to defend myself,” she stated firmly.

Kabu further teased plans to introduce her actual house help to the public, urging her followers to stay tuned for updates.

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The viral video not only thrust Kabu into the spotlight but also prompted her to react swiftly. “Today, I had to come home early because I was trending on Twitter. Someone is claiming to be my house girl and accusing me of assault. I want to set the record straight—this is my home, and the woman in the video is not my house girl. This is a smear campaign, and I won’t shy away from addressing it. Stay tuned because I will introduce my real house girls soon,” she said.

This incident arises amid increasing concerns about violence against women in Kenya, with femicide and other gender-based crimes sparking national debate.

Sarah Kabu: Cheating Men Often Still Love Their Wives

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Sarah Kabu, Managing Director of Bonfire Adventures, has sparked fresh debate on social media with her controversial views on infidelity in marriage.

In a candid discussion on the *Hey Girl* podcast hosted by Eve Mungai, Sarah argued that many men who cheat still deeply love their wives and rarely leave them for mistresses.

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“Most married men genuinely love their wives. If he put a ring on your finger, made vows, and hasn’t chased you away despite cheating, just know he truly loves you and plans to spend his life with you,” she said.

Sarah used examples of politicians entangled in love triangles to illustrate her point, asserting that, despite their affairs, married men prioritize their wives. “They don’t leave their wives, and deep down, they love them. They even register investments under their wives’ names, not the mistresses’,” she added.

When asked about the reasons behind infidelity, Sarah attributed it to curiosity and desire, saying, “They’re just exploring. For some, it’s a fetish—they want to experience something different.”

Her comments follow a previous episode of the podcast where infidelity was also a hot topic. Host Eve Mungai and co-host Liz Jackson challenged Sarah’s views, labeling them outdated.

 

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Eve and Liz highlighted a shift in modern attitudes, emphasizing that today’s women are less likely to tolerate infidelity. They dismissed Sarah’s suggestion that women should endure cheating husbands, arguing that relationships should prioritize happiness and mutual respect.

Eve shared a personal story to underline this shift: “My mom used to say, ‘Just endure a little, stay calm.’ But I’ve helped her see it’s not about enduring—it’s about being happy in marriage.”

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Public Reactions
Sarah’s remarks have ignited a heated debate online. Some agree with her belief that strong marriages can survive infidelity, while others support Eve and Liz’s modern stance, advocating for self-worth and fidelity as cornerstones of a healthy relationship.

Sarah Kabu: Infidelity Shouldn’t Be a Reason to Leave Men

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Sarah Kabu has stepped down from her role as chairperson of the Goat Wives Association after serving a successful five-year term.

In an interview with KTN Home, Sarah explained her decision, saying, “I felt it was time to hand over the leadership to someone else after serving for over five years. Even the presidential term limit lasts five years, and as a president, I believe that’s enough. So, I decided to pass the torch to someone else to take it to the next level.”

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45-year-old Sarah Kabu has sparked curiosity after sharing advice on how to catch a cheating husband

Earlier this year, in February 2024, Sarah participated in the Goat Wife challenge, which sparked a lot of buzz. In a video, she shared a glimpse into her life as a “goat wife,” starting her day by praying for her family, exercising with her husband, and supporting his business. She also mentioned enjoying cooking for him but also appreciated when he occasionally treated her to meals out.

Sarah also made headlines with a TikTok video addressing the issue of husbands bringing their side chicks on family vacations. She explained that the purpose of the video was to advise women, particularly those who may be unaware of such behavior. “I meet women in hotels who suspect their husbands are sneaking off to see someone else,” she said. “I just wanted to offer some advice to women going through similar situations.”

In the interview, Sarah shared her current perspective on relationships, saying, “Cheating should not be the reason we leave men or worry about our husbands. Let’s focus on bigger issues. When you become unbothered, they start to worry about you. Let men be who they were created to be.”

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She added a word of caution, advising women to consider their safety first: “If your life is not in danger, if you’re not under any threat, and he’s just having fun, let him be. Couples are separating unnecessarily these days, and I feel it’s not always needed unless there’s a life-threatening situation.”

45-year-old Sarah Kabu has sparked curiosity after sharing advice on how to catch a cheating husband

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Women in troubled relationships often emphasize how challenging marriage can be, frequently advising others to give up on their partners, families, and everything they’ve worked hard to build. However, some may see this as sound advice, forgetting that these same women rarely follow it themselves—they’d rather stick with the familiar challenges than venture into the unknown.

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Recently, Sarah Kabu has once again stirred up speculation about her marriage to Simon Kabu with her latest post, where she shared tips on how to catch a cheating partner.

In her post, Mrs. Kabu advised “goat wives” to remember that their husbands’ side chicks are often not as far away as they might think. According to her, these young women are usually hidden in a nearby hotel, not far from where the man is staying with his family.

“When they tell you they’re going to a meeting and will be late, just know the side chick is in the next hotel,” the mother of two began, adding, “I have to alert the virtuous women; it is so painful to be loyal to a cheater.”

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Sarah’s post about cheating husbands has raised questions about her relationship with Simon Kabu. The couple has been known to have marital issues, and although they try to keep their problems off social media, Sarah Kabu often ends up sharing hints through her posts.

This latest suggestion comes at a time when Sarah has notably stayed silent, refusing to congratulate Simon Kabu’s firstborn daughter, who recently graduated from university.

Sarah Kabu Reveals Plans Of Getting A Butt Lift Surgery

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The managing director of Bonfire Adventures, Sarah Kabu, has taken offense with those who think she should have Botox.

The 45-year-old businesswoman says that her husband, Simon Kabu, loves her for who she is and that she will soon appear better than all of her critics, who are thus enraged, therefore the taunts are worthless.

Sarah said that she was just getting started in response to the criticism on her TikTok account.

The mother of two reaffirmed that she intended to have a BBL in addition to liposuction, and that she was also considering lightening her skin tone.

All of a sudden, Sarah has decided to accept her destiny as a kidnapped infant! “Am I the first person from Kenya to get Botox? Let’s see how it goes,” Kabu stated

“Then I bleach. Next year liposuction and booty lift will be a must for the people who like to insult me. I will soon look better than you, just like how you always want.

I am tired of being insulted here, but my person is okay with having a Kienyeji original,” the last of her post read.

Kabu is among the numerous female Kenyan celebrities who have undergone surgery to enhance their looks.

Sarah Kabu celebrates Betty Bayo’s husband

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Businesswoman Sarah Kabu commended Betty Bayo for “catching” her husband, referring to him as “Mali Safi.” Sarah may be seen greeting the pair at her office on camera.

“By the way mnapendeza, I think you are a good testimony to single mums and women struggling in marriages that there is still a God of second chances.

Na alikubariki na mali safi.”

What brought him to you? asked Kabu Sarah.

“Hebu tuambie ulitoa wapi, I’m sure kuna watu wengi wanuliza nitapata mtu wapi.”

Bayo clarified that she merely waited for her spouse to approach her and that she was alirudi soko, fearless. She adamantly denied having initiated the approach.

“Once you overcome the fear and say you are going out, you trust God.”

“Congrats, hapo Mungu alikukumbuka Ukiwa na mali safi kama hii na hizi streets za Kenya zimejaa tufisilet hauogopi?” Mrs Kabu asked.

“Hapana, mtu wa kuenda ni wa kuenda hata sura mbaya wanaendanga tu.”

Sarah Kabu gets Botox done

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Entrepreneur Sarah Kabu received Botox injections at a well-known Nairobi beauty clinic. According to the self-described head lady of goat wives in Kenya, the shots didn’t hurt.
“It wasn’t painful, but I was afraid. It hurts around a two out of ten.” Botox injections are used to reduce facial wrinkles.

Botox can cause adverse effects such as headache, flu, edema, soreness, infections, dry eyes, and others, even though it helps to diminish facial muscles and wrinkles.
Sarah turned forty-five in July, and she was eager to give a speech at her celebration.

“I wasn’t too planning to do a party this year but as you know my friends, they said no way if we are not traveling somewhere, then definitely we can’t just sit and it’s your birthday. So I had no choice but to oblige.

First I would like to say thank you so much to the organizers of this party, they know themselves, these people from last month, they have not been sleeping they were saying that they need to know how are we celebrating your birthday this year.”

Sarah Kabu Apologizes To Betty Kyallo Over ‘Jealous Stare’

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The Kabus have recently been trending after their attendance of Akothee’s star-studded wedding over the weekend.

Sarah Kabu was specifically on the spotlight after her ‘jealous’ look towards Betty Kyallo.

Sarah Kabu was spotted staring at Betty Kyallo in a suggestive manner after she was having a chit chat with Simon Kabu.

The stare has since been translated by netizens as jealousy & insecurity.

But Sarah Kabu has refuted the claims. She states that her mind wasn’t actually thinking about them.

She questioned why she’s trending over the latter, and went ahead to send a heartfelt apology to Betty Kyallo.

“Wueeh i don’t understand why I’m trending… my mind was far hata hio jicho mbaya sikumbuki…pole sana @bettymuteikyallo my mind ilikua mbali.”

Sarah Kabu also continued to clap back at fans who denigrated her outfit for Akothee’s wedding;

“Halafu wedding ya madam boss @akotheekenya mnataka tuvae maxi ama jeans? My husband was ok with the long slit so ndigithiai ngoma.”

Sarah Kabu praises Akothee for being an independent single mother

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Sarah Kabu is proud to see Akothee living life to the fullest and unlike other single mums who are yet to get to the singer,s level….. Mrs Kabu thinks Akothee is an example every other woman out here should try to learn a thing or two from.

Mrs Sarah Kabu

The Bonfire CEO said this on a new post shared on her page where she praised Akothee for picknicing on her owned backyard lawn with bae; something she is sure many women cannot relate to or might never relate with.

Although this is the first time we’re seeing Sarah Kabu take interest in the life of Akothee…truth is we don’t know whether this is how a new friendship will be born or if Sarah Kabu is admiring life as a single mum…maybe? Anyway she wrote;

Akothee with lover

Single ladies does this picture speak volumes to you? Yaani Akothee is picnicking with new mzungu boyfriend on her backyard lawns.

Work for your own

This being a post directed at single ladies looking for an easy way out of poverty…Mrs Kabu discouraged them on depending on Sponyo’s yet they can earn their own

Ladies work hard sio lazima uenjoy such stuff via sponyo usiteseke kwa mapenzi

Awesome advise right? But again Akothee has been in this game for years……and I mean years…..which explains why she can picknic in her backyard….while the rest of the other single mums can only afford apartments with small balconies….which are specifically for storing mitungi ya maji.

Mother and daughter? Sarah Kabu introduces her grown niece, netizens question uncanny resemblance between the two

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Sarah Kabu recently unveiled a photo with her niece posted on her social media pages to celebrate the 20 thing year old lady for graduating with a degree in Statics. Big win for the lady and her family which explains why Sarah Kabu couldn’t contain herself after the graduation.

As seen on the caption, Sarah Kabu described her niece Faith a jury as a hardworking and virtuous woman mentored by both her and Sarah Kabu’s mum. We also understand Sarah’s intentions for sharing the post is to help her niece land a scholarships for masters degree abroad in Data science and analytics – hence the reason she asked anyone with connections to come through for Faith.

Sarah Kabu introduces niece, Faith

Congratulations ???? ???? ???? to my niece @njiru_faithk for your hard work in school as an A material. We are so proud of you for graduating with a degree in statistics ???? ???? ❤️ they say that your network is your networth #teamsarahkabu i know most of you are bossladies somewhere please connect her with a job. Shes a virtuous girl mentored by me and my mum so she won’t disappoint.

Sarah Kabu’s resemblance with niece raising eyebrows

Okay, now that Sarah Kabu avoided mentioning anything about the girls parents – netizens started linking her to the young lady thanks to their striking resemblance.

Well, most mentioned that the girl looks like a mini Sarah Kabu…so could it be that…you know Simon Kabu has a 24 year old, so could Sarah also have an unknown child?

But again, do you really think she’d hide a child she had in her youth? Okay, Simon Kabu did (kinda) until Sarah spilled the tea…but would Sarah pull the same stunt? Maybe but then again – wouldn’t it be silly to introduce her as a niece?

Anyway sharing more information on Faith, Mrs Kabu went on to write;

shes starting oracle systems short course immediately to perfecther skills in the research and data management in the it world. In the meantime anyone with connections za scholarships for masters degree abroad in Data science and analytics please connect me. ???? she’s currently interning @bonfireadventures and performing well.

Saying they could be mother and daughter sounds a-bit far fetched but below are some of comments left by fans after realizing how much Sarah Kabu and her niece look alike.


Sarah Kabu demands apology from Simon Kabu’s 24 year old daughter

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Bonfire Adventures CEO Sarah Kabu has come out to reveal that there are still some unresolved issues between her and hubby Simon Kabu. Well, this is after their online ‘breakup’ that saw Sarah Kabu spill unknown details about her family’s private life.

We learnt about Simon Kabu having kids with other baby mamas on the side and of course about his first born daughter – Maureen from his first relationship.

The same Maureen Kabu has however become a thorn in Sarah’s flesh – which brings us to Mrs Kabu’s latest statements about her step daughter. Speaking to Mpasho, Sarah revealed her reason for exposing hubby, Simon Kabu is because he took the kids without her consent; a move that left her feeling like a crazy woman. She said;

I was trending because I was defending my children I feel they are very precious and nobody should pull such a string just because you have some rights.

Adding;

I had never imagined that someone can come pick my kids and go with them without my permission. When it happened I became like that chicken who defends her chicks.

Sarah Kabu still beefing with step daughter

On the same interview – the mother of 2 went on to add that the issue between her, Simon Kabu and his step daughter are yet to resolved.

Simon Kabu’s eldest daughter

This is because she still awaits for Simon Kabu’s daughter to issue an apology for taking part in ‘kidnapping’ of her kids back in March.

Everything has not been ironed out since I have not received an apology from the lady and there are still other dramas happening.

Well – I guess each family has a share of its own drama and the Kabu’s are still figuring there’s out.

Sarah Kabu entertains husband by shaking what her mama gave her & he loved it! (video)

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Sarah Kabu doesn’t look like the type that clubs or rather – the type that knows how to have fun without limits. Judging from her appearance – let’s just say she looks like the perfect wife material and a good mum to her kids.

Don’t get me wrong – these qualities are perfect – perfect in that she has cards everyman (even those with slay queen wives) admire and secretly wish their wives had.

Sarah with Simon Kabu

However after her online ‘breakup’ with husband Simon Kabu – the mum of two seems to have changed in a way. Lately she’s been parading her ‘wild side’ on social media trying to prove home much she and husband, love each other.

Grinds on husbae

Well, if you think we’re just story telling – wait until you watch her latest video where she grinds and bumps on her husband, Simon Kabu while dancing.

Tbt: Simon Kabu with wife, Sarah Kabu

As seen on the video the mother of two goes on to entertain a few of their friends by dancing with husband, Simon who also seemed to  enjoy his wife’s new side.

Fans on the other hand could not keep calm as they praised the two for making their marriage work- even after the whole online breakup. Some fans however feel that they can no longer trust these two since they still have unresolved family issues – and sooner or later – blogs hell might just break loose.

Anyway watch the viral entertaining video below.

Sarah Kabu shares update on her marriage, flaunts special romantic surprise from hubby Simon Kabu (Video)

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A few weeks back Bonfire adventures owner Sarah Kabu opened up about her marital woes leaving many on social media shocked. Well, this is mainly because many thought her marriage to Mr Kabu was perfect especially after she nicknamed herself, goat wife.

However after her expose, we can now say social media life will always be fake. Away from that…. luckily for the Kabus, they managed to work things out and have gone back to their happy life.

To prove that her marriage is currently at a good place, Sarah Kabu this past weekend shared a post describing her current marriage situation saying;

True love prevails for the Kabus, couple steps out together for the first time after reconciling (Photos)

Happiness is having a husband who is also your best friend.

Vacation in Seychelles

Well, whether you believe it or not – Sarah now feels that Kabu is her best friend and if I am not wrong – wouldn’t want to do life with anyone else but her man, Simon Kabu.

Sarah Kabu Has Some Great Advice On Marriage

The mother of two went on to share yet another post where she praised her husband for being the king of surprises. On the post Mrs Kabu is seen swimming in an infinity pool with a breakfast tray floating right in front of her.

To caption the post, she wrote;

Sarah Kabu vacationing in Seychelles with hubby, Simon Kabu

The king of surprises himself …. My dear, my partner, My love.. @kabusimon did this for me. I’m over the moon. It’s the small things that matters. I only see this on the Instagram and to my surprise he did this for me

With such treatment, of course Sarah Kabu had to go back to her first and only love, Mr Kabu.

True love prevails for the Kabus, couple steps out together for the first time after reconciling (Photos)

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About a week ago Sarah Kabu happened to disclose unknown details about her marriage to Simon Kabu, saying their relationship was toxic and full of drama.

Of course this came as a big surprise considering how much they were admired by their fans – who for a minute assumed they’re perfect. But as the story goes – not all that glitters is gold.

Ms Sarah Kabu

Also read: Sarah Kabu makes u turn on dumping Simon Kabu, instead begs him for forgiveness

Anyway barely a month after their family drama emerged online – the Kabus are already fixing their relationship on social media to avoid long term effects. From what we have seen so far is that things are working for the two and of course – what’s meant to be will be!

First vacation after breakup

Although this is not the first time they’re having marital issues – it’s however the time they’ve gone public about it. Messy.

This is because in the heat of moment Sarah Kabu got to exposè her husband in ways we never imagined. Fans learnt about his cheating ways, his baby mamas and the fact that she owns the Bonfire adventures – which has the baby mamas thinking they have a right to.

Also read: Ouch! Sarah Kabu responds to Ben 10’s offering Love&Affection in her DM

Anyway enough of that. Well, barely a week after breaking up and reconsiling, the Kabu’s  are already entertaining fans with stunning photos taken from recent vacation; and from where I stand, I believe it’s only fair to say Kabu finally has his house in order!

While a few feel reconciling wasn’t the best idea for Sarah Kabu (considering her melt down) there are those who believe a little time and space is exactly what their relationship needed – that is judging from how happy they now appear to be.

Sarah Kabu makes u turn on dumping Simon Kabu, instead begs him for forgiveness

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Sarah Kabu isn’t sure of what she wants. Actually I feel that she still has so much going on in her head, that she’s ready to settle for any less dramatic solution- just to have a peaceful environment.

Barely 48 hours after her candid interview with Christina Lewis The Voice Of East Africa, Sarah Kabu now says she wants to work things between her and hubby, Simon Kabu. This however comes at a time when Sarah had already made it known, she’s done and dusted from her marriage which was full of issues.

Sarah Kabu

Also read: Ouch! Sarah Kabu responds to Ben 10’s offering Love&Affection in her DM

Judging from what she said, it’s obvious to see there is struggle of power in terms of property ownership. This is mainly because Simon Kabu already has two grown kids from previous relationships – and may be after their dad’s wealth – which Sarah says is her sweat.

You try to build your empire and then the money goes to support his blood. To me, they are not part of me. There is nothing we can do about it. I take it as a charity project.

Adding;

It has not been a big deal since I have been on the journey by even guiding him to some of the good schools he can take them. But for me, he should carry his own cross.

Sarah Kabu begs for forgiveness

Just by reading what she said about Kabu’s other kids can tell you the kind of woman Sarah Kabu is; and no, no one is forcing them on her but come on…there’s enough to go around for the 4 kids, no?

Also read: Sarah Kabu admits slay queens gave her sleepless nights

Anyway being in Simon Kabu’s shoes, of course you don’t expect the guy to tarnish his wife’s image by telling his side of story; but again with age comes wisdom – which Simon portrayed well.

With the Kabu drama coming to an end, Sarah has issued apology to husband saying;

Sorry, my fam. When I was in distress I said things that I shouldn’t have said online and thus misleading. Life is a lesson and we learn every day. Forgive me, Simon. Let’s sort our issues off-line. All is well. Please keep us in prayers #MarriageWorks.

Sarah Kabu admits slay queens gave her sleepless nights

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A lot has been said about the Kabu’s and their alleged failed marriage – but through it all Simon Kabu has tried maintains his cool, insisting all is well. His wife, Sarah Kabu on the other hand seems to have a different tale about her Union to Kabu and insists it’s time to part ways.

Actually, she’s been wanting out since January 2022 – but claims Simon wasn’t having it.

Sarah Kabu reveals she is done with her marriage

The Bonfire adventures owner opened up about this during recent interview with Tina Lewis of Voice of East Africa; revealing that their marital woes began in 2003 but after 10 years of giving the marriage her best years, the solution is to put it all to an end.

Judging from the interview and what was said – I really don’t think there was any new information offered, that hasn’t been reported by bloggers yet.

However, we also can’t forget this is a personal issue between man and wife – meaning there are things, the public still don’t know about two.

Sarah hints possibility of hubby involved with Slay Queens

Some of the things fans may not be aware of include Simon Kabu’s two baby mamas who Sarah says have tried interfering with her family.

The bonfire adventures CEO even mentioned how one of the dramatic baby mamas tried forcing her child to move into Sarah home; simply because she wanted him to benefit like the two younger kids.

Sarah&Simon Kabu

The other issue includes slay queens (which she didn’t really say much about) but judging from her statement;

I would like to love in a country without slay queens, they can give you sleepless nights.

Well – like I said Sarah Kabu didn’t say much about this young slay queens; but the fact that she knows that they can give you sleepless nights proves she’s speaking from experience. But what’s done is done, let’s move on!

Also, from the video – it’s evident to tell that Sarah Kabu isn’t okay. Her struggle with mental health is clearly shouting with the facial expressions.