Vera vs Amber Ray: The most childish beef we’ve ever seen

Vera Sidika and Amber Ray are currently embroiled in a beef that can only truly be described by one word: childish. We cannot even believe just how vicious the matter has become and we cannot believe how petty both parties are being.

To give you some exposition, allow us to start by saying that this beef is all about a gender reveal party… A goddamn gender reveal party has escalated into a war of words that is epic in its pettiness. Both socialites accuse each other of stealing the idea from the other.

Vera Sidika vows to outdo Amber Ray’s gender reveal party

Amber Ray was the first to host her gender reveal party in a big way. It featured a billboard announcing the fact aswell as her and her fiance, Kennedy Rapudo enjoying a helicopter ride to the venue. And that’s when the real splendour begun as the venue was expensively decorated and the menu was fit for kings.

Vera Sidika clearly felt some type of way because she spoke about her displeasure to anyone who would listen. She felt as if her ideas were plagiarized and she was not happy about the fact, calling out her rival and accusing her of being a snake who hid their intent behind the back of a mutual friend who has since passed on.

Vera Sidika picking beef with Amber Ray over baby shower is just juvenile

Since then, they have been airing each other’s dirty linen in public with Vera Shikwekwe Sidika calling out Amber Ray for being a home wrecker and husband snatcher while the latter is calling out the former for having a useless husband who does nothing but mooch of her.

Amber with Bae, Rapudo

What’s interesting is that in the public’s eyes, these two women are the same animal and the same beast; both are women of ill-repute who have used their bodies to get to their wealth and public notoriety. So many are watching out of morbid curiosity to see what the two will say next and just how low they’ll stoop to outdo each other.


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Andrew Kibe vs Amber Ray: Her simp husband doesn’t make her high value woman

Amber Ray is the closest thing we have in Kenya to Ciara. And Andrew Kibe seems to have noticed but even if he hasn’t, there, I said what needed to be said. The comparison is due to the fact that like Ciara, she has bounced around from the lap of one man to the next and she ended up a baby mama for the worst of the lot.


And just like the American singer, she has managed to find a high networth simp who has pedestalized her and is willing to give her the world. Essentially, they won the lottery of life! But rather than play their position, they both want to continue courting attention and validation on social media.

Andrew Kibe is also right in his assessment that a woman who is in love with a man won’t think twice to bear his children. And this explains why she never conceived for any of her previous men including Zaheer Jhanda. And Amber Ray knows its true. So why then is she protesting?


In her response, she chose to make this about her family as if Kifee has insulted it. No, she is the lightning rod for derision and unfortunately, that spills over to her children. That is why it is said that Caesar’s wife must be above reproach.

Amber Ray

The truth is, for a long time Amber Ray would court controversy and would post salacious content of herself with her different men online. Now that she is with a man from the corporate spare, she has realised she needs to switch up her image and become a “family woman” but it is now too little too late.


Kennedy Rapudo doesn’t lend his status to her elevating her because he is not the type of man men would aspire to be like outside of his career. He is a simp with money and if you want a parallel, just look to Ciara’s husband Russell Wilson. Absolutely no one respects him off the field.

Amber Ray

It was Amber Ray that exposed her eldest son, Gavin to the nonsense of having his mother’s nudes online. Kibe pointing out the fact that she is the worst type of woman for any man to select for the mother of his children isn’t wrong, and she needs to take accountability for that fact.


Her simp cannot make her a high value woman because he cannot re-write history and even though he would be butthurt to be reminded that his wife is a heaux, he cannot argue with the facts. And trust me, he wouldn’t want his uncles to get a hold of any of her photos. Surely, is that the type of woman any man with ambition would want by his side? Is this the type of wife who makes her husband look good in front of society?

Amber Ray

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Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo spent millions on gender reveal to save relationship

Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo spent millions on the gender reveal party in a bid to save their marriage and as can be expected things will end horribly because any man who has to lead with his wallet should not complain when he ends up with a gold digger.

The couple has been having a lot of problems within their marriage for the past few days and weeks so it baffles me why they decided that rather than take the time to fast deal with whatever issues they have they decided to Splash money on hiring a helicopter and a venue and a DJ and everything else that was involved in their gender reveal party.

Will Amber Ray & Rapudo’s Relationship Solidify After Their Gender Reveal?

Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo remind me of the couples who are often told of Us warnings where you hear someone say that one shouldn’t just simply spend so much money on their wedding while forgetting that the marriage is what is important. You know how your mother has probably mentioned a couple that spent millions on their wedding, ended up saddled with debt, and broke up months later with the divorce quickly following?

Amber Ray


I’m not presuming to know what the couple has in terms of finances nor am I a pocket watcher (that’s not entirely true) but to go from fighting publicly on social media to expressing love for each other after millions have been spent his brother telling.

Vera Sidika picking beef with Amber Ray over baby shower is just juvenile

If I were Kennedy Rapudo I’d be very concerned about my woman’s ability to follow me beyond the finances I have because the unfortunate truth is It’s beginning to sound like she does not have a burning genuine desire for him but rather for his resources. He has been speaking on social media as if he’s aware of this fact and it does not scare him but it really should.


Amber Ray might think that she wants his money and that is enough for them to sustain their relationship but what happens when she’s grown accustomed to that type of lifestyle? What happens after she’s accustomed to the glittering toilet seat?

Also, Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo need to be very careful to ensure that this very opulent celebration of their child to be should you turn into a point of resentment for either one of them in future.

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Kennedy Rapudo is now begging Amber Ray to take him back

Kennedy Rapudo is one hell of an emotional man. Yesterday after being bombarded by questions about why he and his fiancee Amber Ray had deleted each other’s photos, he decided to post an emotional video declaring their breakup.

Kennedy Rapudo & Amber Ray Are Just Bored With Each Other

So it’s safe to say that he’s one of those men who run with the emotional vomit onto social media. Beyond that another thing that we noticed is just how much of a punky is when he popped back onto his social media page to declare that so he owes no one an apology, he was going to clarify that he and his woman was simply traversing the ups and downs that come with relationships.

One has to wonder just how emotion-driven here if he knows he is in a temporary position yet his actions are in the complete extreme of the spectrum. He knows he and his fiancee are expecting a child together and he understands that this current teeth is a temporary problem yet he runs to social media to delete all of her photos then acts upset that his fans and bloggers have noticed and are asking questions.

We were right about Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray

Buddy needs to be crowded because in any relationship the money is meant to be the rock: Stoic. Kennedy Rapudo has not simply come out to explain the situation but this is his attempt at winning back his lady-love by begging for attention after she announced that she is more than capable and willing to raise their child alone.

And Amber Ray isn’t joking about because she already has the experience of being a single mother. And this is also going to serve as a reminder to men as to why making honest women of single mothers is very difficult; we often seek out the exit at the first sign of trouble waters.

We Saw It Coming- Kennedy Rapudo & Amber Ray Hint On Break-Up

If there is a lesson for Kennedy Rapudo to learn from all this it would be that he needs to keep his emotions away from social media which means that whenever he has a problem he needs to fast run to his friends and seek advice and consolation from them before making rash decisions.

Amber Ray

That’s said and done I do believe that they had broken up but he is a waiver attempting to claw his way back into Amber Ray’s life and his post is meant to be his attempt at showing his willingness to come to the table and compromise or should I say bend over backwards and take whatever she’s shoving.

Kennedy Rapudo needs to protect his daughter from Amber Rayand the limelight

And for his sake, I hope it works because Lord Knows there is a long line of men who are getting ready to hit him over the head for the mistakes that he has made and if this is the eventuality then Kennedy Rapudo needs to accept his lot and do better next time around.

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We were right about Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray

Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray have given me a blast from the past and reminded me of my love for hip-hop. If there’s a hip-hop line that it comes from Snoop Dogg and says you can’t make a heaux a housewife.

We Saw It Coming- Kennedy Rapudo & Amber Ray Hint On Break-Up

In this case both of them would be the heaux! Because on his end, he seems to have a history of not being a responsible father if any of the ramblings we had on social media to be believed. Everything about is already well-documented including the allegations she was an actual pro…

Amber Ray

Anyone with half a functioning brain could look at this couple and immediately see that neither Amber Ray nor Kennedy Rapudo are the type of people anyone should contemplate settling down with much less the two of them are contemplating settling down with each other.

Kennedy Rapudo Should Have Kept His Relationship With Amber Ray Out Of Social Media

However, there was a slight complication that arose; she quickly realised she was pregnant by him. This followed a rather short dating period that felt like more of a stage-managed stunt than real love and I recall being called out for being a hater when I pointed this out.

Amber Ray

The truth is, Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray are the type of individuals who should remain single because they have not worked at fixing the problems at the core of their being. We are just very fortunate that in this one occasion they wasted each other’s lives.

Kennedy Rapudo needs to protect his daughter from Amber Rayand the limelight

And once again we are forced to see that we are saddened by the fact that we were right. However, I wouldn’t be surprised to find out that all this was merely a publicity stunt because I wouldn’t put such things be on them. These two slime buckets at the type to do anything in pursuit of clout.

Amber Ray engaged

My thoughts now drift towards their unborn child and the type of damage Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray have visited to their already existing children. This is yet another great reminder of why one should not try and settle down with a career single mother nor an infamous deadbeat father and why single mothers need to tread carefully when allowing there children to be exposed to a celebrity co-parent’s lifestyle.

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We Saw It Coming- Kennedy Rapudo & Amber Ray Hint On Break-Up

By now, we won’t be flabbergasted if Amber Ray breaks up with flashy businessman Kennedy Rapudo. We’re used to the fact that Amber just can’t settle with one man for long. And this has manifested itself over & over.

Socialite Amber Ray and her boyfriend Kennedy Rapudo might no longer be together. On social media, the two lovebirds have recently unfollowed each other;  hinting trouble in paradise.

A cross-check on Amber Ray’s social media shows that she has gone ahead to delete photos of her in tandem with Rapudo.

The two lovebirds are already expecting a baby together as Amber is heavily pregnant. Adding salt to injury, the two were already engaged late last year; and were ready to do their wedding.

In a video shared by Amber Ray on Instagram, the proposal took place at a beachfront and had a simple yet elegant presentation.

There was a red carpet and lit lamps and candles on the sides leading to an intimate set up where Rapudo could be seen going down on one knee and talking to her fiancée, seemingly asking her to be his wife.

Amber Ray, Kennedy Rapudo officially engaged - The Standard Entertainment

Dazzled in a red dress, Amber Ray looked surprised by Rapudo’s gesture before agreeing to marry the businessman.

Amber Ray and Rapudo have very different personalities. While Rapudo tends to fancy a private & low-key love life, Amber does the opposite. These are among their differences that were imminent to cause their break-up. Amber should have probably opted for a celebrity just like her.

The reason for their break-up is yet to be confirmed.

Kennedy Rapudo needs to protect his daughter from Amber Rayand the limelight

Kennedy Rapudo decided to make an honest woman of Amber Ray after a year of dating and as a result of this the two have decided to blend their families as best they can. That means that her son Gavin we’ll be living in the same house as he and when he has his daughter over she too will be part of the family.

Kennedy Rapudo needs to stop defending his rich lifestyle

This comes with some rather unique challenges. That introduces you to the concept of the Cinderella Effect which is a complex way of saying that more often than not girls are endangered by stepfathers and step-siblings who might have predatorial inclinations but I will assume that that is not the case for the sake of argument and because we have not seen anything to indicate the contrary.


So we are going to focus on Kennedy being able to protect his daughter from Amber Ray’s fame and the subsequent clout chasing that comes as an attempt to maintain said fame.

Kennedy Rapudo has made single mothers and trollops delusional

What I mean by that is the fact that I noted with some concern that whenever they were together in a bid to show just how well their families have gelled Faith Makau (that’s Amber Ray’s real name) would constantly have her phone camera in the young girl’s face trying perhaps to capture every moment they shared.


While this might be innocent there are certain ramifications that could come of it such as exposing her to Amber’s toxic fandom and the haters. This could also expose her to her peers and friends who might begin bullying her.

Kennedy Rapudo Did What Jimal Could Not

Add to this the fact that such a situation is doubtless a strenuous one as we have a young girl thrust into the limelight without the oversight or protection of her mother regardless of whether or not she is an introvert, regardless of whether or not he wants to court fame and you can see where a problem might develop.

Amber with Bae, Rapudo

Studies have shown the adverse effect social media, especially Instagram and Snapchat have on young girls. No, really it affects all teenagers but is particularly advice to young girls and you can understand why caution needs to be exercised.

Amber Ray and kennedy Rapudo: Showing us how blended families work

Because I’m like our impending stepbrother, Gavin who has been in the limelight since he was much younger as his mother would routinely court fame and use him as a prop, in the case of Kennedy Rapudo’s daughter this is not the case as she had led a private simple life prior to all this.

Amber Ray

So again I must caution about how she is handled around her new stepmother. Also, imagine what the mother would be feeling if she was not consulted. Picture if you will that kind of storm she would kick up in a bid to protect her daughter and just how much it can strain Kennedy Rapudo’s relationship with his daughter.

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Why we need to defeat the growing single mother epidemic

When you listen to your favourite celebrities, women such as Carol Sonnie, Maureen Waititu, Akothee, tiffany Muikamba and the rest of them, you’d be led to believe that single motherhood is not only heroic but is also easy.

Reality of single motherhood dawns on young Tiffany Muikamba, she calls out deadbeat baby daddy – Bensoul

And when Father’s Day comes around a lot of celebrities celebrate their single mothers who raise them by taking on both the role of mother and father. The same happens on Mother’s Day, Women’s Day, hell even on Men’s Day. And we are led to believe that there is no nobler calling than that of being a single mother.

Carol Sonnie baby bump

But all of that is a trap. All of that is a lack of accountability and the resultant delusion meant to make single mothers feel good about their circumstances and also lower other women into the trap single motherhood. This is not to absolve the useless bums who get themselves caught up in situations where they either get baby trapped or are so reckless they have created multiple single mothers.

Akothee is proof enough why men should steer clear of single mothers

But when we go by concepts created by natural sciences such as Brifaults Law, we begin to understand that it is women and not men who are responsible for the creation of children as they select the men with whom to procreate with. If a woman does not use a man then he will not be able to procreate. And our history as a species proves this to be true given that in the past, for every one man that procreated, 17 women did so. Or to put it another way, for every 17 women who got to donate their genetics to humanity’s gene pool, only one man got the same opportunity.

There is clear evidence that single mothers get to choose the Men They procreated with and they are selecting the worst possible man to become fathers. They are selecting the “bad boys”: the irresponsible and immature men to procreate with.

Carol Sonnie’s revelation that single motherhood is tough is hilarious!

And for us to counter this speed of single motherhood we need to return back to the days when a woman would refuse to carry a child for any man who did not marry her. Marry before you carry.

And there are a lot of good reasons why we need to put a stop to the increasing numbers of single mothers. The statistics of single mother led households tell a rather damning tale. One that we should be very terrified of especially when we have situations of single mothers raising sons. When it comes to single mothers raising daughters we largely have to fear the fact that single mothers raise single mothers. Women who even though they might get married and up ruining their families by walking away when things get tough.

Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother there is

Of course that’s not to say that a woman should stay when her husband is abusive. And the fact that I have to clarify this in such autistic detail tells you that I am aware that feminists are waiting to twist my words to meet their ends.

But why is single motherhood the bane of any civilization’s existence? Why are my family against single motherhood? Let’s look at the statistics which will prove to you beyond the shadow of a doubt why we need to completely destroy single motherhood and return to nuclear families or even polygamous families before it gets too late.

Why Ms Morgan and other single mothers deserve no sympathy

90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, and teenage drug abusers are from single-mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households
80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes

Yet another study I found revealed the following:

Children brought up in single-mother homes are:

  • 5 times more likely to commit suicide,
  • 9 times more likely to drop out of high school,
  • 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances,
  • 14 times more likely to commit rape,
  • 20 times more likely to end up in prison,
  • 32 times more likely to run away from home.

And again because I know the feminist witch coven is waiting to swoop in and misinterpret what I am trying to communicate, I need to clarify with autistic detail that I am not saying all the children born of and raised by single mothers are destined to become criminals vagabonds and wastrels. What I am however saying and what science is backing up is the fact that it is a herculean task to raise children who become successful balance adults as a single-mother. For the sake of our society, we need to return back to our traditional values before it’s too late.

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Why Kamene Goro is excited about Amber Ray’s happily ever after

Kamene Goro needs to start planning for kids

I said the next logical step because even though this is a move only a fool would deign to do, he clearly announced their engagement and rushed to meet her parents because they knew they were expecting a baby.

Kamene Goro

But back to the lecture at hand; Kamene Goro is ecstatic about seeing a former trollop get set into the family way because this gives other city girl such as her and the various feminist hope that they too will meet their Prince Charming.

We are happy for Kamene Goro and DJ Bonez BUT…

But they don’t seem to understand is the fact that this is an outlier incident in which a simp has met a rumoured former Scarlet lady, who is still attractive, and even though her previous relationships were all dumpster fires, he decided to get down on one knee and make an honest woman of her.

Rapudo proposes to Amber Ray

Kamene Goro sees herself in this situation. The projection is not born of a similarity in circumstances dealing with rumoured heaux activities, but rather in the mirroring of circumstances regarding failed marriages, obscenely high body count as well as a longing for the fairy tale ending.

Kamene Goro proves once again that Kenyan celebrities give terrible advice

A lot of women are projecting onto Amber’s situation because they too are praying for miraculous happy ending. Because conventional Wisdom tells you that no self-respecting or a man of high value would ever look at a woman such as Amber and see a wife in her.

Amber Ray

Kamene Goro is wishing upon a shooting star that if this particular trollop can have a happy ending then perhaps she to will. This is also proof of an age-old: Starting a family is part of the metric of success with which women used to gauge their lives and though “girl bosses” and feminists would argue otherwise there is a sense of contentment borne of this fact.

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Body count: Amber Ray and her ex remind us why a woman’s history is important

Amber Ray and her beau have called it quits -again. Same script, different cast. And as always, she is already back on the streets looking for a new victim to love and scam in what is actually one of the world’s most cynical scams: playing with people’s emotions. And we will be here for the latest update to her body count chronicles.

Amber Ray’s Ex-Boyfriend Reveals What Led To Their Break-Up

But as we continue to laugh at the tragic comedy that is her love life, we have to pause and see whether there are lessons for us to take away from her latest relationship with a Sierra Leonean man (basketball athlete) who goes by the name Kabba. And we glean this from one of the comments he made to SPM Buzz when he said,

“I still love her but everyone has moved on. I did not take time to know who Amber Ray was. She was always telling me not to listen to what I hear about her or read about her.”

This is something that one would think is common sense but you would be surprised just how many men are willing to ignore this instinctive knowledge or worse still, sacrifice it just so they can get into m’lady’s pantaloons. And it is worse when she is a celebrity or someone who they think is beautiful.

Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother there is

It is for this reason that all of Amber Ray’s exes would sing the same song and gnash their teeth for the same reason: they chose to ignore the wisdom in finding out about her past. You see, whereas women are concerned about a man’s future (for provisionary purposes), men need to be concerned about her past because it would allow you to know whether or not to take the relationship seriously.

Does her body count read like something out of a 15-a-side rugby team lineup complete with the coaching staff, reserves and subs? Then you, my friend, are in for a headache if you decide to get serious with her. You would be best advised to simply smash and dash. What I mean by that is that you would need to accept that a woman who has run around town twice and got the addresses in her little black book, a woman who is familiar with how the bedposts in every bachelor (and married man’s) bedroom is not a great candidate for wifing up.

“I make my money off men” Amber Ray takes pride in quick and easy hustle

I mean, when we look at Amber Ray, this is made abundantly clear when you realise she destroyed her first “husband’s” house and home in the form of Zaheer Jhanda, then there were other men who used her to flavour their week, then there was Jimal Roho Safi whose home was left a wreck after her hurricane blew through.

A woman’s past is a great indicator of whether or not she can pair bond. That is, for a bond in a healthy relationship pair and our girl has shown time and again that she cannot but that won’t stop a simp or two from thinking he is the one to save her. “She might have had many, but I will be her last” type of simpleton. A woman’s past also tells you about the type of men she finds truly scintillating so you don’t find yourself being the square trying to fit into a round hole.

Amber Ray Reveals What’s Blocking Her From Having A 2nd Child (Screenshot)

So what should Amber Ray do? Well, nothing. She is living her life and should continue enjoying it. Afterall, Kenyan men are hopeless romantics and some fool is bound to pop up and try to make an honest woman of her. If that doesn’t happen then she is looking at a long, lonely life with her peak far behind her as she ages and her beauty fades.

Amber Ray

But if you want to enjoy her company as a man with more than porridge between his ears, then by all means, keep reminding yourself that this is he pinnacle of what she has to offer -a fun time. It will be shortlived and it will be a wild ride but do not commit to her. Get your rocks off and keep it moving. Her past has already informed you about what to expect.

In Amber Ray’s shadow: Jimal Roho Safi is a fool if he thinks we will pity him

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For once Oga Obinna gives credible relationship advice

Oga Obinna isn’t the type of person I would normally recommend for relationship advice given just how much his personal history is littered with garbage relationship of which he is often the cause of the issues.

But he recently gave Kennedy Rapudo some phenomenal advice with regards to his engagement and relationship to Amber Ray advice that is so sound that I actually not only second it but endorse wholeheartedly.

But before we get into that let’s do a quick recap of just who Kennedy rapido is and the nature of his relationship with Faith Makau.

And right off the bat I can safely say it isn’t the type of relationship anyone would want their son or brother to get involved in because this is a man who has built himself from the Ground Up and is currently enjoying a successful career who has decided to wife up not only a single mother but one who has been rumoured to have engaged in sex work in the distant past and has been known to have some of the most important types of relationships in the recent past. Case in point? Jimal Roho Safi.

Indeed she isn’t the type of woman one would proudly take home to their mother and expect marital blessings from her.

And this is precisely why do Oga Obinna’s marital advice to the groom in waiting was sound.

Rapudo proposes to Amber Ray

During his radio show on kiss FM breakfast he was having a conversation with his co-host Chito Ndlovu and he said Ken needs to stop investing more of himself into the relationship than Amber does.

The average vapid, rabid feminist was offended by this adviser weather upon closer scrutiny you can appreciate the advice for the genius it is. It’s not that Obinna is advising that the relationship should be neglected but rather he’s advising that Kennedy needs to focus on his own mission; continue to build himself up as a man of value and that is what we keep his bride to be around.

Amber with Bae, Rapudo

After all whoever is more invested in a relationship than their partner is often on the weaker footing. And we already know just how much of a man-eater the bride to be is.


In a nutshell what will Obinna is saying, is that Ken needs to continue focusing on himself trying to make himself the best possible version of himself and that is what will win him the continued admiration and love from his wife should he fall short of this we expect that she’s going to dump him and he’ll be just another memory she has.

Kennedy Rapudo is about to become an example for all Kenyan men

Kennedy Rapudo has gone to introduce himself to his woman, Amber ray’s parents. The introductions were done and announced by his soon-to-be sister-in-law and he is over the moon as he has managed to land the woman of his dreams.

How long will Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo’s relationship last?

The thing is though, he is going to be a warning for all Kenyan men the world over as we are about to be treated to one of the most epic examples of how having a Disney mindset is terrible for men.

Socialite Amber Ray with Kennedy

You see, Kennedy Rapudo has done something that no man should ever do, he is attempting to make an honest woman out of a trollop. And this is something two men have failed previously.

Kennedy Rapudo speaks after meeting his girlfriend’s parents

I am sure he is telling himself he is not like Amber Ray’s exes. Sure, he is feeling confident and he has every reason to be. He is not Jimal Roho Safi who is always crying on social media. He has more self-control than that. And he is not Zaheer Jhanda, he isn’t married and Amber Ray hasn’t gone to see a witch doctor about him.

Amber Ray

Kennedy Rapudo though is making the exact same mistakes they did. What mistakes I hear you ask? Well, for starters, he hasn’t taken his woman to see a counsellor. Let’s face it, Amber Ray has damaged her ability to pair bond. She has had so many men and failed relationships that this has obviously taken a toll on her.

Amber Ray’s Ex Kennedy Rapudo Discloses What Led To Their Break-Up (Screenshot)

What of the fact that she is constantly sexualizing herself on social media? That is often a sign that a woman is signalling her sexual availability but could also hint at low self esteem as Amber Ray, Kennedy Rapudo’s wife-to-be, could be masking some self-esteem issues –although admittedly, the only scientific research data I could find was pertaining to adolescents.

Amber Ray

Kennedy Rapudo is clearly not familiar with the saying that Caesar’s wife must be above reproach. And posting thirst traps is actually a breach of what monogamy demands; sexual exclusivity.

We were right about Amber Ray and her newly minted ex, Kennedy Rapudo

And just like Jimal before him who thought he’d found a wife, Kennedy Rapudo is about to find out that this is not the case. But no one at the moment can force him to accept this truth. He is turning a blind eye to the fact that she is a single mother. Perhaps this is buoyed by the fact her son already has one foot out the door. But if he wishes to start a family of his own, this is not a great omen.

And all we can do is stand aside and watch… And learn. For who are we but bystanders captivated by a morbid curiosity?

Ken Rapudo is trying to make a wife of Amber Ray

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How long will Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo’s relationship last?

Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo have introduced each other’s families and they’ve declared their decision to become a family. man and wife.

Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo rekindle their love after short relationship break

Now that the introductions are done, we have to have some rather unpleasant conversations. And we’ll start with the fact that the couple is moving too fast. While that wouldn’t really faze Faith Makau (her government names), it should give Bwana Rapudo some pause.

Amber Ray

That is because he cannot say he has really tested his wife-to-be. He cannot claim to have any idea of how she reacts while under pressure nor have they even discussed important topics such as their views on money and saving, parenting style and conflict resolution.

“Sisi kitu inatunyonga tu, ni economy” Netizens react to Amber Ray’s provocative photo

This is just one of the reasons I feel this couple will be short-lived. And that’s not even mentioning the fact that Amber Ray is carrying a lot of buggage from her past relationships. She is a damaged woman who has a child. Why do you think she has been unable to remain with a man and starts family with him? It’s because she is damaged, incapable of pair bonding.

Socialite Amber Ray with Kennedy

And she hasn’t gone to counselling to help her deal with said issues. One of the issues that doubtless still haunts her is the fact that she has dealt with a violent ex. Those scars don’t just fade away, they have to be actively healed.

Amber Ray Spotted Hanging Out With Betty Kyallo’s Ex-Boyfriend Nick Ndeda, Fans React (Photo)

Add to this the fact that she is carrying the buggage of people like Jimal Roho Safi who has refused to let go of her. Amber Ray seems to attract crazies and while Kennedy Rapudo thinks he can handle the situation right now, he cannot claim to be prepared for the type of interruptions clowns like Jimal would visit on the family.

Amber Ray celebrates herself

Kennedy would do well to also be very wary of the fact that she has dealt with some very high-power individuals. No, not out of envy nor jealousy but because it also speaks to the type of woman his wife-to-be is. She is the type to seek out men for the transaction of who they are and what they can do for her. Raising the question of whether Amber Ray is truly into him because of who he is or what his position is at Amref. Add to this the fact that the more men a woman has paired with in her past, the less likely she is to be satisfied with marital life.

All we can do is wish Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray the best of luck as they embark on this new chapter of their lives but we aren’t too confident that they’ll make it a long read.

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Why everyone mocking Amber Ray is a fool and a clown

Amberay is someone who reminds me of something one of my mentors used to say that I currently find rather profound, “a beautiful woman who marries a poor man earns the wrath of her ancestors”. To be fair, this particular mentor is about of a cantankerous personality type. He is honest to a fault.

The only 2 ways socialites like Amberay and Huddah can afford their lifestyle

Anyway, Amberay has simply done what we should all have expected her to do. She located two rich men after the first, the father of her son broke her heart. You see, when Amberay started out her… Sexual history, one of the men she ended up with was a manamba who impregnated her and she opted not to evacuate her womb. After that, she came to prominence after she settled down with a successful businessman cum failed politician, Zaheer Jhanda. She chose to settle down with him as a second wife.

Fast forward to their trouble years and eventually, she was out on her own again. She chose to bounce around (if rumours are to be believed) between a few benefactors before finally settling for the man of Cushitic persuasion that she has currently been outed as being with. The man is a wealthy, young businessman who is said to have a proclivity towards chasing skirts -aswell he should be doing if he is above board about it with his wives.

Second wife’s time! Socialite Amberay enjoy Safari with rich politician husband(photos) 

Amberay came under some immense scrutiny for her decision to date a wealthy man and I was shocked at how shallow Kenyans were being. Why you ask? Because what else did you expect? When you pull your head out of your ass, you will recognize that she is a single mother without any discernable economically viable skills that would bring about income generation. She has bills to pay and has grown accustomed to the high life so why would you expect her to downgrade when she has so many options available?

She is merely actualizing her hypergamous instincts and so far, she has done so rather well. While what Amberay is doing can be off-putting to the moralists, it is perfectly normal for her to use what little resources she has in way of providing the best possible life for her child. It is troubling if you’re a Bible thumper or Quran nutter but in truth, this is simply a case of a woman using what little agency she has to get her child the best this life has to offer.

“You are fake as your filters!” Amber Ray trolled for her makeup as she enjoys her vacation with another woman’s husband

What did you lot expect? For Amberay to be a starving mess when there are people (men) who are more than willing to finance her lifestyle? Did you expect her to go slog it out in this cruel world when there are simps who are more than willing to ensure a beautiful girl like her doesn’t have to get her feet and hands muddy toiling in the brutal equatorial sun? Stop being a foolish clown.

Amber Ray

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Jimal Roho Safi is doing the most for clout

Jimal Roho Safi is on the headlines once more but I want to admit that perhaps I had misunderstood the situation. I honestly believed that he was doing what he was simply because he was unaccustomed to female attention having grown up as the ugly duckling but I want to admit that I might have been wrong.

Amber Ray displays more wisdom than Jimal Roho Safi

He is clearly a simple case of a male bimbo. That’s right, Jimal is a male bimbo doing the most for clout and damned be the victims of his misadventures. That is why he has so many of his so-called “loved ones” litter the path to his achieving clout.


What do I mean? Well, Jimal Roho Safi has been the type of man who has shown that he wants to get famous on the internet by any means necessary. Case in point? Him constantly humiliates his wife Amira and their sons by flaunting his relationship with Amber Ray publicly. He didn’t really have to live his best life that publicly. We didn’t have to know what was going on under his own roof but he chose to make us privy.

Someone tell Jimal Roho Safi money doesn’t make you a man!

And our heart broke for Amira because we saw her being humiliated for a trollop. We saw her being humiliated by her man who was chasing after a woman who was nothing more than a celebrated heaux but for some reason he wanted to involve us in his attempt to make an honest woman out of him. And it all backfired. So then what did he end up doing? Did he turn back and start celebrating her after that ill-advised relationship sunk into the sceptic tank it was always destined to plunge into?

No. He doubled down. He chased after Faith Makau and begged her to let him have just one more chance with her. And by that time she had already moved on and was seeing the next man. Hell, it was her who was recently advising him to restore his broken home. He was being advised by the daughter of Jezebel who destroyed his marriage to put it back together and focus on his wife.

Jimal Roho Safi Endorses Amber Ray And Amira To Act In Upcoming Reality Show (Screenshot)

But by then he had already gotten a taste of clout and that is one hell of a drug! He was back to chasing women and making his pursuit public for all to witness. His sons have had to watch him cavort with a trollop and hurt their mother and now he is repeating the process eagerly as he pursues Wangari Thiongo. The patterns were there for us to see and he flirted with the idea that we were tantalised by the prospect that maybe they were an item or maybe they weren’t. But we knew. We knew because he isn’t too smart at playing the game and we could see through his behavioural pattern.

And now he is back online, weeks after apologising to Amira and begging her to take him back, this time trying to say his women should be included on the upcoming show Real Housewives of Nairobi. He just doesn’t stop. Either that is because he is truly dense to social cues or because as a male bimbo he craves the limelight above all. Jimal already has money but he is still chasing after clout and status and he isn’t doing it like the rest of his peers who eered into politics, no, he is doing it like a 22 year old TikToker and lifestyle blogger.

We were right about Jimal Roho Safi

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Amber Ray displays more wisdom than Jimal Roho Safi

Amber Ray has come out to tell Jimal Roho Safi that he needs to actually start fixing the broken family he left in the wake of his ill-advised pursuit of Jezebel and her garden of Eden.

Amber Ray Advices Jimal To Fix His Family

Let that sink in. The other woman is literally giving great advice to the man who was willing to risk it all in the name of love and he did his day 1 love dirty.

Amber Ray celebrates herself

That should tell you just how dense Jimal Roho Safi is. And the worst part about it is that he was expecting his estranged wife, Amira, a woman who had to endure all the humiliation that came with people attaching her husband to an illicit affair with a trollop to just accept his apology. He expected to barrel through and win her heart.

“I forgive myself” Jimal Rohosafi makes peace with himself despite wife refusing to accept his public apology

And the funniest thing about all this is the fact that Jimal Roho Safi doesn’t know what to do. He will probably reach out to Amber Ray to get some ideas on how to win back his wife. And for aslong as they are chatting, he will keep widening the chasm between himself and his wife.


You have to pity Amira at this point. She has married a man who though he’s allowed by religion and culture to have multiple wives, he opted to instead run around the streets of Mlolongo with trollops. And her sons had to endure their mother’s humiliation. And now she is being looked at as the impediment to her familial success and happiness.

“F**k your standards” Jimal Rohosafi leaves eyebrows raised with cryptic post after wife declined apology

And when her husband, Jimal Roho Safi decides he wants his family back, she is expected to accept his blundering and idiotic apology that read more like a bully demanding forgiveness than anything else. And she knows now that he puts way more effort into cavorting with random Nairobi women than into trying to win her back.

Jimal’s new babe

That would utterly devastate me were I in her shoes. Hopefully Amber Ray will shoot Jimal a quick text explaining to him what to do to win back his wife.

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The reason so many female celebs dislike Amber Ray

Amber Ray seems to be a lightning rod for all the negativity and beef that female celebrities seem capable of engaging in and tolerating.

Amber Ray Advices Jimal To Fix His Family

She apparently has beef with Vera Sidika and even has beef with Amira (Jimal Roho Safi’s estranged wife. But while we can understand why she would be at odds with her former co-wife, we cannot understand why there would be any friction between her and Vera.

Amber Ray celebrates herself

However, the truth is, Vera and Amber Ray would have beef with each other for the simple reason that both lack talent and are literally known for the only thing they have to offer; sexual appeal.

“I think she is fake and akona roho Mbaya” Amber Ray gives opinion on Vera Sidika

Think about it, Vera Shikwekwe Sidika isn’t particularly talented. She’s no great actor nor is her music career worth writing home about.

Vera Sidika

And given how forgettable the two of them are, they are bound to either be fast friends or mortal enemies. Think about it, two people in a market selling mangoes to the same crowd will eventually get nasty with each other because they see the other as a limitation to their growth. Add to this the fact that they both share a collective history with Brown Mauzo.

Amber Ray Addresses Beef With Amira After Moving On (Screenshot)

But this is also the reason why a lot of female celebs do not like Amber Ray. What I mean is not the bit about Brown Mauzo but rather the fact that she is overt with the selling of her sensuality. Kenyan celebrities often lean way too heavily on their sexual appeal. That is why most singers for example, who lose their youth and attractiveness end up either getting saved and going gospel or disappearing into oblivion.

So what is a lady to do? Well, unfortunately, there is little else that Amber ray can do. At this point, all her eggs are in one basket. She is known for nothing other than her body and the fact that men find her sexy.

Ken Rapudo is trying to make a wife of Amber Ray

And in due time, when she is no longer the most popular socialite, she too will start beefing with the younger, hotter trollops that become the flavour of the month.

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Someone tell Jimal Roho Safi money doesn’t make you a man!

Jimal Roho Safi has made my afternoon today after he posted an emotional post that was truly so filled with feminine energy, it was not just cringe inducing but also confirmed to me that he is not any good at being a man!

We were right about Jimal Roho Safi

I want you to picture if you will, hearing your father utter the words that he did and you tell me if you would have respect for him:

Jimal’s new babe

I forgive myself for not being perfect!

Amber Ray vs Amira: Jimal Roho Safi is evidence of what happens when weak men try polygamy

And that is a real quote taken of some emotional rant that he went on after his wife refused to accept his apology that came months after he not only humiliated her in the manner in which he went about marrying a trollop called Amber Ray but then later allegedly carrying on with his subordinate (his employee) although the two have since denied anything went down between Jimal Roho Safi and her.

First of all, no. That is one of the most arrogant apologies I have ever come across. And he is forgiving himself for the wrong thing. He needs to forgive himself for being weak. And the only way to do that would be for him to shut up and do the work required for him to become better at being a man.

Jimal Roho Safi Flaunts His Luxurious Fleet Of Cars (Video)

You see, given that we are a third-world shitehole, we tend to get carried away with wealth and we created a culture that absolves the worst of the worst for their crimes and sins along as they are wealthy. That is why Jimal Roho Safi can still attract some useless slags and weak-minded men: he is a wealthy man. And we conflate that as a sign that he is a man. Nah mama, he is a male, not a man.

And we could see this months ago when we warned him that he needs to become the kind of man he would be proud of his sons becoming. And that included him realising that he shouldn’t have humiliated their mother so publicly. Instead, he was busy immersing himself in hedonism and lust as he ran the town with a lady who we all knew was going to turn his life into hell.

In Amber Ray’s shadow: Jimal Roho Safi is a fool if he thinks we will pity him

I mean, sure he has money but you cannot buy masculinity. And he is terrible at that aspect of being. Jimal Roho Safi is literally an example of men who realise their money can buy them transactional attention and then they fall head over heels for those same Jezebel spirits while humiliating their day ones. And now he is weeping and begging her to come back to him as he posts gabarge about forgiving himself.

Amira Jimal embarks on weight loss journey

A grown man has resorted to taking plays from female guidebooks and he expects us to sympathize with him? Oh well, if he knew how to be stoic I wouldn’t have a story to tell and an opinion to inform.

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Ken Rapudo is trying to make a wife of Amber Ray

This is hilarious! Amber Ray will supposedly be saved by her new man Ken Rapudo. And by golly, he is truly putting in his best effort but I am here to tell you that things will not work out quite the way he hopes they will.

We recently saw a video of her trying to do what she usually does, marketing whatever her clients have asked her to sell on their behalf using her body. It’s nothing new if you’re familiar with her brand.

Amber Ray getting married?

And now we have Rapudo thinking he can swoop in and win where other men failed? Remember she was married to Zaheer Jhanda and then to Jimal Roho Safi (Jamal Marlow)? And they all failed in their attempts to make an honest woman of Amber Ray.

Amber Ray Sues Madollar Mapesa For Defamation

So now the couple is on holiday in Mombasa and that is a great thing BUT Mr Man is trying to tell his woman to stop posting videos that feature her thirst trapping. And we both know this is a tall order.

He is trying to change Amber Ray yet he found her behaving a certain way and this is probably what made him fall for her. That is like falling in love with a pylon pole for what you see in it and once you’re dating it, you demand to know why it isn’t a barrier fence.

We were right about Amber Ray and her newly minted ex, Kennedy Rapudo

And I too have to admit that I was wrong about their situation. I misread it because I ascribed wisdom and intelligence to both of them, assuming that theirs was a business situation that was meant to live ken clout and Amber money… Nope, they seem to be dating.

Long and short of it? They will fail. You cannot make a woman of a certain reputation and renown into a housewife. And when the chicken come home to roost, we’ll all just be left laughing.

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We were right about Amber Ray and her newly minted ex, Kennedy Rapudo

I don’t think it comes as a surprise to anyone that Amber Ray and her newly minted ex-boyfriend, Kennedy Rapudo have broken up. Actually, the only surprising thing about that development is the time frame. That was such a short-lived relationship that there can only be one explanation for why things played out as they did; she has made a business out of making men get social media clout.

‘Wameachana?’-Amber Ray And Her New Boyfriend Unfollow Each Other On Instagram, Delete Each Other’s Photos (Screenshot)

Think about it, there is no way that a man can possibly think it to be a wise idea to get involved with the trollop. No, really, there is not a man with two brain cells to rub together who would do more than enjoy a quick romp with Ms Makau (I think she never did take up Jimal Roho Safi’s name) given her reputation this is the only logical conclusion.

Amber Ray exposed by former BFF

But… See… Kenyan men *sigh* Kenyan men are a bit of a disappointment. Kenyan men worship the ground upon which Amber Ray walks. Why? Because they are unimaginative simps. Nah, really, Amber Ray’s derriere and above-average (cute) face is enough for a lot of Kenyan men to chase after her. And that is showcased by the fact that not one, but two members of the peanut gallery actually put their marriages at risk for a chance to call her theirs.

Amber Ray’s Ex Reacts To Her Break-Up With New Boyfriend (Screenshot)

We have already mentioned Jimal Roho Safi so at this point we have to introduce Zaheer Jhanda. A man whose wife cried bitterly about the fact that our dear socialite (is that even a word we use anymore or am I just around old heads too often?) was a cancer to her marriage and had even been moved into her house when she separated with her husband temporarily.

Amber Ray getting married?

I am truly not impressed by how Kenyan men handle side chicks because they actually try to make honest wives of them. But, we were ultimately right because it was here that we said that the relationship would be short-lived and it was. Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo have called it quits and we are happy that they did so amicably. Unless…

Amber Ray’s Boyfriend Defends Her Against Cheating Allegations By Her Ex (Screenshot)

Theirs was a business arrangement which saw her give him her clout so he could really grow his digital footprint and audience. In which case, then it was a brilliant strategy although not one that can be replicated often. Still, we have witnessed our esteemed businessman go from being an unknown entity to gaining some social capital and clout. Hell, his IG following ballooned so as far as he’s concerned it all worked out.

Amber Ray

That’s my story and I am sticking to it. I refuse to think Kennedy Rapudo, a man I do not know and have never even interacted with is stupid enough to have tried to wife up Amber Ray.

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Kabba, Amber Ray’s ex needs to stop whining

Kabba, Amber Ray’s ex is constantly whining about the fact that she did him dirty and while we get that he’s hurting, he really does need to stop bitching and focus on healing and moving on because ultimately, this just makes him look weak and pathetic.

‘Fear Women’-Amber Ray’s Ex-Boyfriend Reacts To Introduction Of Her New Man (Screenshot)

No, really, he gets no sympathy because ultimately, he knew that he was getting involved with a woman that belonged to the streets. How could he not know? He saw the stories on blogs and websites about her. He could see that he was just a rebound after she had gotten into a messy relationship with hr ex, Jimal Roho Safi and he knew she had virtually ended his marriage to Amira.

So why is he still crying and constantly picking fights with her on social media? Nah, really, Kabba is a man behaving like he missed out on his teenage years. Actually, he is simping for a trollop and that is definitely not a good look.

‘Mwanaume Ni Pesa, Sio Mdomo’-Amber Ray Throws Shade At Ex-Boyfriend

Can you imagine him actually starting to move on? The women he would be looking to date going forward are being treated to the fact that the man is still simping over a heaux. Why would they take him seriously? Hell, why would his friends take him seriously? He is showing signs of being needy and clingy and that is not a good look.

Speaking of his friends, he must not have any real friends because they should have taken his phone away from him by now and checked him on the childish way he is behaving. Hell, they should have given him loads of alcohol and allowed him to cry out his frustrations and helped him move on. Just kidding, what Kabba needs is therapy, not alcohol.

“Some people will never forget me” Amber Ray unapologetically mocks bitter ex boyfriend following bush s€x exposé

To make matters worse, Amber Ray has already moved on and is not with some guy called Kennedy Rapudo. She is living her best life and sharing the snapshots of it on social media while he is still crying and clinging to her legs. So all his whining only adds to her mystique while betraying the fact that he is a low-value man with low self-esteem.

And to think he is a foreigner with money is good-looking and tall. Sometimes, the gifts of the gods are wasted on wastrels who use them to merely simp. Truly heartbreaking.

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Why women like Amber Ray still post thirst traps

Amber Ray is not the type of woman to settle down. How do I know this? Simple deduction my dear Watson! She is currently in a relationship and still posting thirst traps? Why do you think that is the case? Well, it’s because she is still advertising her availability to any other suitors who might have more money than her current lover.

Amber Ray vs Amira: Jimal Roho Safi is evidence of what happens when weak men try polygamy

After all, you and I both know she vets her lovers on the basis of money and little else. That’s also because only fools with more cents than sense would bother with a trollop like her. She is literally a walking billboard of the type of women any man with matter between his ears should avoid -except if you only want a fun time.

Amber Ray

You see, Amber Ray is not only a terrible choice for a wife but she is a real-life Jezebel. She is a man-eater and she is quite experienced in that role. Look at her victims, men like Zaheer Jhanda and Jimal Roho Safi. Their homes and families were almost ruined by her (perhaps in the latter’s case, the ruin was final).

Amber Ray- Amira Online Tiff Ignited As Amber Claps Back At Amira (Screenshot)

But Amber Ray is a rare breed; a woman who knows why men want to get with her. And she leverages this fact very well. That in and of itself is a sign of great intelligence. Street smarts if you will. This is a woman who has seen humiliation and she absorbed it and learned from it.

One of the lessons she doubtless took to heart was the fact that money answereth all. And so she has decided that while she still has the looks to attract many a simp, she will play them like fiddles and diddle them off their money, damned be the consequences.

Nikubad: Amber Ray turns to marriage for financial support

And these schmucks keep coming to her. Men like Zaheer, men like jimal and now her new man, Kennedy Rapudo. If she were smart, she’d turn this into a complete business for her and target men who want clout. That way, she can actually charge them for her time and platform. I mean, we witnessed Jimal Roho Safi get elevated from some unknown entity to a huge social media influencer and d-list celebrity! Such is the power of her clout. The same is currently at play for Kennedy.

But woe unto any man who would be harbouring the dream to make an honest woman of her. Because she is always scouring the horizon for the next financially established man. And when he pops up (even if it’s merely on her periphery), she will dumb you and move on. Why else do you think a woman who is currently spoken for is busy posting thirst traps on social media?

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Amber Ray vs Amira: Jimal Roho Safi is evidence of what happens when weak men try polygamy

A couple of months back, I argued m,y case that not all men can handle polygamy and I used the example of Jimal Roho Safi and his short-lived marriage to Amber Ray, a femme fatale whom he allowed to destroy his foundational marriage to Amira. And boy has his relationships been an entire train wreck.

At the time what I said was “Amber Ray was the talk of the town after she managed to get herself a husband in the form of Jamal Marlow who is by any interpretation of the words a high net worth individual. What really pushed the narrative into the realm of juicy gossip is the fact that he is a married man prior to his taking her own.

What is interesting is that as soon as he made the declaration in an attempt to give his new wife legitimacy, his other family began to experience cracks as his wife started closing ranks with Amber Ray’s former co-wife (yes, this is the second time this lady has been involved in a polygamous setting) and even he had to accept that indeed, he was experiencing some turmoil pursuant to his decision.

And at this point, the focus shifts entirely onto Jamal and the fact that he is clearly failing at maintaining a polygamous marriage. This is hilarious to witness because his faith actually empowers him to take on two more wives.

Amberay financial times: stop taking advice from socialites

So why does he suck so bad at this whole polygamy thing given it is what a lot of men dream of. Let us dive into a few factors that are both his failure and the reason why he might eventually oversee the failure of his household:

Jamal introduces Amberay to his people

#1. He publicly humiliated his wife

You never ever humiliate the mother of your children unnecessarily and that is precisely what he did. You see, Jamal does not know the edicts of what makes marriages work and one of those edicts is the fact that even as you pursue an affair you never humiliate your wife.
And in order to protect his new wife’s public image, he has done precisely that, completely forgetting about his family (at least from what we see on social media) and focusing solely on Amber Ray.

Why no one should take Amberay’s opinion on colourism seriously

His wife has doubtless had to endure DMS and even whispers as she goes about her business. Some of which are laden with pity while most are laden with vitriol. Trust me when I say that at his weakest, Jamal will have to contend with his first wife’s ire because as the adage goes, hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.

#2. He has taken on a wife who belongs to the streets

Amber Ray is a single mother who got involved with a multimillionaire failed politician in the person of Zaheer Jhanda who found out he couldn’t wife her and stay with his homestead intact. He too was a Muslim.
It is the height of hubris to simply assume you will succeed where your predecessor failed. To top that off, this is a woman who was happy to be a video vixen for the celebrities she dated.

Jamal Marlow Jimal Roho Safi

Not only does this socialite not have a great relationship track record, but she was also once shown to have visited a witch doctor -a claim she refused, saying she was acting in an ad that was never released. Add to this the fact that she lacks the common sense to know she shouldn’t be stirring the waters of the family she is now joining and you see why there is a huge cause for concern.

Gotta love her guts: Why you can’t help but love Amberay

#3. The relationship started out as an affair

As my mentor put it, “If she cheated for you, she will cheat on you”

According to Jamal’s wife, when the two started dating, she had no idea what was going on. This goes contrary to Islamic teachings but more importantly, it is only a fool who thinks that a woman who was willing to be his partner as he partook in infidelity is going to be loyal to him.

Perhaps for now Jamal is safe because they have new relationship energy going for them. Perhaps it is because he is the best possible option available to Amberay or perhaps she simply wants to prove the haters wrong. But the day will come when other options will avail themselves to her. What then?

And today I am doing my victory lap because I have been proven correct on every front. He is a failure of a husband and father. Why do I make these bold assertions? Because he has failed his wives by undertaking a serious commitment like polygamy in such a piss-poor manner that he has completely humiliated his wife, Amira and he did so for a trollop.
And what can we say about his fathering? He is a father who has subjected his sons to having to watch their mother get humiliated in a way that just keeps giving.

Men like Jimal Roho Safi are men who lacked game and therefore options; before the money started streaming in. And now, he has his pick of women and he is splurging. Imagine having such a man as your father figure. As a result, the two women are still fighting online because he failed to provide leadership and direction.

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Why Amber Ray always has messy relationships

Amber Ray’s immediate ex-boyfriend, a man who is known as Kabba has come out to bash her for what he alleges is her living a fake life or what he considers to be a fake lifestyle.

Amber Ray’s Ex-Boyfriend Exposes Her, Claims She Lives A Fake Life On Social Media(Screenshot)

Interestingly, he isn’t the only one of her men who has come out to attack her once they are done with their often short-lived flings. Jimal Roho Safi is yet another example.

So what is it about Amber Ray that makes her attract such men and why do their relationships often have the same terrible outcomes? It’s literally the case of “same script, different cast”. What I want to do is to explain to you why that is the case.

Amber Ray learns the true difference between clout and fame

The genesis of all her troubles stems from the fact that she is living her life for other people. She is literally trying to live a reality TV lifestyle through social media. And this affects all her choices. Simple things such as who she dates and where she goes to spend some R&R down to the people she spends time with are dictated by the factor which will translate into the most social media clout.

And as a result, everyone and everything she attracts to herself is fake. Every situation she puts herself into is fake so why would she expect to have any real relationships? What type of men do you think are attracted to a single mother who runs on social media and does all her digital heauxing in the presence of her son? Seriously, what sort of man do you think would be attracted to Amber Ray?

Amber Ray shares important life lesson she looks forward to teaching her daughter in future

That is why she only really seems to attract f-boys and men stuck in their teenage angst. Men who want to be known for bedding a “celebrity”. Men who do not see a real future with her perhaps with the exception of Jimal Roho Safi who actually married her in a traditional ceremony.

The type of men she wants to be around are narcissists. They are the type to follow their relationship on social media. That is why they ignore all the red flags she displays proudly. Never mind the fact that she too is choosing to overlook the red flags they display.

Amber Ray Confirms She’s Dating & Ready To Get Married For The 3rd Time (Screenshot)

And as a result, Amber Ray will continue to have short-lived and meaningless flings. As a result, every relationship she enters and eventually exits will be problematic both in their duration and at the end. The one thing that she seems to be lucky at is having learnt not to pick violent men.

But can you imagine what she is teaching her son? What do you think Amber Ray’s baby boy is picking up from the way his mother operates? I can already see another f-boy in the making.

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Amber Ray learns the true difference between clout and fame

Amber Ray had a club appearance in Dubai that was supposed to bring together Kenyans living in the area who were eager to meet her -her fans- or so the club promoter and owners thought.

‘I Dreamt Of This For A Long Time’-Amber Ray Delighted With Her Dubai Tour

Unfortunately, as has been reported by the likes of Edgar Obare, the event was a complete bust. She could only manage to wrangle up a handful of fans who turned up for the meet and greet.

The club owner found out the hard way that what Amber Ray boasts of having is clout, not fame. And there is a marked difference between the two. Today I want us to look at the chasm that separates the two and it should show us and her (aswell as her fellow “celebrities”) why she just isn’t bankable.

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When you mention a celebrity, Kenyans think of anyone who has more than a handful of social media followers. However, when people speak about celebrities the world over, they are speaking about more than just influencers. They are talking about pop culture thought-shapers who can call on their adoring fans to perhaps purchase goods that they endorse. Or they can actually “influence” people to move and think a certain way about products or services by simply hinting they are everyday users.

Amber Ray is not someone who can boast of shifting the pop culture zeitgeist. She cannot claim to have influenced Kenyans’ behaviour nor can she claim to have helped sell any products -which is why she doesn’t have any of her own merchandise to sell. To put it simply, she is a loud passenger on the bus, not the driver. She is a peculiarity that gives us thirst traps to peruse (she should actually move her antics to Only Fans) but little else.

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If you were to take, say, Sauti Sol for a club appearance in Dubai, Kenyans would come to meet them. Why? Because we admire and want to be associated with them. If you were to take Nyashinski, same deal. But what if you were to take, say, Shakilla? Because let’s face it, she and Amber Ray are within the same bracket.

Do you think Kenyans living and working in say, Cape Town would be looking to come out and meet them? What of Kenyans in Brisbane? Or Helsinki? You would simply be trying to convince Kenyans to visit your club to meet thots… And thots (and hotter ones at that) are a dime a dozen.

Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother there is

I mean, are, Kenyans will follow them on social media because they are provocative and we know that “gets the people going”. Amber Ray goes online to post a thirst trap or her photos with someone’s husband? Sure, we will follow to check them out because they make for good water cooler gossip but if she told me to drink some pop soda because she likes it, I wouldn’t trust her opinion enough to care for. And the fact that she is a social media celebrity means she only has clout among urban audiences in Nairobi and Mombasa. People in Lodwar don’t care about her.

Amber Ray

And clout is why she always tries to up the ante on social media. It’s why she has to appear online wearing less and less. Because that is the only way she can hold the attention of her thirsty fans. She has to chase clout because she doesn’t have anything else to offer. Meanwhile, Otile Brown will be able to fill up a club in Bahrain by simply walking in because fans know they can be treated to an impromptu karaoke session… Something that’s actually worth their hard-earned coin. he has more to offer than being ogled at. He is a true celebrity. Afterall, if you wanted to sit down and gawk at an entitled (debatably pretty) woman, you don’t need to fly in Amber Ray, you just need to pull in some random woman off the streets given how modern women behave these days.

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Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother there is

Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother you can ever impregnate or try to hitch your wagon to and while we all know this on a visceral level, today I am going to put pen to paper and explain to you exactly why your lizard brain knows this to be the ultimate truth.

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And to start us off, we are going to revisit some statements she recently made regarding her experience with being a single mother. And what she had to say will come as a surprise to most feminists and useless women who have convinced themselves that men are nothing more than mere sperm donors:

”It’s not easy being a single mother. But nimemanage.”

And we have to look at Amber Ray and how it is that she managed to be a single mother for her son. And the answer is that she turned to men. Not the boy’s father because she admitted that he was a useless man who couldn’t punch his way out of a wet brown paper bag but other men that she had relations with. And what that means for her son is precisely why she is the worst kind of single mother there is.

Amber Ray
Amberay is not a bastion of intelligence

You see, women can become single mothers for a myriad of reasons. For starters, the most traditionally acceptable reason is the fact that she might be widowed. She was happily married (or otherwise to be honest) and then the husband died. Their children are now being raised in a single-mother household. The thing that differentiates this from the other types of single mother households is the fact that her in-laws, the children’s father’s family usually rally around the single mother and offer support.

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Then there are the women who divorced/ separated from their partners (I am going to take married couples and long term couples in the same breathe) and then become single mothers. The interesting thing about this to note is the fact that single mothers are usually the ones to initiate the split. And as a result, they lack a support network because even though her own family tells her they have her back, that eventually evaporates once that same set of people get responsibilities of their own. And the children grow up bitter and angry. Do not argue with me, go and argue with your mother and statistics.

Amber Ray

And the final type is the group to which Amber Ray belongs to; women who were trollops trapping tricks with babies. These are the women who are heaux and meet wealthy Johns. And to secure their financial future, they trap a man with a baby. A subsection of these women usually already come with a baby in tow. So what they do is they convince men to take care of another man’s offspring. We have seen Amber ray very competently play at this. We saw it with both Zaheer Jhanda and Jimal Roho Safi. It is nothing new and if you play this well, then like former socialite Daisy Rioba, you too will get married to a wealthy white man who can ignore the fact that you’ve been run through.

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But what makes Amber Ray the worst type of single mother? the fact that she does not even attempt to hide her shenanigans from her son. Let alone hiding it, she does not even attempt to protect him from who she is (a heaux0 and instead, exposes him to it by including him in her digital life and her online presence. that young man knows who his mother is. He sees her with multiple different men. He sees her social media and that includes her more adventurous bathroom photos and videos. He also gets to witness her shenanigans as she chases after men and attempts to please them with thirst traps.

Amber Ray

What sort of boy wants to see his mother live her heaux life? If you were to marry a woman such as her, you would eventually have to make peace with the fact that when she sires children for you, they will be exposed to the adult side of life way too soon. They will even be made to participate in the garbage by taking photos of her to entice new men.

What do you think will happen to men like Amber Ray’s son? He will grow up either a completely useless simp or he will grow up completely rejecting women who are in his mind, all like his mother so he will either go asexual or gay. And you can argue with your mother on that or actually research the topic.

So when you meet trollops with children, keep the interaction light and fun. Do not meet their children and for the love of God, do not be a moronic simp like Jimal Roho Safi who threw out his entire family for a short-lived duck-fling.

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