You all remember how Kiss 100’s Lynda Nyangweso was attacked by a section of malicious #KOT because of her weight? Well, level-headed Kenyans defended her, urging her to keep her head high and mind less about the intimidators.
The latest to defend the presenter cum singer is Cabu Gah who thinks Kenyans on Twitter were “childlish, cheap and stupid” for cyber-bullying Lynda. Here’s why;
My name is Ken Kabuga. I am an Entertainer. And I’m skinny. Yup,quite skinny. Or thin,if you like. Back in 2009,I desperately wanted a “body”. I wanted to be big…cuz I thought that I would be taken more seriously if I had a “body”. Yea,I thought girls would flock to me too…and so,a bunch of my pals gave me some seductive advice: STEROIDS/VITAMIN PILLS. They told Me that 80% of the male youth were using them. And so should I. I hate drugs. And so,it was a NO for Me!
Again,they adviced me to try milk. Told me that milk is PERFECT for growing a “body”. And so,I signed up for a strict regiment of milk EVERYDAY. I took milk and took and took. Anyday,anytime. Everywhere. I took endless litres of milk and milk cream. Still,NOTHING changed. Even after 3 months! I was dissapointed. Greatly.
Now,I am a performer. I tour schools and colleges with my team. And one day,we were at Kangaru Girls School. And just for fun,My friend and I decided to hype up the crowd of girls. My friend has a “body”. Yup,He’s well-biult. With a huge chest,muscles and such crap. And me? Mr.Skinny. So I asked the girls,”Kati Yangu na huyu boy mnataka mgani ?” And well,almost half of the school picked my friend. And,THANK GOD,the other half pointed at Me. I asked them,”Mbona mmechagua huyu fala?” And his admirers screamed back,”Mwili! Mwili! Ako na Body poa!!”
And then HE asked my supporters,”Na yeye? Mbona mmemchagua?” And my team shouted back,”Funny! He’s funny! He’s fun!”
And that was that! FUNNY.
And just then,It occured to Me; So,I had somethng else to offer,after all?
Hey,WE CANT BE EVERYTHNG TO EVERYONE. And also,WE CANT CHANGE WHO WE ARE just to “fit in”.
I was desperately trying to be huge. And it wasnt working. And I quit the whole milk crap! THIS WAS ME. Ken Kabuga. And this was WHO I WAS. I am WHOM I AM. Nothng more. Nothng less.
I saw Kenyans on Twitter mercilessly attacking Linda Nyangweso of Kiss FM for her huge body physique. And it hurt me,too.
Did Linda choose the body to be in? NO.
Does Linda have control of her body size? NO.
Would Linda choose to have an “acceptable body”? YES.
But can she control it? Maybe NO.
So,Kenyans on Twitter,
STOP attacking a girl just because she is huge! Thats CHILDISH,CHEAP AND STUPID!
Attack her for her scandals,choices,words or actions BUT NOT SIZE. No,NOT SIZE.
SIZE is BEYOND US. Its the work of God.
My eldest sister is also huge. And I would hate to see her berated,insulted and harangued for her size.
People,
You CANT PLEASE EVERYONE. Whether tall or short,whether fat or skinny,whether dark or light-skinned,Yup,whether they think you are beautiful or ugly,
There is SOMEONE SOMWHERE who appreciates You for WHO YOU ARE. Not WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE.
Its about time we focused on WHO THE PERSON IS. Not HOW a person is.
Birds cant swim. And fish cant fly. But THEY ARE BOTHS EXPERTS in their fields!
One man’s strength is another man’s weakness.
Linda Nyangweso,
Keep doing your thing girl.
You have better stuff to worry about than just a stupid weight debate!
STOP THE JUDGEMENT NOW!!!